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You're using me do on DJ part.

Was there another part that I should dwell on?

All the stress from upper point.

I'm just we don't ever talk about the DJing thing we've talked about lover boy for years. I know it stresses you out. I know you're always trying to figure it out.

Just wondering what your plan is with DJing also because I'm not really roped into it. I didn't marry a DJ and all of a sudden I'm now the wife of one.

I never married a DJ so what's happening? Hello everyone. Welcome to everything iconic with me Danny Pellegrino that was a clip from this week's episode of Summer House.

Amanda was so brave in that scene not only for telling her husband about how she felt about his new DJ career, but also she was doing so much eating in that scene.

And you know how I feel about eating on camera and that woman, Kyle's alleged that she's been smoking the ganja at night and I don't know if she was or not, but she was doing a lot of eating in that scene.

And I'm just someone who's very sensitive to that because I always think like if I was on a reality show I'd be so scared to eat on camera because you're shoveling food in your mouth and all of a sudden you see yourself on screen and it looks crazy.

And so I she was doing some brave eating work on that scene. I mean half the time I was even listening to what she was saying and I'm still of course very clearly I want to say that I'm team Amanda.

I'm team Amanda despite the fact that last week I was on watch what happens live with DJ Kyle Cook.

That's right. I don't know if anyone caught it last week after the episode of Summer House aired. I was on watch what happens live with Kyle.

And so I got up close and personal I was able to try to ask some questions on air. I was trying to give him the business.

And of course Andy was grilling him too about all the stuff that's going on behind the scenes whether or not Amanda's dating West or Jesse or any of these other people and whether or not Kyle cheated during the relationship and Andy was really grilling and I was trying to get in there too because I was working for the people for you guys.

You know we got to all get the answers to what we got to get the answers for and so luckily Kyle was a good sport about it. He was and he's still very attractive.

I do I have said that before in the podcast I've gone on record.

Gun on record saying that he's very attractive man on Bravo and somehow is aging backwards and I don't like that.

I don't like that because I was even looking at him person sometimes you watch these shows and you think maybe they just look pretty on camera because of the lighting or something.

But then in person he just looks like very youthful like very young I can't even believe on this episode he's celebrating his 43rd birthday and I'm like what the fuck is that?

What is he doing there and I was trying to I'm looking for like injection marks or some sort of I don't know the threadings or plastic surgery scars or something like that and I didn't see not a one.

So I'm like what deal with the devil did he make?

It's sick. It's sick and actually PMO piss me off.

Anyway we're going to talk about summer house on the show today we got so much to discuss and I do love at the beginning of the episode it was like privacy on some of us.

It was like Ben's australian accent. Did you guys get your privacy on some of us?

I don't think I'm doing I'm not doing it justice, but if you go back and listen I like that they had him doing the privacy on some of us.

What a bottle you know we and speaking of what a bottle we open with them playing spin the dare with the spin the bottle.

And they just have three lover boys I look I didn't understand the rules of this game.

We're playing some sort of spin the bottle truth or dare situation and honestly like one of my one of the things that I'm just not good at is if I'm playing a game with a group of people I cannot listen to the rules.

And I think of myself as I can intelligent human being but whether or not I'm drinking or completely sober if somebody's trying to explain the rules of a game in a group.

I'm just not going to breathe it in my brain is just not going to accept it like it can't hear it it can't I can't put the puzzle pieces together to understand it.

And so even watching this I was it wasn't even involved in the group I'm just watching on TV show and somebody's trying to explain like how we're playing the rules of this game.

And I'm like I don't fucking understand what they're even saying like what are the rules why were there three.

I understand spin the bottle because I played that before we're doing like three spin the bottles.

And then Amanda was at one point was suggesting different rules for the married people and Ben was like absolutely not because Ben I'm sorry to say like I mentioned last week I do think that he wants to you know what with Amanda.

He does he wants to make her panties drop drop drop.

Make it go pop pop pop until my panties go drop drop drop drop.

Did you guys ever see that episode of Watch what happens live with DJ James Kennedy and Lala Kent.

It was years ago it was a van from Vanderpump rules and they were on Watch what happens live.

And it's one of my favorite appearances that has ever happened on Watch what happens live.

And I felt like this was the week that we needed to add it to the sound board because at one point in that episode Lala just starts singing.

And then after she starts singing James is rapping and he's beatboxing and it's it's so good.

There ain't nobody that I'm feeling more than you boy.

So let's keep him moving.

Make it go pop pop pop until my panties go drop drop drop.

I can't I can't believe that happened.

And I had to add it to the sound board so it's making me laugh.

Anyway, so yes, I do believe that Ben is trying to make Amanda's panties go drop drop drop.

And until she goes pop pop pop whatever the hell all I was saying in that impromptu performance that she gave on Watch what happens live.

But so they have these different rules and so they're not playing by the different rules.

And they do end up having a lot of smooches.

A lot of smooches happen and Sierra and Bailey tongue kiss at one point.

And then Ben and Bailey two Bailey skin Bailey skin the action.

And then kiss and everybody in that cast and perhaps other people said we didn't see because she kisses Ben.

Despite the fact that last week there was this whole thing between Bailey and Ben because at the dinner table she had said she blurted out like Ben wants to fuck Amanda.

And then of course it was big drama and then Ben goes up to her room and is like how dare you say that or whatever.

And Bailey starts crying. She's like it was triggered by him. It was like this whole thing.

And everybody the whole week I've been seeing so many people argue back and forth whether or not Bailey was right or you on Bailey's side or Ben's side.

And then meanwhile this week then they're just smooching up the joint playing this game of truth or dare spin the bottle with three different lover boys.

I still don't understand that why do we have three love is it was that just for lover boy promo.

I don't know.

I was trying to get to the bottom of the lover boy to when I saw Kyle at watch what happens live.

And he was even explaining to me some like the business side of things and saying oh well.

I can't even explain it because it was like a lot of business. I hate to say mumbo jumbo put it's like a lot of business mumbo jumbo.

And I even as he was telling me it was like you know how you sort of check out of the conversation like God bless and he's very wonderful man but explaining it to me in that moment.

And yet I didn't understand any of it and he was saying on the show he's tried to explain some of the business mechanics of lover boy but they edited out because it's not what the show is about.

And so anyway I still don't quite understand but I guess lover boy seven some trouble he said he had to invest of course.

I think he was like hoping that the lover boy business side of things would be worked out by now but it's not but they're getting all this free promo aren't they on the show.

Anyway everyone's making out even Ben gets in naked in the pool he's got a cute little caboose.

Does he does make it go pop pop pop until my panties go drop drop drop.

That's when I was thinking when I saw that cute little caboose and Ben was.

Happened in the pool. Now Amanda accidentally called Levi Lexi because Lexi was a previous cast member we also had a previous Bailey.

And so I do think that they're going to have to circle about different names but if they bring in new cast members and they have the same names as former cast members.

Then we're just going to have to change them I don't care if it's legally or just for the show but we're going to need something different because these Levi's Lexi's Bailey's.

They're getting confusing for me to and I'm taking notes.

But Levi makes out with Jesse and they are editing Levi out of the show I was trying to get to the bottom of that with Kyle and from what I understand.

And obviously this stays between us girlfriends because I know I'm getting trouble them spilling on the dirt that I got.

Not that I got a lot of dirt but it seems to me like Levi is being edited out of the show and I think Dara was perhaps added late to the show which is why Dara is sort of like not in the mix right now.

She was of course KJ is talking about how they're dating and kind of hooking up but I think they added Dara sort of late in the run.

I don't think Dara maybe was necessarily supposed to be in the whole season but then she got in the mix.

And Levi I think hasn't been getting in the mix and so they're like okay see Levi get out of here get the fuck out about you get the fuck out.

God bless Levi but she's just flopping you can't flop and that's I've seen some people say like oh they need to give Levi a chance or they should show Levi more.

And the truth is they would if she was interesting and they just can't she's not interesting they're not going to show the person and I don't think.

I understand sometimes bringing people back for a second season if they had sort of a rough go at the first season.

But if they're flopping too hard right off the bat then we need to just cut our losses because this valuable screen time there's plenty of other people that need to be on screen for us to watch.

And so if you can't even make compelling TV when you're first getting out there then unfortunately you're going to got to go.

And so that's what's happening with Levi she's going to got to go.

Okay so then West is flirting West is definitely I hate I don't want to say that West is on something other than lover boy.

But I am implying it because he's checked out I don't know where West is but he's certainly not on earth or in present as he's being filmed this episode.

And you can see when he's holding Sierra's leg now again I'm not alleging that it was doing any sorts of drugs or or I'm not alleging that he perhaps wouldn't well they were out at night got into some other substances or anything like that I'm not saying that I'm not saying that outright I'm not going to say that outright on a microphone it's a big accusation so I'm not going to say that directly to any of you.

I'm just here to report on the show but I feel things in my soul and I might not have facts or receipts or proof.

However I feel things and so something that I feel I might not always want to say directly however moving on.

Okay so West is holding Sierra's leg and he moving the chair closed touching her back tries to grab her hand it's very awkward it's very awkward.

Kyle and Amanda also kiss in this moment and I think Kyle said I've been missing making and something like that and then even as they're kissing and playing this game everyone's having fun and this feels like a young youthful show this feels like a little bit of a different show than we've been seeing all season

just like spin the bottle everyone's wasted. They're showing B-roll to I had to point out that they showed footage of the front yard of summer house and they did have some sort of animal walk by and I would just like someone to maybe go back and examine this I didn't rewind it and I sort of wish I did because in the footage after Kyle and Amanda kiss while they're playing this game the front yard when they show it there's an animal that's walking by and it was terrifying to me it was sort of scary I thought like what is that animal.

Or is that what's where the animal come from and what animal is it didn't look like just a squirrel to me and it didn't even look like I don't know I thought maybe it was a coyote did I tell you that story about how I went and tried to almost pet a coyote because here I yeah I almost pet a coyote two of them actually because after the fires here in Los Angeles I'm sort of close by to where that was and so a lot of the animals were displaced unfortunately and so I'm walking the neighborhood.

Some mornings I like to walk the neighborhood in a walk and got my headphones on and I see in someone's front yard there's what I think are two dogs and so I'm like walking towards them and I'm like a little cutie doggy it's like they were not they weren't.

They were bigger but I still thought they were dogs it's a walk and walk and walk and like towards them because as you do you see a dog you walk close you see something you say something you see a dog you walk toward it and so that's what I did I see a front yard in a walking toward it and I think oh nope those are coyote it's.

So I had to turn that in the direction but so I'm looking at the front of the summer house front yard and I'm thinking who are what is this animal walking by it didn't look like just a raccoon it didn't look like this was something this was something so maybe we need to go back and figure it out because there's animals on the premises and so maybe we need to mic them up because I feel like they're getting an outside view or maybe get a GoPro on them because they're going to get the footage that the other camera people cannot get because I know that these people when they're drunk like that I don't know what they're going to do.

I'm certain that things are happening that we're not seeing I know the whole house is under surveillance but if the whole house is under surveillance I bet some of the gas members they maybe find other routes around the surveillance cameras and so I'm thinking maybe we put a collar in a GoPro on whatever the animal that was and so then if anyone tries to skip to the backyard you send the send the coyote with the GoPro on it and you catch it because you know I as I always say on the Bravo shows we can't be missing footage and it's happening too much on the

real house size where things are happening off screen and so I just don't want that to happen on summer house so you mic up the animal that's in the front yard that's what we need to do now they all DJ and dance and their drunk Jesse's doing some vocal stuff and I do hear that Jesse I'm so unfortunately I have to report that he is going on tour and I believe it's a singing tour which is it's it's shocking it's shocking and he's just going to keep doing it I suppose and so God bless God bless

but then meanwhile Ben and Bailey are in bed and they sort of make up now so they weren't even feuding for a whole day and yet

it seemed last week they were going to be feuding the whole season but she says she's happy that he made out with her because it means

that they kind of are good now and they're not going to be feuding but can I say something that's mean no I shouldn't say this

no I'm not going to say should I say you remember a few weeks ago I always said Bailey I think she's

going to have a second season glow up if she gets another season I think she's going to have a glow up

now Ben though my prediction for Ben is that he might eventually have a glow did you ever see someone

who looks like they're going to age poorly so anyway then we cut to the next day Kyle wants

Kyle wants to shower with Amanda and she's like absolutely not she says absolutely not

and this made me think like maybe they the rumors are true that maybe they were broken up and they're

just pretending now for the show because we're not even seeing them drive into the house together

so we're also not seeing them they kissed of course when they were playing spin the bottle but so did

Bailey and Ben kiss when they're playing spin the bottle so the idea that they're not traveling

into the house together and then but Kyle was saying like getting a shower with me and she's like no

and I do sort of understand like I look as much as I love happening to shower with the hot guy

if I'm not in the mood I just want to shower alone like I just want to get in there and sing some

Taylor Swift in the shower and have a good time by myself like I don't know I want to I want to have

like a good you can't necessarily get a good shampoo and conditioner when you're in there with

somebody else because you're focusing on other things and so especially if you've been in a

relationship for a long time it's like okay I'm not in the mood right now like I just want to go

in there play my music put my DJ Spotify list on and have a time by myself to do my

vocal warm-ups and that's that's what I want to do make it go pop pop pop until my panties go drop

drop drop that's what I'm singing in the shower make it go pop pop pop until my panties go drop drop drop

that's who needs to be going on tour not Jesse why is Jesse what song does Jesse have like Lala

I well I guess Lala just got that one song and then she's got the Uber Eats commercial where

she shouts savings so I guess Lala has like a couple hits and when's she going on tour but yet

these men are touring left, right, and center where Santa Vos is going on tour DJ Kyle Cook's on

tour Jesse Solomon's on tour why is all the men going on tour and when am I seeing Shina Shea and

Lala go on tour and that's the patriarchy I hate to get into politics here but the truth is

if there's a just world then everybody because support Shina Shea on her endeavors to shout good

at a scold on a stage in front of us 100 different versions a rock version a Uber version whatever

the fuck version the regular version she had a song called the apples like where why aren't the

women touring and yet these men just these men just go around the world just touring nothing they're

not even touring nothing Jesse don't even got a song what's what hit song to see you have none of them

oh Sierra I love Sierra what was that one what was that one in the confessional like

we're friends now but then we're not going to be friends soon because I like you and I like

my friend wasn't there a song about friendship turning to love that he said he wrote about Sierra

I love my friend you know like that's not something that people have been singing off air

that's so at what point are we just going to say no absolutely not you should not be on tour

I'm sorry to be a hater but it is and the the truth is a lot of people a lot of you out there are

going to bite tickets as perhaps will I you know who knows who's to say sometimes

sometimes we do the Yin and Yang or what's the saying I'm looking for I don't know I'm running

on very little sleep so if some of the things I say today don't make sense then so be it

it is what it is okay so then yeah so where are we at here

Kyle wants to shower with man Sierra says she's getting too old for this meaning the drinking

and Amanda says welcome to your 30s almost and I was like oh my god Sierra's not even 30 yet she's

not even 30 maybe feel so old west says he doesn't remember anything and doesn't even know

where Sierra's at in the relationship doesn't remember the last night and clearly he didn't

wasn't going to remember anything from the night before because I saw the look on his face and he

was vacant he wasn't there anymore it was like whatever substance he was having and if he was

just having lover boy you have to have a lot of lover boy to look like how west look that night

because I do believe that west is also in his is he still in his 20s or if not early 30s

and he was vacant behind the eyes when he was holding sears like and they had showed that footage

in the preview for the season and yet seeing it in real time I was like whoa he's definitely not

there and so of course he doesn't remember anything because his spirit wasn't there spirit was

somewhere else I don't know doing something else which is fine and he's a young he should do it

and could do it if he wanted to and again I'm not saying that he did anything but perhaps

other people might think he did and I do not want to say if I did or not on a microphone

but I feel things okay then we cut to the city we cut to the city Bailey calls Carl to grab a

coffee and catch up and I know what huh since when who since when since when are Bailey and Carl

friends to catch up and they did edit it out because it what must not have been interesting enough

much like they're editing out leave I have this show but back in the city we also see KJ working

out with Dara we see Dara who's playfully teasing KJ she says you got to playfully tease the

person you're with uh if you want to flirt she said but you don't want to bully there's a line

that you cross when you bully and we've all kind of I don't know any awkward flirters out there

I I feel like I there was a time of course when you're an awkward flirter sometimes you do

land in bully territory like you're trying to be or I was always like that if somebody was like

that with me if they were playfully kind of ribbing me that was when I I want to do it on my own

but if somebody was coming at me was sort of like a playful like uh they used to call that

nagging remember that guy the mystery he was like the the dating expert he used to say that was

nagging where it's like you you negatively say something to someone and it's like they want you to

win your approval back so it's like a method of flirting and so if somebody did that to me if they

were like oh is did you I don't even know how you would nag how would you do it it would be

something like you would insult them and so then I would come back and say like a way more insulting

thing I'd be like you're yeah you're a dumbass you're a dumb fuck and then that would be my

response and I would think I was flirting back and they'd be like why'd you just call me a dumb

fuck and I'd you know think why I was flirting but so there is a line that could be crossed

I'm speaking of lines I do have to point out Dara's confessional tan lines

the confessional tan lines were tough for me and I just I would like us all to go back and look

at it because I don't know I don't know I would just think like you're being on a confessional

and that she's a first-season person and I think she was added late so perhaps she didn't have a

chance to do a camera test before she hopped on in front of the red light but the tan lines

are a lot for me to see and so it would just be but God bless her tan and she looks gorgeous she's a

beautiful stunning woman beautiful Dara Dara am I saying her name right Dara sometimes in my notes

you know because I take the notes quickly and so sometimes it just says Dora and my notes and

then I think a Dora they explore and it's like I can't it's a lot these names are a lot for me

yeah I'm not as young as these people on screen although I am younger than Kyle that at least

makes me feel good okay so then we cut to Kyle and Amanda with their dog Reese Kyle says he

can't sleep from the stress Amanda tells him to cut back and Kyle brings up the DJ and says it

brings him the most joy and helps with the lover boy and he says he can't pump the brakes on it

because he's about to sign with the manager and this is when a man is like uh uh how long are we

doing this DJ thing and apparently for a while and look Kyle when I was I watched what happens I

was explaining the DJ business and it does sound uh like they make a lot of money doing the DJ

thing and touring may you do make a lot of money touring and so despite the fact that I don't know

what all of these people are touring and what kind of show they're putting on I do think they are

making a lot of money more so than they might make at uh from an alcohol company so uh but I think

like yes and I tried to say this time on water it happens I have I said yes but maybe something

like an only fans is somewhere you also make a lot of money probably even more than touring and

yet you could stay home and make your wife happy now I don't know how Amanda would feel about Kyle

doing only fans but I still feel like if you're gonna make the deal with the devil at least please

the wife and stay at home and take pictures of your caboose instead of going out

happen around the DJ in the clubs in the clubs and Amanda says you're just gonna be traveling

and playing late all the time there is a I I didn't mention Kyle looking very attractive on camera

but his confessional with the weird lighting did you guys see this the one confession with the

weird lighting it looked like he had that remember when Ramona got a facial on the realizes in

New York and it looked like her face was a pizza pie that's what it reminded me of and what's what

you remind me of anyway we talked about Amanda eating on camera right um then we cut to Friday

August 1st everyone's heading to the Hamptons and we're getting Lindsay and the Hamptons thank god

uh thank god as soon as Lindsay's shown up I think here we go

now I'm loving that um I'm sorry Lindsay is saying on camera that she's like I don't care

about Carl at all but then when she gets in the group scene she's like oh so Carl you had

lunch with Bailey like what what's going on with that you fucking Bailey you know like she's

getting right in the mix and she's gossiping but then in the confession she's like I don't really

care anything about Carl but she knows how to make a good TV show but it's funny it's like the

dichotomy of that it's like oh yeah I don't I don't care about Carl at all I don't even want to talk

about him I'm not interested in saying anything to him I've moved on I don't care at all

and then immediately at dinner like Carl you're fucking Bailey and I'm like oh I loved it

you remind me of my mom sometimes when I like if I call my mom it's like we're gossiping we're

gossiping it's like she's like Dan did you see how that person looked what was that about why

did I tell you about this person did I tell you about that do we talk about that and then immediately

like if we're in a group of people it's the opposite I'm like I don't want a gossip you know

I'm not a gossip I'm not gonna gossip Dan and I love that I love the dichotomy of that it's like

yeah that's right in buying closed doors we act differently or with different people we act

differently but Lindsay's star and she knows that she needs to get in the mix on the show

anyway moving on let's take a break here gotta come back so much more to discuss I want to

thank a cast and we'll be right back

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we're back okay where we at here the summer house friday august first everyone's heading to

the hamptons west had also heard that Carl and Bailey had a date that again they ended it out of

the show Carl says he's vibing with Bailey he's crushing but here's the frustrating thing about

this big-ass cast is he's crushing now they edited out the date and he's crushing on her now

but then she's not even coming to the house this weekend because they got too many people on this

cast and they can't pay in a I don't know they can't give everybody an appearance fee for every

episode or something so I don't know how it works but she's not filming and I'm thinking why

isn't she filming that he's finally got a crush and we're gonna we might have a new relationship

on our hands and yet they're like well she's not coming this weekend and I thought what the fuck

producers you just put them on a date together then you get Bailey at the house get somebody else

get somebody else out for the weekend would we don't need Kyle there this weekend or we don't

need some of these other people can go okay some of the other flops can go if we don't have

oh we need Bailey there if come on come on Amanda and Mia go together no Kyle Mia says something

about going to the restaurant opening over boyfriend and I have a problem with this because

we are not seeing the boyfriend at all and so I don't I don't give a fuck about him and I need

her either dating somebody on the show we're bringing the boyfriend on the show or this we need

something else something else needs to happen here then we're celebrating Kyle's 43rd birthday

this weekend Amanda's putting on a happy face for him but again they're not driving their together

even for his birthday that's fishy to me Kyle and Ben drove together that's fishy to me Lindsey

took an Uber that's fishy to me do you think she had to pay for the Uber obviously Uber eats

is doing all this free promo on the show we're not free promo they're probably paying a whole bunch

they probably had to back up a Stanley truck full of money is there Stan is that a thing Stanley

truck they probably had a is that what they're called those big ass trucks I don't know but they

probably had to back up a lot of money into Bravo HQ to get all that Uber eats promo and so I

wonder does that cover Lindsey's Uber to get there because in Uber from the city to didn't they

say it's like four hours to get there so that's an expensive Uber ride are they paying for that

but even if Bravo's paying or Uber's paying for this Lindsey to take a Uber to the

share house she did get out of the car and she said I'd also like you to give me five stars

and I thought that was important because I worry about that too as someone who's type A

Libra I do get concerned about my Uber score and I don't take Uber's very often or lifts or any of

those but when I do I'm concerned that my rating will go down and I think there's a there used to

be a place you could check it I don't know if there's still is but I remember checking it once

and I had a really good rating and that stuck with me you know when I got a good rating it doesn't

matter if it's my school grades or my credit score I don't want that shit to go down I'm on top of

that so I will that will be in the back of my head until the day that I die until the day that I

pass and perish I'll be thinking I got to make sure my Uber scores up because once I know that I'm

getting an A in something then we can't slide and I was like that in school too if I was now if I

went in getting a C then fine nowhere to go but up once I get that A it's like I can't go

backwards it's just not it's not who I am it's not in my nature and so I was appreciative of this

representation on the show when's he saying can I have five stars Jesse arrives and it made me laugh

because there's all those cardboard cutouts around and even though I hate Jesse I like that he

arrived and he's like honey I'm home any friends here just my cardboard friends and then

when Kyle also arrived with Ben he said he had an excuse for why he drove with Ben I don't understand

it's in it my about the excuse wasn't it something he had to take his car in or something

and that no I think it's actually because they man to hate each other and they don't want to spend

four hours alone in a car they even awkwardly kissed feels like they were broken up pretending for

the show right am I wrong KJ feels I also by the way that's not anything that I got any inside

information about I tried to but I didn't get any inside it so I'm not implying that I learned

anything doing watching happens live with Kyle about that because I didn't but it just in my gut

I feel like they were broken up KJ said he invited Dara and she's staying over for the weekend

but she doesn't have a room because she wasn't supposed to be in the cast and so that's another

telltale sign that she was added late because KJ has to tell everyone in the group like oh Dara's

coming to the party and then she's gonna stay over so what he's saying is like she's not supposed

to be in the cast but he got approval by production she signed the release and so she's a lot

to stay over for the weekend because they're dating but she's not an official cast member I think

at this point she was not I think she was slowly sort of added then we cut to Carl and Lindsay

Lindsay you have a new haircut and Carl's like I just didn't put anything in it and he was

I don't I don't know why I loved it Carl's like looks to me they changed so rapidly like I can't

tell when he's got new chompers with the hairs different because and the style seems to change

all the time like sometimes I feel like Carl's showing up and like tight leather pants somewhere

and then other times he's wearing just like a crop boxy shirt and I'm like I can't keep up and I

don't know if it's because he's like trying overly to be trendy or if it's I don't know sometimes

you try you know I watch what happens I was trying to be I pulled this whole look together that I

found the that guy from that pull out Anthony Kelly who was like a model and he was he's the new

JFK junior guy that I'm in love with anyway I saw this look that he did for an interview and I was

like I'm gonna try my best to I didn't have the money for the stylist so I'm like I'm gonna try

my best to put this outfit together and I just sort of kind of copied it my own way but he was

wearing white socks under these under the jeans with loafers on and I've seen a lot of other people

do it and so I was doing it and then of course my mom speaking of he's like 10 I don't know if I

I don't know I felt about those white socks underneath and then other people I was getting

fights with people online because they're like why is he wearing sports socks and a sport coat and

I was like first of all they're polo Ralph Lauren socks they were dress socks they were white socks

and you know I love a nice sock shout out to bomb us sponsor on the show we love their socks as

well but they were socks that they were in style that was like a stylish thing to do but then of

course you got all these people chiming in with their opinions and and sending the hate and I

just have to say it was like no I was actually in style so sometimes I'm looking at Carl's looks

and I want a drag on but then I'm like wait are they just the head of the style are they the style

and I'm not aware of it but Carl's looks I feel like sometimes lean a little too much like you

still got to look like you I think that's the big trick you got to you got to feel comfortable looking

like you and sometimes I'm looking at Carl's looks and like what the fuck is this but then I don't

want to judge it too much because maybe I don't know maybe he's like a fashion girl I don't know

what do I know Lindsay seems easy breezy though and Carl's stressing and he tells KJ he's feeling

really anxious about seeing Lindsay and I like how much these men are talking on anxiety I do feel

good about that now Mia says that West is in love with Sierra and I think she's right spot on

Lindsay says she would never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever

in the night. And I think they're going to continue flirting on screen on the show, because

deep down I do think they have a connection. It's just not, it's timing. It's all about

timing for the, for the panesco drop, drop, drop, and for you to go pop, pop, pop, you

gotta have the right time.

Make it go pop, pop, pop, until my panties go drop, drop, drop, drop. You gotta be the

right time to drop, drop, drop, for the panesco pop, pop, pop, pop. You just, you guys have

to see if you've, if you've never seen that clip of Watcher Depends Live, please just

go on TikTok and type in Lala James, WWHL. It's like the best. The whole appearance is

like the great, they just swear the whole time and like Andy gets really pissed. This is

from year zero. But the best part is when they sing. And I didn't pull the clip of James

rapping, but it's ridiculous. It's so fucking hilarious. It's very much, did you ever watch

Parks and Recreation? It's like that one, the brother and sister on that show. Oh,

you guys, it's so funny. It's so funny. Okay, so then West doesn't know if he should apologize

to Sierra about rubbing the back because he doesn't even remember anything. Now, Dara,

we talked about Dara and she did date West. So I have to just point out this, it's something

a little fishy that I just would like to keep our eyes and ears on. The fact that she

was at a late and she did date West. And now she's dating KJ. I get a little, I'm not

saying that this is how she is. So I just want us to get our eyes and ears on it to just

pay attention like because it could be a possibility of it because I've watched too many, too many

bravo shows. I've seen too much reality TV. I've analyzed too much reality TV. It does

not know how this works. And so I'm a little slightly very slightly concerned. I got my

crystal ball out and I want us to all recognize that this is happening because it's a little

fishy that she's dated West didn't get on the show and then went to a party and started

dating the guy that was already cast on the show. Was it to get on the show? I don't know.

I don't know. But I would just like us to keep our eyes and ears on that. Was Levi

invited this weekend? I don't know. I feel like every time I see Levi, I'm like, who the

fuck is that? Who the fuck is that? Who the fuck is that? Who the fuck did that? I never

know when I see Levi. I'm like, who is that? Because now I can't even remember if she was

in this up was she and she wasn't in this episode. She's like, where's fucking Waldo?

It's like, where is she? Who is she? They do all go to dinner. So they do at least get

to film outside the house in a restaurant, which is nice. They're all dressed a little.

They're just great. But I something about Kyle wearing that scarf around the neck like

Scooby-Doo, like Fred and Scooby-Doo. Like, what the fuck was that? Was that supposed to

be a cost to me? Like, was it a joke? You know, I'm talking about that scarf that he tied around

the neck. It was like, what is he doing? What's happening there with the scarf around the neck?

Didn't it look like Fred from Scooby-Doo at the Ascot? I think what was that? Not to say that

I don't love a good scarf. You know, we love a nice scarf or a bandana. It looked like a nice

pattern, but I didn't understand the look. Anyway, they sit down and order shishitos. I think Carl

said, let's say it's mortals of shishitos. And I'm noticing a lot that shishito peppers are

popping up at a lot of restaurants these days. And 10 years ago, I don't remember not one time 10

years ago seeing shishito peppers on a menu. And these days, they're very trendy. It's like,

throughout my lifetime, I've seen certain trends come and go, like, we've had the, there was

like a big kale trend. I remember when that push came. And then even back going back to the 90s,

there was like a sun-dried tomato push that I recall. Sun-dried tomatoes just became a thing.

It's like, everybody's doing the sun-dried tomatoes. All of a sudden, I never heard of a sun-dried

tomato and then I'm 10 years old and everybody's got sun-dried tomatoes and everything. And I'm

noticing that with the shishito peppers. It's like, go to, I don't know if fucking Applebee isn't.

They got shishito peppers on the menu. I'm like, since when do they got shishito peppers on the menu?

And I love them. I love them. They're actually probably my favorite food trend. But you used to

only find them at different, especially to restaurants. But now they're showing up at all these,

like, Americana restaurants, the shishito peppers. So anyway, they ordered them. And I just have

a point out that I love them. I do love them. Matt makes them on the grill. I buy him from the,

from the whole foods and Matt makes them on the grill. He makes this like sesame. I don't even know

what the sauce says. Put some sesame seeds on it with this like sauce. Oh, you guys, and then in

grills, I've got that nice char grilled. They're the best. And they're going to appetizer.

Okay, so then this is when Lindsay gets right to it. She's like, Carl, I have a question for you.

Talk to Bailey this week. What's going on? You fuck her. And that's where Lindsay's star.

And Lindsay apparently told Bailey to fuck Carl. But then also said he probably won't,

because you'll just have a great conversation. That sort of goes back to my thesis. And I'm sure

I've talked about this on the podcast before. But the thing with the straight guys on Bravo,

and I'm not just saying this about Carl. But the thing with the straight guys on Bravo that I always

feel is that even the really attractive ones, I never get the sense that they can fuck you. Like,

I never, or gosh, that sounds so vulgar. I'm sorry to people listening. I did. It sounds really

vulgar to say, but I do sort of think that none of them can get it up.

I don't know. I feel that way. That's the kind of vibes I get from all the straight men on Bravo.

And almost all of them. I'm trying to think of who in the past? You know who could fuck? I thought

like Imrul. Remember him, but they got rid of them. But he was one that was like, oh, yeah. Okay.

And then he got out. It was so much shit on the show for always bringing someone back.

Having sex with somebody on the show, but like all the other straight guys, I'm like, I don't know.

I feel like the sex would be bad. Am I wrong? Am I wrong? Like even the really hot ones,

you can look at one of them and be like, oh, they're so hot. I've never seen someone that attractive.

But then you think about the sex. And it's like, oh, I don't know about that.

I don't know about that. Okay. So then Carl says that Lindsey said the sex was great at first.

But again, I just don't get good sex vibes. That's my opinion. Then we talk about KJ and Dara.

Jessie tells KJ to go slow. You should just go slow because I dated someone named Lexi last

season and just go slow. I learned my lesson when I was, and I met her second my toe last season.

God, I forgot about that. When they should have flashback of Lexi, I just, I did sort of

lose my breath for a minute. Like Destiny's Child in the early 2000s, I lost my breath

because I had forgotten about Lexi. And they showed her and I'm glad with the heavy lipliner.

Again, beautiful gal, but very heavy lipliner. Very heavy lipliner. And remember, she dated the

Brooklyn Beckham. Oh, you guys, I went to this Oscar party. I was hosting the red carpet for

them. John Oscar party. And you know who was there was Brooklyn Beckham.

Now, I didn't get to interview him because he didn't even, I don't even think you could say

he walked the carpet. He like ran through the carpet. So he definitely did not do any press.

But I was thinking somebody was like, they tell you like, oh, this person's coming or that person's

coming, we might get a minute to interview this person. And so you don't know into the last

seconds sometimes because they maybe don't RSVP or whatever. And so there was where like, oh,

I think Brooklyn Beckham's here. Brooklyn Beckham's coming. And so you have like 10 seconds to

prepare. And so you're thinking in your head, I remember hearing that, like, oh, Brooklyn Beckham's

here and thinking, what am I going to ask him if I get like one question with them really quick,

because I was the first, I was like first position on the carpet because I was working with

Elton John AIDS Foundation and people magazine. And so I was first position. So basically,

like if anyone was coming, we had kind of access to them, right? And I'm thinking what I get

word that Brooklyn Beckham's coming. So I think I was like interviewing somebody and then I heard

behind my back, someone in the air was like, Brooklyn Beckham's here, you know, so everyone's

freaking out. And I know he's in this big feud with his family. And so I'm thinking, okay,

if I only have one question with them, I'm going to have to ask about the family, right? But then

the Bravo lover in me is like, oh, in fact, like I'm also going to need to ask about Lexi,

who only us care about, like only me care about. But I'm like, I need to get a comment on that.

Much like when I got Patricia Arquette, I was Patricia, I was like, I got to ask you about

Alson Dubois. And of course, we talked about other things. I asked her other question.

There was a link I just asked that. I'm not going to be disrespectful. But I was feeling her out.

And I'm thinking back in my head, like I got to ask her about Alson Dubois from the Royal

Office of Beverly Hills. Because nobody ever asked her about that. And so I did. But with Brooklyn

Beckham, I'm like, oh, fuck, I got to ask about Summer House. Like, did he watch Summer House?

He's an Izzy at Summer House fan. But then I knew the people people would get mad at me if I didn't

ask about the feud with the rest of the Beckums. What is going on with that feud? What is that about?

It makes me sad. I don't like when the families are feuding. Where was I? I talked about the

Shashitos, the Lexi flashback. Oh, this one. Yeah, Jesse was like, go slow. Go slow, KJ,

in the relationship with Darryl. Because I know. And they showed this montage of Lexi and Jesse

talking about Jesse and Sierra. Because Jesse's still got the question. And Amanda says to the

group, like, don't talk to the press. Let's take a break here. Let's take a break here. We got

to come back and talk about it. It was actually the scene at the end here. I want to take a break

now because I think this scene was actually a really phenomenal scene. And then we also had the

mid-season trailer. So we're going to come right back, find me on social media at Danny Palakrino.

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the fact that they're expanding bookstores. And back in my day, I told you guys this. I used to

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a few Barnes and Nobles around. And if I'm ever in one, I go in right to the, I look for my books

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my serotonin levels go up. Everything gets relaxed. If my asshole is clenched, it's loosening

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something and walking around and just looking at books, just looking at books and paying retail

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And we're back. Okay so they're all at dinner and we talked about Lexi and Jesse in that flashback

that was happening. Now West says he gets how Sierra was mad about him talking to the press because

he gets it now. And Sierra is like well you should have known that beforehand. And Sierra tells the

table she gets a lot of racial blowback because everybody says online she's like oh she's always

dating the white guys publicly and people don't understand why she's always going after these guys

and it happened. Remember she doesn't mention this on the show and perhaps it's because he's from

a different franchise but she talks about that with didn't she have a thing with Austin at one point

I mean I may remember it was that Lindsay also had a thing with Austin right. Didn't Sierra have a

thing with Austin on one of the spin-offs or something. I don't know those somewhere else. Did you

guys watch Southern Charm? Did you see the are we at the reunion time of Southern Charm? I like

the season of Southern Charm. I binge it again I missed the first seven episodes but I binge from

starting at seven episode seven and I did like Austin the season which I know is controversial

and by the way if you ever see me in real life in person and just know that I will deny ever saying

that I liked Austin. I just I will deny it I'm I'm telling you here now this is private between us

girlfriends at this moment but in public I will not accept it I will not I will be very you know

I'm not gonna accept it because I don't want other people to hear I don't want other this is between

us this is a safe space is between us girlfriends and I don't want to be in the grocery store and

somebody's like oh yeah by the way I remember you said you liked Austin I'm gonna say absolutely

not I don't remember that because what if the cashier hears what if the cashier hears she's not good

she doesn't listen to this podcast she doesn't get the context so I don't want her thinking that

I don't want her thinking that but anyway Craig seems like a nightmare a nightmare human being

because here's the thing on Southern Trump he was having that big blow up in the in that

Sprinter Vanna where the fuck they were and everybody he continues to have these outbursts and so

remember Ariana on Vanderpump rules she had said with jacks she's like this is who this person is

this isn't just like a one-time occurrence this is like if you see the same behavior from someone

this is their that's their personality that's who they are and with Craig as much as I for years

and all this time he's very attractive and he could be very charming and all these things

but I've seen too many times where he's had these like petulant blowups with people

and I think like okay it's now we're just this seems this is a pattern now this isn't just like

an outburst I don't think we could just say this is a one-time thing or he was just a temper tantrum

this was like this is his normal temper this is his normal personality that's how I feel

unfortunately and I hope he gets it together but it's like it happens to me times and to me it's

very clear just watching the show and watching and knowing for watching the show for so long and

watching all these other shows it it feels to me like he tries to hide that part of himself

and present all the good parts which is great all of us would do that on camera but the way that

it sneaks out so many times that that kind of temper tantrum situation just makes it clear to me

that it's like oh in real life it's probably even worse right it probably happens even more

because he's trying to temper it for the show and not do it as much for camera and so in real

life he's probably doing it more right that's how I feel but don't come out I know Craig's

it a lot of Craig stands and look believe me we change every five minutes sometimes I've

loved Craig in the past I called him my Craigie but after what he was doing in the van I can't

support that I just can't do it and I just feel if I see something but I gotta say something okay so

then this conversation at the table on summer house again Sears mentioned in the racial blowback

that she gets and this was so fascinating because we also see her crying the professional she says

she sees how it looks to the entire world but she's like you can't help who you love or attract

and I totally got that you know sometimes we've all fallen in love with the demons right how many

times have you gotten a crush on somebody and then you look back you're like that guy was such an

asshole like what the fuck was I thinking and or girl oh whoever like you you look back on a

person you had a crush and you're like that person was such a piece of shit a piece of shit

a piece of shit but you can't help it because in the moment you're just a track of that person

or you have like a chemistry with that person that you can't explain and on these shows even

it's harder because I think they're not in control of the edit they can't show they can't show

every little moment so we just see sort of the highlight reel in these cast members are probably

thinking well well they didn't see the nice moment I had with these guys or the scale and they

only see the asshole moments and so she's saying it but there's like when there's a racial element

it adds even more of an audience response and then they have to deal with the audience response

and she said she was the first what was she was the first black person out of this cast and KJ

even says he has seen his sister go through this so he gets emotionally sticks up for Sierra and

says also with black men they have to think 20 steps ahead and he said there's this added pressure

and then it's a great conversation Mia says her brothers also have the conversation that they have

to consider not looking like a threat or not being looking angry or scary and so it adds like a

whole other element that they have to go through for the show and Kyle was interesting he says he

can pop off with this temper and he could just be in the moment think in the moment if he's

throwing a tantrum in the moment he can do that and he's not thinking about the audience you know

the audience might respond like what an asshole or whatever but he's not thinking 20 steps ahead

like KJ said he has to think and they all agree to sport each other not to each other down

and I thought that would look I want to say two things first of all a beautiful moment great scene

I thought it was also a perfect way to sort of break that fourth wall and they did it in a very

compelling way also thought it was so beautiful and lovely and wonderful that they all want to

sport each other and say we got to not tear each other down and I agree with that in real life

but and this is where I'm gonna get controversial I do think that it's okay for some of them to

tear each other down sometimes specifically Jesse I think I think as they're sitting there

and they're having this beautiful moment supportive supporting each others uh livelihoods

in life and saying we do not tear each other down I'm thinking this is great but sometimes if

somebody's acting out a pocket like Jesse who again is just sort of annoying me for I'm not sure

what reasons the season but he's annoying me and I'm thinking maybe it's okay if they if they

tear him down a little bit am I wrong just for a little drama for that we need the drama for the

show and so yes we want him to support and we should support them in in the audience response

sometimes if they're tearing down Sierra for her crush on some man on the show but also I think

it's okay that we tear down Jesse sometimes and do I do that's what my heart says now Lindsay says

she wants to fuck Ben then the episode ends when we get the midseason trailer we get Jesse and Mia

are they flirt was that a thing Jesse Mia flirting in the midseason trailer a lot of costume

work too maybe dare I say too many costumes now I love the end of the midseason trailer where they

show all the gals and the old lady makeup just like the golden girls and all actually they look

like Sophia and the golden girls because actually if you go back and watch the golden girls you

know the other gals were young and vibrant they were basically Kyle's age when they were you know

Blanche was basically Kyle's age I believe or maybe when the show started I think she was probably

Kyle's age in Kyle and Carl you know and so watching back now we can all see like Blanche

rose and dorth they were young vibrant women actually it might have had some some golden

locks or some lighter locks but they were still young and vibrant Sophia of course they gave her

old age makeup and Sophia in real life was actually younger than Betty White you guys know that right

she's younger than I think some of them but Sophia they put in the old age makeup and she had her

carry the purse and the thick glasses and all that stuff and so they're dressed like Sophia in the

golden girls which by the way golden girls one of the greatest shows of all time just truly is and

if you've never watched the golden girls this is actually my quick PSA watch the golden girls

I also want to tell everyone to watch the comeback which is coming back for season 3 on HBO

if you're never seen if you like reality TV and you've never seen the comeback then you're doing

they're wrong because it's such a brilliant it was nominated for a bunch of Emmys but it's sort of

like a cult classic show and it's coming back for season 3 and I did get a chance and they didn't

pay me or anything but I did get a chance to see screeners of the season and so and I hope I'm

allowed to say this but it's so I'm only going to say like no spoilers but it's so brilliant so

good as it always has been if you've never seen the first few seasons go back and watch them but

I'm gonna try to get one of the producers Dan Bukitinsky on the podcast and he's also on the show

he plays the Billy the publicist and he's done a million other things but it is my favorite

show of all time and the new seasons brilliant so I think it comes out either this week or next

it comes up very soon but please watch it because it's such a hilarious take down of the industry

and the first season is just great take down of reality TV and it was very much ahead of its time

but anyway what were we saying oh the midseason trailer so yeah they're dressed like the old lady

costumes and that was the only costume work I liked in the midseason trailer the other costumes

so I'm like okay maybe we need to stop at the costumes uh then what else happens we have Dara

and Ben perhaps hooking up West and Sierra it looks like West's fucks up again with Sierra

Amanda mentions are separating now I have mentioned the podcast before I've said this million times

but I just want to say it again so we all know that's on audio record I do think that happened

I think the old lady's scene is gonna be at the end of the season and my take is like

it's gonna lead into much how Vanderpump rules lead into summer house or real house is Beverly Hills

lead into Vanderpump rules we're getting the summer house spin-off show it's called in the city and I'm

would bet my bottom dollar and again I've said this before but I think it's gonna lead right into

so I think we're gonna end on summer house and we'll probably see them and it's gonna transition

sort of flawlessly I bet you we see them drive in from the summer house and they go right into

the city and it's like bam new new new show's starting that's what's gonna happen but I think

the old lady costume I feel like it'll be like the last episode or something that's my that's

what it feels like oh guess what we also get an appearance from Danielle there's a quick

little moment in that trailer but we saw Danielle and a little shiver ran up my spine a little shiver

she's apparently back for one of the parties back for one of the party not the spin-off just a

quick party and maybe they'll edit her out I don't know who's to say but to be honest with you

I hate to stick up for Danielle at the moment but I do think Danielle brought more to the show

than Levi so what's the what's the truth what's the truth oh there's also this thing in the mid-season

trailer about Ben saying he wanted to fuck Amanda and Italy or no Amanda says oh yeah he wanted to

fuck me and Italy and I think that she's alluding to but maybe this is a misdirect of the trailer they're

trying to make us believe that this is happening but it seemed like Amanda was saying yeah Ben wanted

to fuck me and Italy and I thought oh is that true I need to know and then oh Carl and Kyle fight

that's gonna be interesting I guess it's about was it about like who not investing in the soft bar

which I I'm sorry to say I'm on Kyle's side about that I don't think he should have invested in soft

bar not only does he have the money troubles but like you shouldn't I don't think he should get

in business with friends but Carl's like no Carl's seeing I don't know Carl's seeing that it

calls making all this money from the DJ gig and he invests in lever boys he's like why didn't Kyle

invest in my company but it's like why would he I don't know I don't think that he should have you

just because somebody does you don't just owes someone $20,000 you just it's not I'm sorry if

you want to do it it's fine but Carl it wasn't like he was he needed the money to live or something

he just needed to open up this business that maybe Kyle didn't believe in I don't know but it

seems like it's doing well that's the end of the episode thank you all so much for listening

I love you I hope everybody goes drop drop drop with your panties make it go pop pop pop until my panties

go drop drop drop I hope that's the case for everybody I love you all so much for listening and

we'll be back next week as everyone watching another show so we got going on Southern

hospitality there's like one on Southern hospitality I'm loving there was one moment last week

where Maddie said something about making a a PowerPoint presentation about her relationship with

some of the other customers who was just a beautiful moment so I just want to shut that out and

they're fighting about like cardboard cutouts on that show Southern hospitality is so good I don't

know if I'm selling it well the other thing that I'm hearing is great is ladies of London which I

have not watched yet and when I was at watch what happens live they were like filming another one

and they had some of the ladies of London cast members were there they were like surprising people

you know Andy sometimes does that like doorbell thing so they were filming that and I was so

disappointed myself because I didn't know the new ladies of London people and I've only heard really

good things about it I've only heard great things and yet I need to watch it because I think we're

like three episodes in so I'm gonna one of these days I'm gonna binge you know it's hard I had planned

to binge it on a plane when I was traveling and unfortunately I did not do that I just ended up

like staring at my phone for six hours or whatever was but I am gonna watch it soon I'm gonna I

gonna binge it because I'm I'm hearing it's worth it and not in a worth it way like you know how

when people hide you and say like oh yeah the new van up on pearls is good like it's not in that kind

of way it's like in a way like oh it's actually good it's in that kind of way like even people

behind this things like no this one's actually good not like in a way where they're trying to sell

you know that it's good it's like no this one's actually good so I'm gonna watch it I'm planning

on it anyway thank you all so much for listening have a great week and we'll be back next week I'm

gonna oh by the way I mentioned I'm gonna try to do another great mugs episode and we're gonna

we have a couple guests we're gonna try to get on the show so we're gonna try to do a great mugs

episode in addition to our Bravo Summer House recap but I'm trying to get to that things have

been a little hectic now anyway I love you all so much and I appreciate all the support and the

kind words from the Oscar red carpet that I did the with the Elton John foundation which is

fantastic foundation they're doing so much fantastic work for AIDS research and they've really

raised so much money in the it's a really really great organization so if you're not familiar

with the Elton John AIDS foundation they do a lot of really great work but I want to thank them

for having me but also thank you all for the kind words and support I've got so many messages

and you know over last year I kind of took a step back from a lot of of course I was still writing

and I have some other projects in the works but I took a little bit of a step back and so I was

sort of saying no to certain things because I had the baby on the way and I was just wanting to focus

on that nest and so I'm slowly starting to get back into the world and do some of other work

projects and stuff and when you do something like that you're like oh I hope people are supportive

and you want to do a really good job and those red carpets are really hard to do because like

I said they happen really fast and you don't always necessarily know you're going to get to talk

to or or have much time to prepare and you can go in there preparing as best you can but

there's so many different directives like for something like that there's you have to talk

about the foundation and the charity but then you also it's Oscar nights you want to talk movies

but then also you there's a little bit of a pressure people want stuff that can go for social media

that you can put in a quick sound bite that people can share and so there's like a lot of different

things you're trying to aim for as well as showcase your personality but not make it about you you

want to make it about the person you're talking to and so there's so many moving parts to those

things and that's why red carpet stuff is really almost like a no win situation because you're always

going to piss off someone they're going to say you didn't ask about this thing or you should

ask about that you should talk about this not that or this was in polite but you're just seeing

little clips and they're it's moving so quickly so it is really like a a challenge but also I

kind of find it a fun challenge like I think it's like a fun kind of balancing act but everyone

is so supportive about all the clips that went out and people magazine was great to work with

and same with the foundation they'll and John foundation and anyway I love you all so much

for the same thank you bye bye

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