"Surround Yourself with Success: The Power of a Supportive Circle"

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to the fierce female network. I'm your host fierce

incident today is Wednesday Wednesday Wednesday Wednesday Wednesday Wednesday

baby. Yes, and we are going to get on down with it. It is leaving it out Wednesday.

We don't leave it out. Leave it out. Yeah, it's not working out Wednesday. It's

leaving it out Wednesday. I know it's a life lesson coming with it. It's a life

lesson as you guys know I'm a certified life coach trained by Dr. Monique

Caroline who wasn't on air personality at Fox 32 news. She's no longer there.

But they had to privilege and the opportunity to work with her many many years

ago and she gave my certification and my papers for being a life coach. So

listen, yeah, a life lesson for you going. It's going to be real quick. I try to

make it real quick. It's short. Leave it out Wednesday. Listen, we're at the

top of a brand new year, 2026, 2026. Now listen, I want you to shift your

thinking and shift your thoughts. Listen, listen, come on in, listen, listen,

listen, take a moment, take a deep breath. Do whatever you got to do. So it's

the top of a brand new year, 2026. I want to leave out all the stuff that's

going to stop you from making your goal. So you guys know it's set your

goal and it's make your goal, right? So what you got to do is leave out all

the stuff that's going to hinder you and keep you from making your goal. Of

course, things that's going to come up in life. You know, I always use

myself as an example because I'm the best person that I know. I know myself

more than anybody else besides my mother. So listen, listen, listen,

life happens. This is the point. Life will happen, but you have some

control over what you do, what you can do, and what you will do. Now, the

point is this, there's going to be things that come up in life that you have

no control over that will kind of take your goal, take you off your path,

and you got to wait a little bit like I'm using my same example, same

example. You guys know, I have six more classes, six more courses before I

finish my, my doctor and I've been waiting for years, right? Of course, I ran

out of money and things like that. And so I have six classes ago. Now this is

2026 job. That was a long time ago. So things happen, things happen, some

things come up. And I didn't understand it at first. When people were

telling me that they were working on the PhD, they were working on a doctorate

and they would say, yeah, I started 20 years ago. And I'm like, well, my God,

it took you that long to finish. So listen, sometimes it does happen where

things will throw you off course. And I'm just talking about myself. I

ain't talking about nobody else. So listen, the point of me sharing that story,

the life lesson is this, there's going to be some things that come up in

life that will, you know, keep you in a pattern in a holding position. And it's

not your fault. It's not anybody else's fault. It's just right. But I want you

to leave out things that will stop you from achieving your goals. So you got

to leave that out, leave that out. Maybe you like to go out. Maybe you just

some people love to go out and have a couple of drinks. Now, be it as it may,

if you want to be an attorney and you go on the law school, you can't be going

out drinking because classes in law school is pretty tough. You cannot be

going out drinking. You got to change your lifestyle. So when I, that's the

point, what I mean is this, when I say, leave out some things. Now, if you want

to be a lawyer and you're trying to get in law school, the your party and

days is way over because those two things is not going to mix. It's not going

to mix. So because law school is very difficult. Oh, yeah, I know that's

very difficult. I'm going to take a break and science and know that. So it's

very difficult. The classes is very difficult. You got to study all the

different laws and blah, blah, blah. I won't go into that because people

think that I can try to know stuff. So anyway, anyway, that's the point.

Well, so what's the life lesson? If it went over your hand, the life lesson

is this, you've got to leave some things out. And then you know, some things

will come up in life that will kind of throw you off course. So the life

lesson is this, you've got to make your goals. And you've got a plan for

those times where something may come up. It's just like a car. It's just

like a car. You might purchase a used car. And you know, it's very good.

It's running for a good while running for one year and running for two

years. And then it breaks down. Now, you can expect that to happen when you

have a used car. You got to make a little tweak here, get it repaired, and you

keep going going. And then after a while, that used car is going to say,

could put, could put, could put, I'm not running no more. And then you got

to go get a new car and maybe you're not ready to get a new car. So then you

have to wait a little bit, stay up some money. That's what I'm talking about.

You got to wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, tell you get enough money together.

And then you go buy a new car. So let's have a really great music for

you on today. Got some great music on today. I want you guys to hear this.

And it is awesome, awesome, awesome. So it is a featuring, it is featuring

animal, animal. This is a really great song. Hold it on my love. Check this out.

Hold it on my love.

Hold it on my love.

Baby, I'm just by.

Hold it on my love.

Hold it on my love.

I'm all you're mine.

I'm holding for you.

And we're going to be ready if it is.

It's a matter of time.

Hold it on my love.

Hold it on my love.

I'm just by.

Hold it on my love.

I just, I feel like I need to own the love

I just, I feel like I need to own it

Holding on my love with you and me

I don't need, I need to own my love

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And early you heard the song, holding all my love featuring animal. That's a bad sister right there.

She can really put it down. She's got a great voice, very talented, very talented.

Got some more music that's coming up for you and it just a moment.

So listen, I was listening to the song, holding all my love for you.

What I think with the life lesson, you don't want to hang out with people that really is not on your team.

You don't know who's on your team. You don't know who's not on your team.

When you're trying to achieve your goals, you want to be with people that's on your team.

That really is rooting for you. That's really cheering for you.

You don't want anyone in your circle that's pretending to be on your team because that can really drag you down.

I was sitting here and I was thinking about my second year of residency when I was at University of Phoenix.

And you know, we saw these group projects. I know everybody hates group projects.

Even at post-grad level, we hated it then, but we have to do it.

So the point is that we used to have these group projects where you were getting a group.

And we had to do these assignments because there's always someone in the group that doesn't pull their weight.

It never fails. It never fails. It never fails. It never fails. It never fails.

But this one particular time we had this group project, this one guy, he was just so busy.

He was much more than us. He had such this prestigious job.

He had a prestigious job. He didn't have time to do his work and to share the group with his part.

His part, we split up what we're going to do. I had my part, the other person at that part.

He had his part, another person at that part. But he was just so prestigious.

He had this big time job. He made all this money.

And he never could contribute to the group of what he was supposed to do.

And he was dead weight on the line. He was dead weight for our project.

So you guys know what happened. We ended up, we had this a true story.

I cannot make this up. It is a truth. Nobody could make this up.

So what we did, we didn't tell him, we didn't complain to him. We didn't say anything to him.

We got him on our cells and we all had the same feeling that he was just dead weight.

And so we pulled the weight for him. We did the extra work.

And he fired, you know what he did? He left the group. He left the group.

And in fact, I think he dropped out. But anyway, we got our assignment done.

But he was just dead weight. It was just, it was horrible.

It's just that way. So my point is this, always have people in your circle.

That's got your back. That's really in your circle. That's cheering you on.

That's cheering you on. And it felt so darn good.

When you got people in your circle that say, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you can do it.

You can do it. You can do it. You can do it. And don't go behind your back.

Say, I know she can't do it. She ain't she ain't about that. She ain't.

So listen, I'm just making a narrative. So listen, get people in your circle.

I got a nice little circle of girlfriends.

They always, always have great things to say, very motivational, very intuitive.

Just really excellent. So I just love talking to them whenever I can.

They're caregivers and they're busy.

But whenever we can't get together, it's just phenomenal.

So listen, got another song for you. This is that bump.

Now ladies, why y'all want to come here looking so good?

I can't let this pass me by.

I got to do my thing. Come here girl.

Let me tell you something.

I didn't expect all this in front of me.

But I know right now this got to be the place to be.

I see you got skills.

Everything looking good in place.

I got this cool egg green.

Yeah, it's written all over my face.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

And baby let me do the bump.

It's playing a scene that my eyes tellin' me

You got a whole lot of juggling charm.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Baby can I get it right?

I ain't got plans on after this dance.

We can buy the cool place to hide.

Did you get it from your mama?

Or did your auntie have a say?

What kind of evolution got that pretty thing?

Looking that way.

All eyes on you.

Let me see you make it do what you do.

Don't stop music.

Ain't no tellin' what we gettin' into.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

And baby let me do the bump.

It's playing a scene that my eyes tellin' me

You got a whole lot of juggling charm.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Baby can I get it right?

I ain't got plans on after this dance.

We can buy the cool place to hide.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Dead bump up.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Dead bump up.

Come on.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

And baby let me do the bump.

It's playing a scene that my eyes tellin' me

You got a whole lot of juggling charm.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Baby can I get it right?

I ain't got plans on after this dance.

We can buy the cool place to hide.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

And baby let me do the bump.

It's playing a scene that my eyes tellin' me

You got a whole lot of juggling charm.

Let me pull up the dead bump up.

Baby can I get it right?

I ain't got plans for this dance, we can fight a cool place to hide

That bump up

That bump up

That bump up

That bump up

Let me pull up to that bump up

Baby let me do the bump

It's plain to see, but then my eyes tell the music

I've got a whole lot of junk in the trunk

Let me pull up to that bump up

Baby can I get it right

I ain't got plans for this dance, we can fight a cool place to hide

That bump up

All right, it's all of y'all heard that bumper, that bumper

He wants to pull up to that bumper

I got to get on up out of here, y'all.

It's been a stone cold blast and it's always,

you always get from me peace, love, and soul.

You motivated, you motivated, you winning with it.

You know they hated it.

All of fear, fear, she, fear, fear, fear, fear,

fear, she, whoo, that girl from a wet side girl.