0:00
This is kind of in perimenopause when women hit their late 30s, they go into their doctor and
0:05
they're like, well, I'm gaining weight. I'm more anxious, usually during that, you know,
0:09
KMS week that we called the week before their cycle. And what does the doctor do? They slap them
0:14
on hormonal birth control, which is conjugated at a coin estrogen. It's not bioidentical,
0:20
it's toxic, it the liver has to process it, and they give them an antidepressants. It's literally
0:24
every patient that comes to see me, that is not feeling better. That is what they're getting with
0:28
conventional medicine for their symptoms. All right, guys, we're here at A4M with one of the
0:38
speakers. She is speaking tomorrow. We got Jen here today. What are you talking about tomorrow?
0:43
Cycle syncing in perimenopause. How to optimize that, yeah? Cycle syncing. Is that when friends
0:48
sync their cycles with each other or is that something else? That happens too, and you can
0:53
psych your syncho with your daughter if they live with you or something, but yeah, we see that
0:56
on sports teams a lot. Yeah. But a lot of people are on synthetic birth control now, so that messes
1:01
that up. But cycle syncing is working with the hormone fluctuation that women have during their
1:06
menstrual cycle to their benefit, instead of fighting against the biology, because that leads to
1:11
weight gain and anxiety and not good. Interesting. Yeah, it's really helpful when women understand
1:17
their cycle, and men, boyfriends, husbands, when they understand the cycle, because maybe you'll
1:23
get in less fights, have more intercourse. So it's important for men, too, to know what it is.
1:29
I'm actually learning about it now. She has an app. There's certain days she's more fertile,
1:33
right? Yeah. At the month, so I'm learning. I'm trying my best to learn it, you know? Yeah,
1:37
are you avoiding fertility or trying to? We just got married, so we want to have kids soon,
1:41
so we're just planning it, and yeah, 28 day cycle, right? It's crazy. Being a guy is so easy.
1:46
Oh, yeah. You're the same every day. Yeah. So with women, we're different every day of our cycle,
1:50
but we can really hone in on that and make it better for the woman and for the man. Yeah, what are
1:56
some things to keep an eye on when it comes to the woman's cycle? Yeah, so the first half of the
1:59
cycle is the follicular phase, so that starts with bleeding, okay? So men kind of know, you know,
2:03
the women's like, oh, I'm on my cycle. So if they keep track of that, they can know a little better.
2:07
But this, this is when estrogen is more dominant. So this is when you can do the hit workouts.
2:13
You can push your body, go for the PRs, do the sprints, do the heavy weights, and you're less
2:18
likely to get hurt. Really? Because the second half of the cycle, the luteal phase, they did
2:22
studies on soccer players in Europe, and this team, they got injured more, soft tissue injury,
2:28
joints, ligaments in that second half of that cycle, that luteal phase. Seriously.
2:32
Yeah, and when we're seeing with women, if they're entering in their 30s, late 30s,
2:37
they're still doing the sprints, the hit workouts, all throughout their cycle to lose weight,
2:42
because they're starting to creep up and weight, and they're actually gaining weight,
2:45
because they're invoking a cortisol response. So their body's freaking out, and they're packing
2:50
on the belly weight, and, you know, they're training for a marathon, even. I had a patient
2:54
trained for a marathon, gained 20 pounds, like, finish line, with 20 pounds heavier. Yeah,
3:00
the, my worst fear is when a patient's like, I'm going to train for a marathon in their
3:05
imperial menopause, their late 30s, early 40s. I'm like, please don't. Yeah, it tanks their
3:10
progesterone, tanks their testosterone, they gain weight, their cortisol is jacked.
3:16
Yeah, I know. So don't run a marathon if you're experiencing
3:19
parimenopause? Right. Or you can sync it with your cycle. So you could do the harder training days,
3:24
that first half of the cycle, the follicular phase, and maybe concentrate on more mobility,
3:29
and strength training that second half. So I think there's a way to do it. But all the training
3:33
programs are usually designed by men, for men, and women just are jumping on to the running
3:40
group. No, we have to do things differently because our hormones demand it. Wow, I never even
3:44
thought about that. Yeah, it's, it's pretty cool when you look at the science. And it's how
3:49
responsive our cells are to insulin plays a role too. Yeah. And cortisol influences insulin,
3:55
because if we're stressed out all the time, we're pumping out that cortisol, makes this more
3:59
insulin resistant. So if you're pushing hard during that second half of that cycle, that
4:04
luteal phase, you're, you're going to have consequences. And we see that with irritability,
4:09
blood glucose issues, because you think about it. So you guys are getting ready to have kids.
4:14
Yeah. That second half of that cycle is after ovulation. So what's happening? That egg is getting
4:19
ready to fertilize and that egg wants to implant and make a nice home. So if we're stressed and
4:24
trying to run from a bear or literally running, training for a marathon, our body is not going to
4:29
react well. Yeah. And it's not good. That makes sense. You mentioned birth control earlier.
4:34
What are the stats on that these days? I know a lot of women are taking it. Well, this is kind of
4:39
in perimenopause when women hit their late 30s, they go into their doctor and they're like, well,
4:44
I'm gaining weight. I'm more anxious. Usually during that, you know, PMS week that we call it the
4:50
week before their cycle. Yep. And what does the doctor do? They slap them on hormonal birth control,
4:56
which is conjugated equine estrogen. It's not bioidentical. It's toxic. The liver has to process it
5:02
and they give them an antidepressants. It's literally every patient that comes to see me that is not
5:07
feeling better. That is what they're getting with conventional medicine for their symptoms.
5:12
Geez. Yeah. There's so many women starting at a young age too.
5:15
Yeah. And that's another problem because that's going to affect fertility and put them at risk.
5:19
And really when you're taking oral conjugated equine estrogen, it's gunking up that liver.
5:24
Yeah. So you're not detoxifying as well. And we live in a very toxic world. So it's just building
5:29
up and that can cause weight gain, energy loss, mitochondrial issues. What's going on with
5:35
fertility days? There seems to be a lot of issues. What do you think the main driving factors are?
5:39
Well, metabolic health. So we are seeing a lot of polycystic ovarian syndrome. We're seeing a lot
5:44
of insulin resistance. And then that is stressing out the body that is hurting fertility, ovulation,
5:51
the cycle. So we're seeing a lot of shortened cycles. So women will start to say, oh,
5:56
I have a 25 day cycle. I have a 24 day cycle. Well, that progesterone is either declining because
6:03
of cortisol stress on the body, erratic blood sugar, or we're having an estrogen dominance where
6:09
we're not detoxifying the estrogen as well. So that's a shortened cycle. And that is not good for
6:14
fertility. So a lot of women we work on fixing those root causes first, but more and more women
6:19
need progesterone to support a pregnancy. A lot of women come to me with recurrent miscarriages
6:25
and we test their progesterone and it's deficient. And yeah, we can try things like chase treeberry
6:30
to support that and have the body make its own. But at a certain point, we do give progesterone
6:35
to support that pregnancy. But if you think about it, I mean, we're drinking out of plastic cups,
6:40
everything's wrapped in plastic. So we have endocrine disruptors. Plastic oil for this brother.
6:44
Yeah, well, and then if it if it's hot, you know, it goes up to the lid and touches the plastic.
6:49
I love coffee. Well, just just bring your own cup. Yeah, bring my own glass bottle. See,
6:54
there you go. You're good to go there. Yeah. Do you think fertility issues are mainly a female
6:58
issue right now? Or do you think it's something men are dealing with too? Oh, definitely both.
7:03
Yeah, we know sperm counts are declining also. So men are at risk, but once again,
7:09
testosterone metabolic flexibility. So if men aren't going to the gym and lifting weights.
7:14
Then that's going to affect their testosterone infertility. Cortisol is a big driver too of
7:20
infertility. If we're stressed in fight or flight all the time, you know, I know you have a lot
7:24
of passionate guests that get all worked up about stuff like the one before me like his cortisol,
7:30
you know, you could feel it in the room. He's dealing with some. Yeah, he is some major stress
7:34
right now. So he that is going to affect his hormones. So he has to figure out how to balance that
7:39
with supplements, with fegal nerve techniques. So it's all fixable. I think it's recognizing it,
7:44
recognizing that we're running around in a sympathetic stressed out state all the time.
7:49
You think that's why people aren't having as much sex anymore. People are just stressed all the time.
7:53
Uh, yeah. So everyone thinks that it's testosterone, right? Especially I hate to say male doctors
7:59
think this, but I talked to them and they're like, oh, they need testosterone. Like women need
8:03
testosterone. You are a tea, baby. Well, they don't need it. Yeah. So I know guys in their 20s,
8:09
taking it. Well, do they, are they taking it with other things? Like, well,
8:14
men to preserve their fertility? I don't think so. They know. They don't know. I don't think so.
8:18
Okay. They're just taking it. Oh, okay. Well, that's scary. So you need to give them a heads up
8:23
that it can affect their fertility if they're just taking testosterone. And then what if they
8:27
meet the women of their dreams, they think they don't want kids, but then what if they meet her
8:31
and she's like, I want kids and they can't. So it affects your fertility like abilities when
8:37
you're TR2. It affects the feedback loop. So if you're getting it, your body isn't going to make
8:42
its own. Right. And that messes up that feedback loop. So for men that can be dangerous. Now women
8:48
giving excess testosterone isn't going to affect the back loop as much, but they're going to
8:53
get more manly. They can have, well, if they have unimposed testosterone to it can affect the heart.
8:58
Yeah. So we also have to balance that out. But I'll check women's labs and I'm like, you don't
9:03
need testosterone. So can you guess what their problem is? What is a cortisol? Stress?
9:09
It's stress. Yes. Sometimes, but stress can look, it could be, you know, poor metabolic
9:15
profiles. So they're not metabolically flexible. So their blood sugars bouncing up and down,
9:18
they could not be sleeping. It could be a stress from like a stealth infection like mold or
9:25
Candida. So it can be other things other than just, you know, emotional stress are working too
9:31
much. It's, it's a lot of different layers, but we need to correct that. So once we correct that,
9:36
then their sex drive comes back. Really? No testosterone needed.
9:39
Stressing, huh? Yeah. Yeah. Stress is a big one. But also, keep in mind the cycle syncing.
9:45
So if you're approaching your wife, your girlfriend, and it's late luteal phase right before they get
9:50
their cycle, they're not going to be as into it. Really? Yes. Because so right before their period,
9:55
they're not into it. Yeah. That late luteal phase, they're like, don't touch me. I'm just,
9:59
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11:02
for play, it's going to take longer versus that ovulatory phase. Their body, because we're
11:08
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11:13
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11:30
and she's just going to be like, no, no, but, but also if your hormones are more balanced,
11:36
you're not going to have as much mood fluctuation. Yeah. But there's also fun things. Have you heard
11:40
of PT-141? Is that a peptide? Mm-hmm. What does that do? It's a nasal spray. It helps with a
11:45
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nose, my husband and I can both use it. Male and female can use it. And 30 minutes prior to
12:03
perceived intercourse and it helps. So the oxytocin helps with more the intimacy. So that's why I
12:08
like it with my female patients. And then the PT-141 more for like the actual arousal. So it's
12:15
oh yeah, it's great. Can you just buy that online or you need a prescription?
12:18
Hmm, prescription. Okay. But compounding pharmacies make it it's pretty standard. So that's
12:23
like a nice little one before diving into hormones. You can optimize the peptides. They have an
12:28
injectable PT-141. That's a prescription. But the side effects nausea. So you're not going to want
12:34
to like, it doesn't really make sense. It doesn't make sense in the bedroom. Yeah. So the
12:38
internasal is more well tolerated. Wow. What are some other things you're taking for the bedroom?
12:42
For the bedroom. I mean, there's topical solutions that you can get like called scream cream.
12:48
That sometimes I'll put patients on. Scream cream? Yeah. So basically what it's doing is it's
12:52
increasing blood flow to the colatoris. So that is going to help women also when they're
12:57
impairing menopause or even before that. And then also you want to look if they have any trauma,
13:04
emotional trauma. I've had a lot of patients where they've needed pelvic floor therapy after
13:10
having kids. And then that helped their sex life. So if they're, you know, I know your audience is
13:14
mostly men. Take some notes and work with your wife about this because there's a, we're a little
13:22
more complicated than men. I hate to say that, but there's a lot more. It's more an emotional
13:27
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13:34
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Yeah. Yeah. It's pretty rough. So that pelvic floor can also get tight in certain places. They're
14:50
they're going to be internal trigger points. So you know how you get like sore muscle trigger points
14:53
in the arm. So that can happen internally. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So I'll have women with chronic hip
14:58
pain. And they have never gotten an internal vaginal exam by a physical therapist to address
15:03
those trigger points. And then you release those trigger points and better and everything's better
15:08
for them. Wow. You know, back pain hip pain. So pelvic floor health in general is ignored a lot
15:14
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15:21
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15:25
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15:30
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15:35
of like some low back pain or hip pain. I'm like, have you ever had pelvic floor therapy? I've
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never been heard of the pelvic floor therapy. Oh, it's great. It's so helpful for women. Yeah,
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usually the good ones are cash pay. Sometimes there are some good insurance ones, but a lot of women
15:51
actually have like high tone in the vaginal area. Yeah. So it causes it's just they're always like
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16:04
the body, the cranial sacral access. And it's really interesting once someone gets pelvic floor
16:10
therapy, even going pee or poop the right way. You know, maybe they weren't doing that correctly.
16:16
They're squatting and not sitting down and relaxing. They're not breathing properly. I even
16:21
refer men to pelvic floor therapy too. A lot of people poop the wrong way, actually. Yes. How do
16:26
you poop? I have the squatty potty. Yes. That's the right way, right? You're supposed to extend
16:30
a little bit your legs. Yeah. Yeah. It was it's funny at the hotel. You know, you can flip over
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the garbage can and use that as a if you run into if you're traveling and running. Yeah. But yes,
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I squatty potty's I feel like they should just come on the toilets automatically. They should
16:45
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at n101.com. Yes, yes, yes. Yeah, it was terrible. Yeah, that is too much. You kind of want to go in
17:58
and go out. Were you just sitting there for enjoyment or was it taking that long? So I played chess,
18:03
but I don't stop playing until I end on a win. So like I would go on these losing streaks and
18:07
then it'd be an hour on the toilet like every day and then got a hemorrhoids. So I was like,
18:11
yeah, I'm never doing that again. Yeah, you got to get in and get out. If you're spending too long
18:16
on the toilet, then you need to start working on your gut health. That hasn't got health issues too.
18:20
Oh, yeah. So that would make sense. Yeah. But the good thing is is that stuff's reversible
18:26
hemorrhoids and everything. So where do you play your chess at now? Not on the toilet. Yeah.
18:30
In bed or standing. Now I'm walking actually a lot while I play. Oh, yeah, that's great.
18:35
I have to double my step count. We're into my latest blood work. So yeah, that's what we want.
18:40
We want to have that. The actual fissioning is good for us that non workout and moving in between
18:47
and sitting there. Because I sit all day. So in between episodes, I try to get some steps in.
18:51
Yeah, because that's going to get that gut moving also. Yeah, that's great.
18:54
Well, this was exciting. I can't wait to watch your talk tomorrow.
18:58
Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. Yeah, anything else you're working on or planned
19:02
or where can people find you? Yeah, I have a book, the Perry Manipa's Reset.
19:06
And you can find me on Instagram, Integrative Doctor Mom, Integrative DR Mom.
19:11
And I'm excited for you to start having kids. Yeah, I'll contact you for advice.
19:16
So thank you. Of course, thank you. Check her out, guys. Peace.
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