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Conflict gets a bad rap—but avoiding it can leave relationships shallow, tense, and stuck. In The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict, Priya Parker reveals how healthy disagreement can strengthen groups, friendships, and communities. Then, in Why We Fight: A Transformative Road Map to Healing Conflict in Any Relationship, Kim Polinder explains how old wounds and nervous-system alarms can hijack our most intimate arguments. Together, they offer a smarter way to choose the fights that matter, stay connected when things get heated, and turn conflict from a threat into an opportunity.
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