THE GREATest COMEback

0:00I'm thinking of all the cliches saying life can be cruel or life's a bitch or you know all these things. How can we sum this one up? It's like the thing you fear the most you finally get up the courage to do and you just keep getting knocked down so you're like oh okay then. Right like after so many tries you know. I'm like oh is this not for me. So it can either be your biggest setback or your biggest comeback you know I think that's what happens a lot of times right when you they were showing they were abusing me as an example or I don't want to tell you all the specifics but you get your heart smashed. It's that one smash that is like just you go all in and open up and it doesn't pan

1:04out. It only takes that one time. It's like even if you've done it many a time sometimes it's just that one but I've shared it with you in ways too that it does sound fucked up it does but it's also sometimes it is like the universe going how much are you going to fucking tolerate. Stop accepting that shit right so it sometimes has to be really hard or really loud for some of us. Like some of us can tolerate can handle can take why why right it's like we don't like it but we have learned and adjusted that that's too bad this is what it is. Like you know you you start to accept and tolerate so much because it's beaten to you that that's the way it's going to be right and then you're like oh this so then you just you become you become like Cinderella where you just live in your in your fantasy and do what you're supposed to do and it's kind of like keep your head down or keep your head

2:07up meaning just focus on what you want and do what you need to do until you know so it doesn't it's like you've just normalized you've adjusted to accepting crap and when you learn that and start to heal and do better and no longer accept but continue to focus on your dream and not accept in the interim and so you open up to your dream and then somebody it's like punches you in the gut where we've talked about all these different and so again I you know I think this happens to all of us in varying ways and that's the thing right it's it's not a failure and it's not a mistake it's a don't give up right this is happening to all of us all the time while throughout life it's not but but I the okay but they're saying the point of this one is sometimes it really does take that smash of all smashes

3:09and sometimes people can't get back up after the last crash right sometimes they really it's done them in and and others it's it is like a temporary setback but just to fling you forward to your greatest comeback but I don't know that either of those are excellent stories to hear either to be honest because I think it also gives the it can slide into the giving of too much hope so then you're looking to get versus just living and doing what feels best for you and but maybe that's me maybe that's me saying it the wrong way and that so I don't want you to accept or swallow all the hurts or all the pains or all the losses but I also

4:11it's like I want you to get adjusted to the feeling that you desire and I know that can be challenging if you've never experienced the feelings you desire right especially if you've never been around real unconditional love you've only been around conditional love you've only been around people who have lots of lots of conditions before you get any love or attention or anything and so it's like it's almost like a fine concept to people you know it's like they know what they desire they think right it's like they've never experienced it so it's it's challenging for them to to sit in a feeling they can only presume and then that's why it's like be careful what you ask for but mm at the same time don't be just dream away and then you'll get it and then you'll constantly be tweaking because you look out this this isn't what I thought it was or this isn't what I you know

5:13and it's like you have to keep doing that internal work and I do think it's like be careful you don't want either extreme you don't want it to be your biggest let down where you never get back up right that's extreme that's going down into depression feeling getting stuck there and you don't want to get disappointed that every time you go all in it's not your comeback because then you'll start to get to the point where you're like oh so I'm just not going to get a comeback right like I don't want you to give up hope but I also don't want you jumping into everyone thinking this is the one I mean I kind of do but I but you have to be careful about that I mean you really do want it to be the one in other words you don't want to just jump into anything you want exactly what you want so I do want you to be particular I do want you to be specific I do want you to be picky

6:16but I also want you to be honest and I want you to be real and I want you to be sure that you're in a space that you can be picky meaning I want your vibration as high as you can get it when you get picky right like I want you floating in that bliss and getting picky then which I know is a challenge for me because when I'm floating in that bliss I'm happy as all convey I'm happy as all convey not a damn thing needs to happen or change or anything I'm just floating on cloud nine so like to be picky or specific about what I'm thrilled everything's perfect and yet that's the time to I guess it's a time to ask for more I just I'm happy there ah

7:19maybe I missed the message on this one I don't know I don't know the message was showing me and it was showing um the greatest comeback but like I just explained to get I think you got to be careful with all these just for your own mental stability right because I do think it's important that you are always coming from the right mindset and focused on your desired outcomes but I know for me it's like like I said you can tilt one way or the other but when you do that it can also go float into expectations which can lead to disappointments and so then you have yourself tumbling again so I'm gonna jump off thanks so much for tuning in and listening you can

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