The Jacob Temperament

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When everything seems to go wrong, how do you respond?

In this episode, Stephen Davey examines Genesis 42:29 through 43:34, where the focus shifts from Joseph to his aging father, Jacob. Joseph’s brothers return from Egypt, food is running out, and Jacob must decide whether to send Benjamin—the son he loves most—into the unknown. His responses are all too familiar: fear, manipulation, denial, and despair.

Stephen outlines what he calls “The Jacob Temperament”—a pattern of wrong conclusions, self-pity, and refusal to trust God’s plan. Jacob believes everything is against him, but the truth is exactly the opposite: God is orchestrating a reunion, provision, and future blessing.

You’ll also see how Joseph continues testing his brothers—not to be cruel, but to awaken humility, honesty, and healing. Through these family tensions, God is shaping hearts and preparing them for reconciliation.

This message invites you to examine how you respond to suffering and disappointment. Do you try to manipulate outcomes? Do you replay your troubles on a loop? Or are you learning to say, like Jacob finally did, “If I am bereaved, I am bereaved”—an honest surrender to God’s care?

Whether you’re stuck in the past or fearing the future, this episode will help you recognize God’s goodness—even when life feels uncertain.

Stephen Davey's newest book, The Disciples Prayer, is available now. https://www.wisdomonline.org/store/view/the-disciples-prayer-hardback

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