The Kinks Couple's Secretly Want & How to Actually Try Them

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Every couple has them — the things they're curious about but have never said out loud. Today we're pulling them into the light.

Deborah Kat — certified tantric educator, relationship coach, and host of the Better Sex podcast — walks us through the three categories couples are most curious about right now, and the part that matters most: exactly how to bring them up with your partner without it landing weird or killing the mood.

In this episode:

• The three pillars of couple's play — and what each one really gives you
• The difference between a kink and a fetish
• Why the person in charge and the person letting go are both after the same thing: trust
• Simple, low-pressure ways to start tonight — using nothing but your own body
• The exact words to introduce something new (and what to do if you get shut down)

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