The Moment You Become Unbreakable (Motivational Speech)

Welcome to Real Talk with Reggie of the day. I'm your host, Reggie of the day. On today's

episode, I'm going to talk about becoming unbreakable. Let's get real, fam. Life is tough. Life

is challenging. Life has the way of making you weak or making you stronger. It just depends

on how you react to situations in life. It can either break you or you can become unbreakable

through it. In order for you to become unbreakable, especially emotionally, there are a few things

I want to throw at you. I need you to know that becoming unbreakable doesn't mean you

will never feel pain. It just means that you won't allow things you're going through

to destroy you. There's something I need you to know when becoming unbreakable. First

realize that you're human. You're going to cry sometimes. You're going to get frustrated

sometimes. And that's okay. So you can't deal with reality if you don't understand

your reality. Become an unbreakable means you have blocked the world's permission to

tell you how to feel. If you're satisfaction in life comes from someone else's approval

about you. If you're satisfaction comes from certain people liking you, do you just make

yourself a hostage in your own life? I need you to understand when becoming unbreakable

I need you to realize that your real strength comes from internally. So you can't control

everything that happens to you. But you definitely had a power to control what happens

within you. Don't you know that unbreakable people don't waste energy fighting their reality?

They accept their reality no matter how bad and they do something about it. The reason

you have been broken down so many times is because you keep letting reality beat you down

and you're doing nothing about it. Just because you feel it doesn't mean you need to

feed it. Yes, you're going to feel sad. Angry and fearful at times. That's the part

of your emotions. Those things will show up in your life from time to time. You just

can't let them drive the car. That's the point when you got to take over and quit dwelling

on those things. When becoming unbreakable, you need to focus on your efforts and your

character. You need to give your all to everything you set out to do. Finish what you started.

If you dream of having your own business, finish it. If you dream of going to college,

go forward and finish it. Don't let nobody finish what you started. This is your dream.

This is your desire. The power is more than you will have in life is when you know that

you gave it your all. When you know that you gave it your all, then other people's opinions

doesn't even matter anymore, right? That's how you become unbreakable. When you become

unbreakable, you shift mentally from thinking that you are damaged goods to knowing that

you are a battle tester. I need you to do this. Look back over your life and everything

you've been through. You keep bouncing back. You're shown that you can have a weight that

will question normal and average person. There are days where your heart is heavy, but

you show up in a way. There are days where you don't feel like nothing, but you show up

in a way. So that kind of consistency and determination made you into that unbreakable

person that can't be moved. Life provided your cage has shaped your foundation, but it

can't break you when you know what's in you. That is the power within you that God has

given you that will allow you to overcome anything. Being unbreakable means that you are

made of something that nothing in the world can crack. Let's talk about this. And you're

probably not going to like this. When becoming unbreakable, you have to quit spending time

praying for a lighter load in life. You got to realize the heavier the load, the stronger

your back is going to be. Becoming unbreakable means that when life knocks you down, you

don't stay down. You flex under pressure. You'll strengthen this bound when you refuse

to let life's challenges change who you really are or who you want to become. You know,

I seen a lot of people in life that always look for an out or a rescue. They never want

to face what is going on in their lives and they keep losing over and over again. When

you stop looking for someone to rescue you, that's when you will find your power. You have

to take ownership of your life. If you'll sit in the round waiting on life to be fair,

you have already lost your life. Your greatness comes from the things that try to destroy you.

I need you to remember that. It was tough, but you stayed in the game. That's why you're

unbreakable. You can't break a person that refuses to give up and quit. See, all those

times you thought you were scarred, but in our reality, you were being reinforced. You just

got to stay disciplined. Discipline is something that your emotions cannot penetrate. Now,

let me share a couple of things about becoming emotionally unbreakable. In order for you to

let your emotions become unbreakable, you have to start reacting immediately. Think things

through before you react. That's how you make good decisions and the right decisions. Learn

to stay calm doing chaos. Also, never let your anger make decisions for you. Choose peace

over conflict. Sometimes you got to detach yourself from people. Just make sure you do it

gracefully. And here's the big one. Instead, what you cannot control, man, don't waste your

energy or emotions on something you have no control of. I need you to know that every

choice you made is either a deposit or withdrawal in your life. The only thing that's standard

in the way of you and your end goal is your F. See, life is not driven by love. It's driven

by structure and discipline. Like I told you once before, you can either have excuses or you

can have results, but you can't have both. Once you realize that nothing etching can destroy

your internal power, that's when you become the most dangerous person in the room.

That's when you become unbreakable.

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