The Painfully Easy Leadership Traps We Fall Into,(And How to Escape Them)

This week, Josh and Bob tackle the hidden beliefs that hold leaders back — inspired by a recent Harvard Business Review article. From perfectionism and ego to the inability to say “no,” they unpack the mental traps that quietly sabotage leadership growth.

Through stories, humor, and brutal honesty, they dig into what it really means to lead without making it about you. Whether it’s learning that not everyone’s wired like you, realizing you’re the ceiling for your team, or finally getting comfortable saying “no,” this episode is a mirror for every leader who’s brave enough to look.

It’s part confession, part coaching session — and all real talk about what it takes to lead in today’s world.

• Bob's Book Recommendation: Death March: The Complete Software Developer's Guide to Surviving "Mission Impossible" Projects
• Josh's Book Recommendation - The Mythical Man-Month: Essays on Software Engineering, Anniversary Edition
• The Hidden Beliefs That Hold Leaders Back - The HBR article that inspired this episode

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