The Problem With Perfectionism: Jonny Wilkinson

👁️ Try Neutonic: https://www.neutonic.com/jamessmith 🧪 Check your Test: https://www.manual.co/smith 📝 Business Mentoring: https://www.jamessmith.business 🏋🏼‍♂️ Online Coaching: https://www.jamessmithacademy.com Johnny Wilkinson on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jonnywilkinsonofficial/ Rugby legend Johnny Wilkinson joins James Smith to reveal the uncomfortable truth about the problem with perfectionism, why the pursuit of "perfect" is a quiet crisis that creates a dangerous lie of future salvation while destroying your current reality. Wilkinson explains how living in a constant state of survival and impending doom reshapes our biology and threatens the very essence of human potential. They discuss the myths around "mastery" being a finished destination, the toxic nature of avoiding failure, and the real reasons behind the mental time bomb that elite performance often hides. From the pressures of a World Cup final to the quiet struggle of starting a business, this episode explores how the need for control can break down the whole system of human performance. We Cover: ⬛ Why Perfectionism is a Survival State not a Success Strategy ⬛ How the Myth of "Making It" Destroys Human Curiosity ⬛ Why Mastery Requires Self-Awareness over Mechanical Replication ⬛ How to Harness Pressure as Energy instead of Enduring it as Truth ⬛ What Happens when You Stop Chasing Outcomes and Start Healing the Gut Chapters: 00:00 Intro: Harder Than a World Cup Penalty 00:32 Who Is Johnny Wilkinson? 01:19 What Is the Problem With Perfectionism? 03:01 Nobody's Perfect: Is the Journey the Point? 05:34 Regression to the Mean & the Pressure of Kicking 07:07 Martin Johnson, Teammates & Carrying the Weight 09:46 Pressure Is Just a Thought — Reframing It Entirely 12:29 The Bell Curve of Arousal in Sport 14:15 Growing Up in Survival Mode 16:43 Opening the Door to Yourself 19:14 Identity, Expectations & Tipping Over 20:40 Missing a Kick in Front of the England Camp 23:39 From Running Away to Owning the Space 25:51 One Living — Born From a Changing Room in Toulon 27:02 Why Johnny Started a Health Brand 31:37 When Your Body Can't Keep Up With Your Mind 34:48 One Living: The Rebrand Story 38:31 Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset in Business 40:45 Listening to Your Body Like You Listen to a Kick 43:30 Stress, Food Choices & What You Actually Want 49:06 What One Living Really Stands For 53:13 Opening Doors: The Philosophy Behind the Brand 57:44 The Virtue of Suffering — Is Misery Masculine? 59:16 Thoughts as Truths & the Stray Cat Problem 1:03:46 The Mind Gym: Switching Energy States 1:07:03 Cold Water, Nature & Resetting Your Energy 1:08:59 The One Living Shots Explained 1:11:39 Stop, Breathe, Drink: A Philosophy for Life 1:14:13 Closing Thoughts & Where to Find One Living Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices