Attraction feels electric; predictability feels safe. This episode gives you a compact, actionable framework—The Public‑Private Mirror—that helps you read whether someone’s words match their actions across three revealing situations: how they introduce and represent you in public, how they show up when you need private support, and how they defend your boundaries or stand up for you. In eight minutes Sarah walks you through real examples, what to notice, how to log evidence without overthinking, and a simple 30‑day micro-plan to gather clear, behavior‑based data. The goal isn’t to test cruelly but to replace guesswork with observable signals so you can decide faster, with less overwhelm. Practical, repeatable, and aligned with the show’s principle: consistency over chemistry.
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