The Revolving Door of Transformation | ReWire 1909

Welcome to the rewire podcast. I'm your host Ryan Stoeman and I'm here to rewire your mind for success

You were put on this planet for success. You were created to succeed

But the force of average is after you every single day my brothers and sisters and this podcast is the one thing

This design to help you fight the force of average and excel in every area of your life. We're glad that you're here

You know, I've changed a lot over the years

If you go back to 2008 2009 you look at my YouTube and Facebook. I dressed in clothes from coals and

Didn't cuss talk like Ned Flanders. Hey, diddly neighbor

I was kind of just trying to find out who the fuck Ryan was at that time

Ryan was embarrassed

He had some felonies and that he was you know working a job and and the economy was struggling a little bit back in 2008

2009

I was fresh out of prison 2010 through 2012. I'm trying to discover myself as an entrepreneur

I barely kept my hair cut. I wasn't taking care of my physical appearance that well

I was working 50 hour days. That's how we got 48 seven 48 hours a day seven days a week

Man, it was absolutely crazy and in 2014 one day I did a podcast and I just kind of came out and owned all my shit

Now son, you know what now that I've owned everything. I'm just gonna be who I think I am

And I thought I was this loud mouth shit talking sales trainer

You know, and I started wearing short sleeve shirts to show off some of my tattoos that I had that I'd previously cover

And started cussing because that's how I am in real life anyway

and

At some point I got pretty famous all things considered and I wind up on stage with all these amazing people

And I realized that that's not the path that I wanted to go down

My path was never hey, I want to be famous. I want to be an influencer

It was I want to run a business impact people and change lives and a lot of you listen and think oh well

He runs a coaching business. I don't I'm not a coach. I haven't done that for a long time

We run a lending business and business association, which is like a membership portal with benefits behind it

As well as a software company in a real estate portfolio. So

Coaching is not something I do. I haven't done it for a little over a year

And so when when I say that it's like I never wanted to be that

It was just so many people asked me to coach them and I'm like, okay

Cool, so I did that for a couple years

But it wasn't me so many people asked me to speak on stage and I made great money doing both of those things

I don't regret it at all. I learned I met a lot of great people

But I realized that's not me. I hate it being away from my family

I got to go speak two or three days in a row at a conference in Vegas

Or maybe I got a fly out there the day before and have a meet and greet then speak and man

I don't like I don't like not sleeping in the bed next to Amy stuman

I don't like not kissing my kids before they go to bed

I don't like not waking up and hollering upstairs. Get up kids like I don't like I am a routine man that spent years of my life in prison

I'm very determined and very routine and I don't mind traveling places

But I didn't like doing it two or three times a week and then in 2022

I thought the world was gonna end so I bought this ranch and it reminded me of the small town

I grew up in the life that I used to live before I got caught up in all this city life

And I appreciate it so much more and I decided you know what it's time for another evolution of Ryan

I've had every Lamborghini

I every

McLaren that I wanted every Lamborghini

I wanted to have had all these cars all these fancy this sat in the other in reality man

I want to be a guy with four wheelers tractors fish and poles, you know

Be able to take my friends hunting

Be able to raise my kids off the land

They'll know so much more than other kids when they're growing up

I've changed it you know

I you know I've realized that money's great and and I like it and I can always have more

There's never enough of it but family is what really I care the most about and my family

And I have the greatest times not in the Lamborghini or not in the Porsche that I drive

In the pickup truck

We have the greatest times on the back of a four wheeler. We've had

Far better times in the back of a four wheeler than we've had in the passenger seat of a Lamborghini

And with four kids these things don't serve me the way that they used to

Maybe again in the future at some point as my kids get older but right now SUVs and trucks fit our family better

Right now having a ranch with a bunch of tractors and cattle and deer and hogs and all that man that

That's that's not a flex, but that's who Ryan is and so if you see me out there and you think stewman's changing

You're right and I can guarantee you this this won't be the last evolution of change that I make either

And if you're not changing you should always be trying to change for the better

I'm always chasing the best version of myself. I highly recommend you do that as well

The best version of myself's being the best husband, father for my wife and kids and the best leader for my employees

And the best service for my clients. That's what I care about