Til Debt Do Us Do Us Part (Part. 1)

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3:08A.J. Holiday. What's up, Tambam? Y'all is me, Tambam. I love y'all. I do that. You think they get tired of your next day? And we? Oh, boy. I love y'all. You got to have a uniformity. You got to have uniformity. Okay, give it a go. To make sure we do all the parts. Speaking of that, how was your weekend? My weekend was great. I didn't do shit. Wow. All I did was, like, spin money, circulate money. Excuse me. I circulated a lot of money this weekend. What'd you get? Just how shit food. Yeah, grocery shopping is very... is much more expensive than eating now. They need no I was just saying that I was just saying like my mom was like I don't see you cooking them all I was like cuz it don't make no sense that my I'll cook sometimes, but it's just the same price to eat out But you at least you at least get a few meals out from you know from cooking home, but the price of the groceries

4:09It's fucking crazy. Yeah, but then I gotta eat The same shit a few times I hate I feel like that might be like one of the cheat codes losing weight like eating the same shit every day Like you just got your rice starch vegetable, you know, you're protein and whatever like eating the same shit every day and helps No, you want that I don't want that, but I probably should start doing that. I'm I tried today I didn't order any food. I didn't do it. Actually, they think that You need restaurant so yeah for me. I saw somebody posted They ordered door dash and they realized like the person was taking a long time to come and then the the driver Message was like I got into a car accident You saw that post and he pulled up to give him food. I said I'm $20 too He put his cash up on there. Shit man. I know how once you wreck your car Especially as a gig worker Like that's a lot of money probably out his pocket at this point that he can't work probably his regular job plus the gig job

5:11Job putting no car. Yeah, you gonna need them a couple dollars That was nice of you little hot 20 She'd be getting me like that all the time especially if it's late at night Like I said I just hit some money. I know probably didn't get to who it really deserved to go to Thank you No, you just paying into the universe girl. I gotta get my chia I'm I look if you finesse I'll be the dumb bitch Cuz I still win I got this website on my phone y'all can't I mean that website a app y'all can download it too. It's called be my eyes And it's like blind people all over the world are on this app and you'll get a phone call And they'll be like can you tell me Whatever this is I can't see it, you know, and you can read something you can read recipes for them You can do all this so the guy I'm only had my phone ring two times um and

6:12Cuz the ring I didn't know what it was. I like the fuck is that cuz I forgot I had downloaded that and it was this man And he wanted me to sort help him sort his laundry So I was like that's color. That's why that's color. That's why you know And that was all he wanted really yeah, so I'll be down low that I know it's so cool. It's gonna be my eyes Do they do they screen the people though cuz what if the people can actually see and they see they want to call you Right me some bullshit like that Yeah, never for me wait, I thought you could say Ben I don't want to feel you through the phone Yeah Y'all try that it's cool. What you had going on this weekend What did I do this weekend? I really honestly I can't really spend any money so I stayed in watching um Tyler Perry uh Beauty beauty and black the new season came out. I stayed cuz I I'm planning my sisters my sister's having a baby y'all

7:16So I'm planning her baby shower in my mom's 70th birthday party back to back I got no money for nothing leisure until after these are done right so I did that all on your sister She is like five months her she's due Christmas day. Did she have her agenda reveal cuz you know It's like they do the two things now gender reveal plus a baby shower You know, I she is all right. She is Miranda from uh states in the city when it comes to Like she said conservative Extremely conservative like she don't want it. She don't want no gender reveal. She did like a video and send it to everybody Like a toy story AI video and send it to everybody for the gender reveal and I was like I don't want to do anything too much. Let's just see if we can change the color over the city of Charlotte and like any Clock on a certain night. She was like yeah, that's far too much Like Like a viral Right, I thought that was dope idea cuz you know they You know some lights turning all those all those lights who's doing right they put the gay lights up

8:20They put the rainbow up while we can't get the boost some blue lights or some red pink lights right I think you might fuck right to have a boy, you know like my mama got three girls. Just like your mama got three girls And somehow these niggas be popping up I Feel like I don't know what I would do with a boy, but I think she might fuck right have a boy me too That yeah for sure Hmm he gonna be super spoiled Geez, he's gonna be so spoiled Hmm it ain't been a boy in our family like Hundred years. I know for real. I mean, I do have a nephew though. I don't have nephew just nieces So yeah Only boy My nephew popped up out of nowhere for sure looking just like my sister Like what the fuck? So I watch Beauty and Black and I just want to say no, I'm not gonna spoil it for y'all just in case y'all want to watch it and I'm spoiling it but

9:21I'm a pair of be going too far sometimes like And they get nuts. Yeah, so ninjas on that shit and I'm just like we don't see ninjas like real life ninjas girl Like I just Start be going too far, you know like what the ninjas got to do with it. I don't even know what the premise of that show is I've never seen it So I don't I couldn't even begin to understand where the ninjas go at the ninjas don't go nowhere That's what I'm saying like they just is a very black story and a very black place and then all of a sudden some ninjas like Black ninjas or Asian ninjas and like the ninja outfit like You can answer the street with and it's just like what? Tell the period be doing so I think tell the period be smoking like the best shit Yeah, and man I got you might be on shrooms at the time Yeah, he mentioned around shut up the show. I know she'd be good But that was what I mean we can let's get this in

10:25So I saw this article Online it's actually out of Canada, but I can see it definitely happening here I know we've had some cases where doctors Have done this in particular, but so there's a father and son duo Who have allegedly been banned from donating sperm after fathering hundreds of children So I'm trying to figure out is there like I one of America has like a lot like you can only donate sperm Ten times and if the women like here the women have to pick you Right to father the kid like they get a booklet. I presume or online or whatever look at the person Yeah, so the people keep picking them. What's the problem? So it says the father and son were banned from doing it from donate sperm after the peer allegedly fathered over 600 children total which experts said could pose risks to the children and their families. That's too much Uh, because it can't be like especially y'all come from one community. Yes And now all these children are gonna have like kids with problems because big brothers and sisters

11:27They don't even know it you know right and says according to the lawsuit and court documents obtained by a cvc Quebec superior court temporarily and And stated a ban against a man and his son for donating sperm after they allegedly fathered 450 and 160 children each That was cool. Yeah, it was careered Spirited It says although the lawsuit did not specify which man fathered more the lawsuit was reportedly filed by a woman who had three children using sperm From one of the men and a fourth would sperm from another man She accused a pair of breaking and agreement in which they could not father more than 25 and More than 25 and ten children each light weight what okay? I do know So my my homegirl her friends They got their sperm off of Facebook These black people what should we a lesbian married couple

12:31Got their sperm to make their baby off of a Facebook group Is niggas in a Facebook group Is said his sperm and bitches is really using a turkey baster to get pregnant For real In real life I say in the sperm because how you keep it alive? I thought it died. I Guess freeze it You put it in a cooler. I don't know. I don't know how they doing it, but it's a it's a real thing. See yeah When I was 14 years old I was kidnapped and health captive for nine months I survived and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them I'm a lesbian smart and these are the survivor files. I just remember This low taunting voice next to my ear saying shut up. Don't say anything Every week I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable I knew if he woke up

13:33Without a doubt he was going to hurt me. I started feeling that There was someone at the end of my bed and I just started screaming They are abducted stocked controlled and nearly silenced But these aren't stories about what's taken from them Their stories about what it takes to make it out alive Listen to the survivor files with the Elizabeth smart on the iHeartRadio app apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts Hey, this is a his Davenport and Sean Clements. We host the podcast Hollywood handbook on the big money players network Our show is extremely accessible to first-time listeners each week We talk to someone in show business aka the biz and try to help them with their careers and see what they have to offer us Everyone has a good time and no one gets mad at their publicists for letting them do our show We've had a lot of great guests like Sarah Sherman not that great. I actually can you help me pick can can you help me shape this? Yeah, how about we flip it on his head? No, how about we flip this around? Okay

14:35What is the surprise woman? But actually you think is the straight man is actually the one who's acting weird Adam Scott Love this entire time You've been expecting Adam Sandler to come to visit the show I would never let go of that. I have you would never set expectations for something like that It sounds like if the universe allows for something like that to happen. Yeah, I am open to I'm always going to accept You know Danny McBride Fine. Yeah, it's all this fragile masculinity Exuding I could smell it walking on the hallway to be honest with me As I was like, I was like, exactly. No, it's fragile masculinity. Yeah, Ben still or no Because a lot of times in out of context people don't get it or even know what a circle is you know what I mean? Like girl, I go work just so stupid Everyone's so dumb and fake Right fake and and also not interested or just like oh, I've got my life I don't care about your life and a lot of other big shots that wouldn't be where they are without us

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17:52Our town is small taders by most standards right but to the people who grew up here it's everything What happens when a quiet Tennessee town becomes the front line in a battle over the future of America Developers with right wing ties have purchased hundreds of acres of land in the area The first thing you see when it pops up is high nears and apple etchum But they weren't just planning houses We need cities on a shining hill that exemplifying and body the Christian way of life stop right there Is that normal? A podcast about what happens when a small town becomes the site of a social experiment God need men to rule great and decides to fight back do not use my hard work to sell your They're not just opposing what's being planned for here our hometown is not a test to they feel like they're standing in opposition to an entire administration I guess you didn't move in on a bunch of dumb hillbilly's now. Did you listen to our town on the iHeartRadio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts

18:59That's cheaper Then you know going to get it done the other way but yeah and and the girl actually conceived they now this gay couple now has a child together But if your baby No, what we talking about what else we talking about Yeah, that's that's crazy is hell man. Oh, I don't know like Is the supply of men that like they must have been fine both him and his son must have been fine. I want to see them Why that many bitches big y'all Yeah, I don't it doesn't sound like it's a sperm being used it sounds like This is some Facebook shit possibly Cuz how you mean they had an agreement cuz a sperm bank would probably take you out of the options after so many Yeah, like why why are all the women choosing these two guys like it can't possibly be a sperm-big situation

20:04Now you're right. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know how that works I'm gonna never be looking to have a baby by my damn self to where I need to random niggas sperm Yeah, family more than anything What phager said what you will know is that the man you're having a baby by Needed $15 for a pizza so you could have a baby and some bullshit she said you know check that Loha hey mercy where what else So a 30 year wait for justice in two pikes killing ends with a murder conviction and under three hours I know y'all heard about key FD as Getting exactly what he deserved oh No exactly what he asked for And deserve cuz what you start at like you pretty much telling people you committed a murder Uh-huh, you need to go to jail. What you thought just cuz it was 30 years ago Yeah, he tripping so it says Las Vegas It took close to 30 years for someone to be arrested in the drive-by murder of rap legend two-poshy core and

21:10Extraordinary stretch that turned the young singers 1996 killing into the stuff of legend and conspiracy By contrast it took less than three hours for a jury of 12 Clark County Nevada residents to convict Duane key FD Davis a former leader in the Southside Compton Cripps a first-degree murder less time than it took close-in statements in the trial So Yes, so key FD has written a book Okay, over these past 30 years He has spoken about how he and whomever else killed two-puck at nauseam on different platforms He even uh, he was on Vlad tv Also talking about how he killed two-puck as well So he's really just getting what he asked for and I feel like maybe he didn't actually do what I did here like in the past that A nephew of his who's no longer with us actually did the shooting right, but I think he's gonna try and Yeah, I think he's been trying to get clout

22:11He's been clout chasing for the last 30 years. He wanted recognition for you know Killer of the shooter. He wanted yeah, that's that's really what it balls down to and now you're asked going to jail at 63 years old Like that is too old to begin time. So he's getting life in prison Essentially, yeah, yeah, so I also read somewhere where he Um had had a federal immunity Me think about the state Because the state of Nevada is who evicted him evicted him convicted him yeah, yeah, yeah, this nigga is nuts Well, he's stupid people slow now. He can just be the ledger. He want to be in prison I think we'd be forgetting that you know like Everybody remember like the kids in that class Right those kids grow up too Mm-hmm and they be in society They make me I see one of my not my classmates, but somebody who was in my

23:14He was not in like LD directly. We call it LD in Charleston learning disability But he he um had some classes. He had some other slow classes, right? Mm-hmm I seen his ass go viral online because he's in Charlotte between Charleston, South Carolina Finestined people acting like he's a maintenance man John Jackson And the news lady came to know he was like oh my god Somebody should have been like I just want to say that I remember him from school He was in the mail be clashed We was all in the comments like because you know he had he has one of those names that you just don't say the first name His name is John Jackson like I'm Ashley James What somebody talks about me? So you don't just call him John like what's up John Jackson like it goes together so everybody in a calm is like What the fuck look at John Jackson Ain't maintainer shit And I'm like he had clients. Why don't you really do the work instead of scamming them

24:14He was really making money had a brand new pickup truck on the news. All is like what Just retarded he been retarded You know what that's really that brings me to the next story like What's going on in the world? I know you saw the girl who um Says she went to Duke she was in PA school at Duke University And then turns out she never and she's been doing this for years and getting dressed acting like she's going to class Talking about how tired she is and she's creating content based around this identity that does not belong to her whatsoever Even up to graduation More fuckers that go to the school is like who is this bitch we have a few her day in our life This is the metaverse you get to be who you want to be And it's just where that people are like they don't they hate their regular lives You get to create a character now It ain't just GTA And get paid she was making money on it you know on social media. I'm gonna take talking shit

25:17Yeah They look speaking of identity theft The man who fake the lifestyle like he was an NFL player for the 49ers and scam 26 women out of 1.3 million dollars Allegedly targeted white and Asian women women according to the victims So this story popped off like what almost two weeks ago now a week and a half ago or so. Let's see if I'm wrong I know I know about a week Yeah, I popped and then now I noticed like over the weekend people was like oh he was scamming. Oh, okay Okay, nothing to see here The thing people don't realize is that this would have never been national news if it was black women He was scamming so that should have been a damn hint right there that it wasn't black women first of all We're not giving it with you Mike. Oh baby daddy might get a piece of the tax check Mike right Money you want what? I thought you boy for the 49ers how you want my money But I'm gonna give a damn how much it was tell me I have friends who will say yeah girl

26:22He played for such and such and I'm such a pet detective While they talking I'm googling like he's not on no one's roster who told you that I have had friends Who have allowed men to lie to like they didn't get money out of them, but just meeting me and in lion first And then now you spewing the lie to your home girl. Yeah Like a Girl no, he don't Rasta pasta Helmet everywhere they go with Like this big athlete him in so many pictures just holding the helmet like it's a purse Yo, it says federal prosecutors say 35 year old Dijon Lebrier I guess that's how you pronounce this middle name love you don't trust no nigga if I don't know Loves is real last name or fake but we all loves to always scammers remember a little boy running a clinic in Florida Last name doctor love okay Diddy

27:24Is this love allegedly built an elaborate fake lifestyle by posing as a San Francisco 49ers where and wealthy investor while scamming at least 26 women out of approximately 1.3 million dollars house weight According to investigators love met many of the women through dating apps beginning in 2020 2022 he allegedly wore 49ers gear displayed luxury cars claim to be an NFL wide receiver and portrayed himself as a successful investor He's alleged his alleged accomplice 18 year old Taylor Jamie Chan reportedly posed as loves finance 18 year old who's kid is this As loves financial advisor they help convince women that the investment Opportunities were legit several several women were allegedly persuaded to send thousands of dollars or even take out personal loans prosecutors say love would often cut off communication when victims stop sending money Or we get questioning the investment the FBI believes there could be many more victims now additional women are speaking publicly about the about their experiences

28:33One victim was reportedly has a report he claimed that love specifically targeted white and Asian women However that racial targeting allegation has not been confirmed by federal prosecutors and the criminal complaint or justice departments public announcement Federal authorities have only publicly stated that the identified victims were women located across California Oregon, Washington and Idaho because you the whole He know he knew he could scam with that shit and who he couldn't I don't even think it was like racially inclined I just think these are women that was going forward You remember that post I sent you just the other day about a particular and I I'm still debating if I'm a cloud chasing not off this nigger In the situation currently at hand, but Looking at his ex-girlfriends posted on tiktok it made me think like did this nigga think I was a lick When he hopped in my deans like do I look like a lick tell me tell me I look like a lick you don't look like no lick to me

29:36But you be lickish sound like I asked niggas for money I'm trying to figure out why and I was like I asked niggas for money You know you take it too long to ask the so because he's the first And I be so perplex like I look like a sicka moment like I look like a bitch who a given niggas money Now granted I have Given a man money before like but thousands of dollars Are y'all okay? Right and then did you see the video where he was like telling let me tell you who I am so you don't have to ask these questions We started talking about that nigga just spew up bullshit so easy and we all three Gucci's a sweet and I'm the king Yeah Yeah, we got a throw Gucci up about a street next year That's like he got like that's a zaxpies

30:36Yeah, he's just throwing up a chick filet like nigga. This is Gucci. We talking about Not they franchise in the Gucci. Yeah, let me go put what over here Bitch, I want a balance the august so I can lie like I want to balance the august franchise and now because You just throwing up a good anyway, he's starting showing shoes And yeah, look at this bill. I got this belt. There's a fair gum mobile. I got it These is Gucci shoes these are not a Gucci shoes Like what kind of nigga who got money is doing it? Do you follow Justin blue on Instagram? No, I don't know He had a very good point on his uh, he made a post and he was like could these women that he scammed Be opportunist themselves You see what I'm saying like you you you thought you were finesse in an NFL player like yeah I'm an invest in his little thing or whatever like or like you this is an opportunity for you to make money So that's why you so eager to do you you are not researching this person or this investment you just sending

31:37Money I got I have a ex friend who was just like that and that bitch is super duper Opportunistic and she would always get bid and ask every time giving a nigga money Well, I think women are attracted to men who have resources. He presented himself as Someone who who could have resources, but why would he ever need your resources if he has That's the part that's when you're in so they were investing in business Exactly why why you need me You got all these please hotels pay for gas hotels and gas Thought you said in private jet. I read that one girl he told one girl to take out a business loan To go basically like pair to pair bills and like to travel the world with him And you thought that was a good idea It'll so like I he has to have dick That's all about me. I know this you to dick. He must got dick on him too

32:38Because there's no way like you finesse in these bitches just straight off the tongue With an 18 year old. Yes. I'm seeing it that you have 42 million in this account and there's You know maybe What if that the what if the assistant is just like a um AI assistant Or like you know how you can get like these people from India to do like you know, I'll push it for you like What if that's what it is Hey, I ain't no telling but who was the being his security like why was y'all starting up and then you had niggas like hold the pants And you a contract for the 49ers and signing it like I had a contract on video for somebody's recording you do that for us And then you see niggas was happy about Let me get you down. There's like y'all was singing that shit awesome Where all my screaming is me Well there you go right there Here's the thing if you can be finessed unfortunately, you're going to get to get finesse and you probably should be finessed

33:41If you are finesseable, I'm not finesseable See that's it just if you thought you weren't you know like these girls maybe thought they weren't finesseable Now I talked to you a valuable lesson how to move Going forward. That's too much money. You remember just uh, this is last year sometime It was a girl on tiktok doing a story time of how this uh, European guy she married he married her all is shit How he finessed her out of Thousands like how do y'all what type of credit y'all got maybe I listen I bought a pair of sneakers some Nike's and I got on that plane And I got home back to England and he was taking pictures with another bitch And then she was I bought up I fell super finesse and then she was $85 I was like I can't I kill I kill about my 85 Did you have a cousin's ass out about that? I didn't speak to him for years But dude, I mean not speaking, but did you did he ever get cussed out about you guys super cussed out? Oh, right there in the halfway house

34:46Super cussed out this Played my 85 motherfucking dollars bit Yeah hell no I'm like I need you about the pretend like I just got thousands to give a nigga like what are y'all bitches doing for a living Yeah, y'all can just well excuse me. They were taking our loans So they probably just have decent credit and I just feel bad from cuz you know some of them might have just been good Hard at people that he took advantage of I've seen that happen to girls that I know they're just Look think they in it with somebody who in it with them. No, they thought they were investing in stuff This like somebody coming with a business opportunity and you're investing in it That's most of most of this most of his finesse and was that they said one person gave him 87 thousand dollars He's an NFL player why he need your money? All right, why would he need your money? And he hasn't spent no money on you You ain't seeing no real money out of him at all, but he asked me for yours

35:46Just Just dumb I don't know man. I don't know Dick and bubble gum dick and bubble gum. It's funny though y'all stay safe I feel like I went to like I might dress up as him for howling. I don't know It's a money in the hell Put some money in the hell me bitch Shame shame shame I look speaking of fucking scammin We're talking about us lending niggas money or excuse me people not niggas is not lending niggas no money But lending money and not getting it back. Okay. That is what we are talking about this week when we talk back till debt Do us part You didn't show it When I was 14 years old I was kidnapped and health captive for nine months I survived and I've spent my life exploring how other people survive what should have destroyed them I'm Elizabeth smart and these are the survivor files. I just remember

36:51This low taunting voice next to my ear saying shut up. Don't say anything Every week I'm with survivors who live through the unthinkable I knew if he woke up Without a doubt he was going to hurt me. I started feeling that Someone at the end of my bed and I just started screaming They are abducted stocked controlled and nearly silenced But these aren't stories about what's taken from them Their stories about what it takes to make it out alive Listen to the survivor files with Elizabeth smart on the iHeartRadio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts On the new podcast solita We share the messy reality of traveling alone as a woman I can wait four hours for the next bus or this random dude is offering me a ride on his motorcycle I choose option B I'm Julie Pinierro and I travel by myself because it's a rare space where I can say yes without asking anyone else first

37:55I'm on a mission to reclaim the word solita Trading the pity for possibility Every time I tried to be alone I kept meeting people and they were like You smiled at us not a lot of people smile around here. It's when you're alone that you're most receptive to the world As it is and not the lies your soul about it It can be a time where you push your limits change your mind or wake up to a new version of yourself So whether you're a solo travel veteran or you're too nervous to book your first trip I hope you listen to solita on the iHeartRadio app apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts Hey, this is a his Davenport and Sean Clements we host the podcast Hollywood handbook on the big money players network Our show is extremely accessible to first-time listeners each week We talked to someone in show business aka the biz and try to help them with their careers and see what they have to offer us Everyone has a good time and no one gets mad at their publicists for letting them do our show We've had a lot of great guests like Sarah Sherman not that great. I actually can you help me pick can can you help me shape this?

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42:13They feel like they're standing in opposition to an entire administration. I guess you didn't move in on a bunch of dumb hillbillies now Did you listen to our town on the iHeartRadio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts So he's talking about Run me my money here. Yeah, this is This topic today His home for me because Run me my fucking money if I give you my money If I loan you because I didn't give it to you. Right. It's a difference If I loan you my money I shouldn't have to ask for it back. I expect for it Like I have calculated it into my total balance that it will be coming back to me Yeah, what's the longest someone has owed you money and are y'all still speaking to this day To this fucking day like sometimes it costs that money to get rid of somebody

43:13So bitch, okay, you only cost me 500 to get rid of your fucking I bought you that's what I say I bought you I bought you for 500. I mean usually when somebody owes you money that's usually like the end of the relationship I had a friend whose kid is I won't even add that extra little detail, but I had a friend um, I Feel like she thought I owed her money Mm-hmm because I I'm gonna go ahead and say I she assigned me as the godmother her child When her child was born I had a lot of shit going on in life I had a fucking tool praying to see at the time myself, right and I just wasn't as attentive, you know And then I moved out of town So yeah, like I got a couple great, um, not grandkids a couple um, my kids don't you? So but the god parent is like something happening you I'll come pick her up, right? So that's what I thought god parents are, but I feel like the bitches is like no you like no kids you got extra money I'm gonna be damaged to just buy shit for my kids. So anyway, I really felt like she thought I owed her something So it was never any money exchange. It was just the fact that she wasn't financially

44:17She asked me to mind you. This is a married woman. Mm-hmm. She borrowed money from me And like immediately ghosted me That's something like see she felt like I owed her like in my mind maybe yeah, that's in my mind But what the fuck is that and you never got your money back? Never and it was like this like three four hundred dollars Yeah, I want my money. I want my money back. Yeah So this I you know, I came up with this because it wasn't a situation of I loaned somebody money It was where we all agreed to pay for something and then I fronted the bill and then you never sent your share That's the same thing as you owe me fucking money, right? That's a real because if I got to come up Come out of my pocket with some extra. Yes. Yes. Yeah, that's I feel away I feel a way And then every time I see you at Tom Mahawk Tuesday Getting the motherfucking Tommy Hart for the cruelty bone in bone in bitch See me my money. Where is my money? That's just inside cheap

45:22Boy with somebody owe you money you litter it like they can't if you don't want to see them having fun You having fun bitch, right? And you owe me my you smile it I ain't got my 75 dollars that's the $2 for 50 You better look like you struggling every time I see or just mute me bitch don't let me see it though Like if you just don't want you know to pay me don't have me seeing that you on vacation or that you at Tom Mahawk Tuesday It's somebody I love really really I like I love them a lot And they just be doing the most and they credit bad over here. Yeah, but I love them And it's just like don't call me asking to borrow money That's the thing if you call me like hey, I got such a such going on. I need such a much Mm-hmm, and I give it to you. There's no expectation that you're giving it back I have now deleted deducted that from my total balance You call me and say can I borrow I'm expecting that money back or what about

46:25So during the holidays I tried to like give back a little extra And you know I had someone reach out and they was like I need some help And then I was like okay here. I can give you this and they was like no I don't want you to give it to me. I want to pay you back I'm like no it's okay. There's like no I insist that I pay you back And then never pay the back That's for them though in their minds then when they took that money from you It was just they just wanted to trick it's psychology and for their minds right I didn't just take money from time. I actually borrowed it But then somehow later on down the line they'll justify why you don't need your fucking money back I'll put the watch you more than you pocket one I offered it to you and you insisted that you pay me back and then never pay me back And then talking about how you going on vacation with your family and that's mental illness and I'm fine And I still didn't mention it so then there's a thing like I Asked in people for your money back. It's so uncomfortable like that's an uncomfortable conversation for me

47:29And it's like why am I carrying shame about the money that you borrowed from me because you know they about to shame you But your low money your look that There go right there. Hey, hello money man You coming at me for low five hundred a little it wasn't little without you needed it You know saying so hey your low money. Yeah, that's I don't want to ever be a bill collector Like I feel like that's the wackest job in the game like we live in America with a whole country is in fucking debt Right, so I never want to have to call somebody and say hey, where my money at I probably just don't fucking with you Because I don't really loan out money that I can stand losing anyway So if I give you something that was something I had to learn because I would fuck around and Give somebody what I couldn't afford to lose and then I don't get it back now I got to call somebody and borrow money right I literally was just talking about this shit this morning with somebody like dude You cannot do more for somebody who you know if you are need they can't do shifters. Yeah, the people I'm doing Shifu are the people I know that who I'm coming through for me in a clutch. Yeah, I'm not like I don't like liabilities

48:35Yeah, yeah, sometimes you hear somebody's story. They'd be like they'd be real good at like you know Sometimes ship it was shipy fuck nothing you'd be like If you want to run they would figure it out what I don't like is with them up for you like let me get $20 still tomorrow You just wait to the mar what have you doing with the $20 You can wait until tomorrow. That's such a small amount. What do you have to do with $20? They just want your money instead of spending theirs. Tell me I want to get some wings You got food in the fridge even eat that All right, y'all so we're gonna play like I guess is it a game Yes, I kind of so you we're gonna decide rather the person is truly struggling um Oh, they just ain't trying to give you my fucking money back. Okay. Oh, they just playing your face for real. Okay All right, so first one Uh O's your $300 but it's collecting $75 for a birthday section So they they bad with money. Yes Because that's not necessarily broke. I mean $300

49:39I don't know that's both ain't it Because if you also like $300 and you can't pay that bad. That's kind of broke I think it's like almost like uh, you can compare it to being like a clipped-on maniac like people who still shit That doesn't mean they don't have the money. They just don't want to use any money to and it's like the excitement of stealing It could be the same thing with somebody barring some money from you like I just don't want to use my money So let me get this bitch money Because I mean I what like you fun raising because should you not have a birthday celebration because you owe me $300 No, your priorities is fucked up. It's okay to skip this bird obviously your finances is fucked up if you just need a low 300 okay, so you need to skip this birthday this year so you can bar hard next year. I don't skip a lot of birthdays Okay, yeah I get it. I get what you're saying because I would too, but I mean if everybody put them $75 then it's not like you spending a lot Because everybody know you broke and they doing it because you broke And I'm cool. What are you gonna get my 300 back today?

50:40Yeah, cuz I don't want someone not to celebrate they book if I see you All right, if I see you bawling out for your birthday, then I'm like, what about there? But if I see you ask everybody for $75 then it's lying. She's still broke. Let's just celebrate her You know, I don't want to see you I don't want to see you know, I want you I want you not to have a birthday girl if you fuck it 40 fuck that birthday No, you turn it for you. Okay, maybe 41 fuck that birthday girl. You owe me $300 fuck that birthday and any plans you have for it I can't imagine like I wanted to go to dinner for my birthday. We grow you got one birthday and that's a day you born So now here you come and you big grown ass 38 year old and you ain't giving my money back yet, but you I came to you and I was like Yeah, the party but I ain't gonna go nowhere cuz I got it I just wanted to give you this 300. Yes, thank you. You would take it in that moment

51:42If I'm in there like this how long you gonna need that 300 back really when people got a bar money from you They don't have to borrow again. So it's like I'm a savings account for you You mean they not though. Hopefully they don't have the bar again. I don't know like if it's a bitch birthday I feel like I might why are you trying to shame me and taking your taking my money back from you because it's your birthday Why you wait to your birthday to give me this money back You owe me this money for the last six months That's the fact. Yes, and now don't try to play on my emotion. I'm a shock your ass and take my I don't know if I can do it. He just depends on who it is Okay, orders food every night while sending you $10 payments. I hate an installment bitch like I told you I don't mind installment. I hate it install me especially if you got door that money cuz that's high You know absolutely the actual fees that you paying you could have paid my money back right Uh, bought concert tickets during the repayment period

52:43No, you're not going to see usher and Chris Brown for seven hundred right and you that's a problem. Yes, that's when it happens for sure I see your uh, Facebook eat cherries out of uh usher hand and you owe me three hundred dollars The fuck my cherries bitch Not just a business before repaying the start of money No, I don't feel like that's bad. No, not at all Like hopefully is the business is successful. You can give me my money back. Yes. Yes. Yes. Absolutely. Oh before it started So did you did you loan them the startup money? That would be that's what it sounds like I mean that seems like that's supposed to happen afterwards right uh post-illuxury staycation caption much needed Is that gonna help you like come up with the idea to give out fucking money back? If it is then okay, that's fine, right? Cuz you know people mental health be fucked up sometimes, so yeah I feel like sometimes is like it is good mental health to spend money Like you do it just does something like your endorphins behind

53:44Mendo understand why the fuck we like go to TJ max and do these treasure hunts with all this shit like It's gonna we can get a bunch of shit and just feed that thing in us that needs to spend a couple dollars Yeah, I don't do that. I'm an Amazon girl. I have you going crazy in the card I like to touch the yeah, I like to see the things I you know because sometimes they just have these like items that You know you know you can only get it today and it's not gonna be here like yeah um sends you motivational videos instead of payment update I don't see nothing wrong with that but stemming you know send the money to with the video and trying to get They mind right okay, so yeah, maybe you should try to manifest like yeah, I'm gonna send you some shit as a matter of fact I'm gonna send you some manifestation Videos you can try to manifest my god damn money Hey claims cash app is broken book collects crab boy money without a mission See I gotta get racist

54:46She raises her hand cuz it'll fun That's very Nigger related Nigger adjacent Um since sixteen dollars or 42 cents toward a sixty dollar balance is as a hundred try oh shit six hundred dollar balance and says at least I'm trying all right listen You don't want to stop me so I don't that's what I was about to say don't see that you're a change For some in 42 cents she just spent money somewhere and she sent you to change Don't do that to me. No definitely bad spending happens. Oh Look it's so funny says things people say when you're not getting that money bet. It was the first one I forgot about you I forgot about you now My fuckers or always like as I owe you you never be broke. No, that's a family thing. Mm-hmm So is that money hit you know I'm good for it You know I'm good for it don't do it like that baby. Yeah, why are you making this weird? Yeah

55:50I'm making it weird You really tripping over that little bit of money. Oh, huh? Girl, I was just about to call you Yeah, exactly that's that's a problem All right, what immediately makes you realize you probably never get your money back Like if you talk to somebody all the time you give me this money and now you out on talking more like Communication just started dwindling dwindling down. Yeah, and then I actually okay like if you say hey Can I borrow this and I'm gonna give it back two weeks on this day Once is one day after that day That's when I know I'm not giving money back one day after the day you said the deadline Yeah, cuz I it's a burden when you owe money I owe taxes. It's a fucking burden on your soul Oh, yeah, I don't like I don't like only people shit, especially an individual. Yeah, you know, I'm saying I'm gonna think about that shit forever Give people they fucking money back. I just and I know this is a payment plan. This sounds terrible to admit and y'all

56:56Don't judge me. I'm just a girl But I always Side our women who want to borrow money who are having sex girl Is that fucked up? I'm like why are you I challenge the bitch. I said listen everybody you fucking call him right now get a hundred dollars And either they gonna give you $100 and the $100 ain't shit Yeah, so I'm just putting the price on you oh cheap ass Call him and if you fucking three niggas, let's even get $300 right now. That is a small amount of money If these niggas can't either they go and come through and give you $300 or they gonna get ghosts My ass be like 5,000 That's actually three niggas the other cool chees it's you and you need to go take some of that 300 and guess the line of sand right But even they want to bring the even they won't bring you the money. Oh, they gonna get ghost nine times out of ten They're fucking on you because the pussy's free They ain't trying to pay for it. So you asking for money like bitch your tripping Yeah, I don't write that yeah, like I I I root because now I gotta suck my boyfriend dick to give you $500

58:05Like where's your boyfriend like I do I don't want it to sound like Women should be transactional with their bodies What why you making every I don't want like I don't want to suggest that that's That's what we should be doing but I just feel like if you are in Diary knee of money sex should be the last thing on your mind. I was your food. You wet. Oh, I want to know the signs of that What pussy is Dropers don't match How did that work? It is not even about you know, golding and like men would say it's just about Having some type of security if something were to happen even if you never asked this person for anything If something were to happen you can Like it's just something about a woman having sex and can't ask for help. I don't like it But you feel comfortable calling your friend or sister. Oh, it's ego too women

59:06Have ego and they be like I don't I don't need nothing from me. Yes you do. Yes you do. Yes you do Yes, the fuck you do. Well, why you needed for me the fuck So you just need everything from women. I just feel like you'll be supposed to do or so I'm living here with something like what the fucking uh Nate it's called me Nate I'm joking. I'm joking. That's so bad. Are you? But this all right. This kills me too You see your mother fuck it out. They owe you money. Yeah, right. I forgot about Yes, the fuck you did That is classic. Yes, that's fucking I forgot about you and the myths of partying right? Yes You have my money right now. Why not just not drink it all that tequila and just give me like you don't even have to pee All of it. I just want to know that you are doing it something in good faith. Yeah, but I don't even like installments

1:00:11You want your home money? I want my whole lot because when it comes back in installments I pay I spend it So you never got it back. Yeah, I'm like don't do that. What? All right, forgot about your face That then okay, so if you don't want installments when they give you installments you just put that I didn't give it to you when it's I take installments You charge interest have you ever charged somebody interest money on money that you loaned me? No, but I've had somebody give me back more than they borrowed Yes, they're very nice thing Yeah I have extra interest on money that I loan because they were using my money to make money Okay, so I feel like if we make it money off my money Well, I'm not gonna make no money off of it. That's fair. You want me back the same money. Yeah, no, no, okay I'm kind of dealing with that right you using my money to make money what type of dealings was it? I don't know

1:01:12You see that you ask too any questions There wasn't anything shady it was like a party or something like that They were using they needed some money to throw the party and I wanted some money on the back in Yeah, I feel like yes, that part. I mean the longest is just like a you never get it back I mean, I mean, I I mean I'd tally up on family I do tally up and mentally on family Like I know how much money I'm getting in my mind my mama. She will literally keep the like the the deposit slips or Receipts for an embankment She got a fold on your ass Like you really don't ram your tab up. She got to start keeping the receipts. Oh you for real for real Oh, yeah I um when it comes to family With family and money That can be very dangerous because you don't want to fall out with family members of high money. So typically Most of all I tell them like let me be the final resort when you've exhausted all options

1:02:12I say that you know go through everybody Did come to preach if you if you go to church You need to be asking them for money before you ask me especially if you're a tether Yeah, but yeah go to somebody and then circle back and if you can't view it and then we'll I'll ask you to list the options that you go through and then if it all else fails I'll give it to you And it's family. I don't be really wanting it back stressful. What the hell? What you know, I think people only call the people who they think I'll say yeah, so you surprised them when you say no He thought we'll say yeah, no, I'm not this time bitch You know, I don't ask from I remember I asked this is like Might have been college. Mm-hmm And at the time I wasn't dealing with this guy But I had to call him an ax and he's like the pet deposit For my dog and my apartment. I can't stand for a man to ask you why you need the money If I you don't feel like that's a legitimate question. I'm not asking you for $2,000. Yeah, I'm not like and that's

1:03:14I mean, I might be considered a lot of money for some people I might ask you for a large some but some of money. It was probably like two three hundred dollars at the time I'm in college I am working and this unexpected bill comes up I don't want to have to answer 21 questions about this $200 man. I need it for my you don't mean no You want you to know what it was? Yeah, you don't have a fuck about me on my dog You better put about a porch Media cut off. Yeah, no, that's fair because It's $200 but I feel like if you ask me for when I want to know what it's for I don't and it doesn't matter What it's for just a dude it depends on the amount Because what if I've seen people borrow money from a friend girl to get a nigga out of jail that ain't shit you took my heart earned money And bail somebody out of prison who been beating your ass. No, I need to know what you're using my money for because now I'm mad

1:04:15Now I'm mad. Well, maybe not asking what the money's being used for can avoid being upset about it Yeah, you said not asking I feel like if they really plan on paying it back. Why does it matter what I need the money for But do they really plan on trying to gauge how important it is before you give them the money Yeah, cuz my money is always important to me So I need to see how important your shit is to me No, I don't know how you just you know, it depends. Yeah, it just recently my knees asked me to help her with her tuition And I'm like why you got a balance? You got this let me let me see your awards letter. Now I did ask her Make sure you ain't trying to spend my money on some bullshit. Yeah, so that's the similar. Yeah It just it depends on who it is The amount and who it is because you know people who that are responsible with money You don't need to ask them what it's for but if it's your little crazy cousin who always is a bullshit What you need? What you need 500 dollars for right now. Yeah, so

1:05:15And I you know and this might be bad, but I don't I don't let men borrow money I'm not giving a man money. I don't even know male bums money I think like that when I said that I wanted someone to back in that was definitely a guy You know wasn't a girl But I don't really have me and I don't know a lot of men that would ask me for like a lick to some people And I'm actually a gold digger like I want something from you. Mm-hmm. I don't know if I look like I have had a Good enough men ask me for money to why I had to question what I look like to you So I'll make that ask for money And I really don't I just have expectations right? I really don't be asking people for money I just expect that we together like for you to do things for me. I'm gonna do stuff for you But I have had men ask me for money. I just want to know like what I look like Really guys don't ever like is very rare that way I had asked first Yeah, that's how I do homeless people too where they walk up I asked their first hey, let me get a dollar and before they can even ask me get a dollar

1:06:18Let me get it. Hey shit. I'm gonna buy one fucking let me get that first The only in that lander cuz it's just overkill there like you'd be the give up so much money So in that lander you gotta ask them first Yeah, but I want to know like what's the what is the how do men call and ask a woman for money You obviously don't care how you look to me Yeah, commented that commented at reg recently on Instagram like If a man doesn't care how he presents to you he doesn't like you for real Like if you don't if you know about how I see you advice to you like fuck up above whatever I feel like this is like in the beginning But if you've been dealing with somebody and you know them and they're just in a fucked up situation Then that's different. I have no you in a fucked up situation. I'm offering. Yeah, yeah You wouldn't even I know when somebody is in dire need and need something you wouldn't have to ask me But I'm talking about just so fucking just you know, I don't know we had a few good conversations and I look like a lick I'm confused. That's how niggas do and if they fuck your good shit

1:07:22I have a niggas Feel right about the fuck about some head before yeah, I happen to me. Yeah, so no that happens a lot They'll take your car keys and go pick up another woman in your car After dropping dick off after dropping dick off. I ain't no dick that good none but you don't know you don't Baby boy remember he would take even that car. I'll be back to his but other baby mom house I still ask the I stole my car Yeah, you gotta steal your own shit But how do you handle a defensive Uh borrow e Like when you call them and ask them back for your money and they get nasty with you It's time to fight right yeah, I get I um What's the word I'm looking for I reciprocate the energy. Oh, okay. Yeah, I definitely reciprocate the energy because why are you mad About my money? Why is it little I hate that part when they say it's a little your little change

1:08:23I'm gonna get your little change to you next Friday You gotta start soon, bitches I think that's the only way you start to play little civil lawsuits on these old and put a lean on their damn pussy What Next time you use that pussy, I'm getting paid That's another thing but what about you do you I've never had anybody like Well, I have had people get a little nasty, but it wasn't like bitch fuck you in that money I never had that kind of energy But I did have people get a little honoring Like but people being bears one people So it just depends on who it is because I try to give grace because people are prideful And they don't nobody likes asking for money, right nobody Really wants to come to you. They know they could finesse you though. I feel like you don't care about me I don't know not everybody's trying to finesse you though like some people really just being Uh, a barn for real and they need some help, you know And people who have pride and you know like being able to present a very successful

1:09:28Successful financial front It's hard for them to come to anybody and they could be real fucked up and don't want to ask nobody So then I try to give people grace in that element and then if I have to come back for to you about it That's hard for me to do right yeah, cuz I'm I'm just not a bill collector at heart. That's yeah I'm not And so that's hard for me because so I imagine it's hard to tell someone why you haven't honored your agreement Great. So I try to give grace depending on who it is, you know, I listen by the bars and money one time and I Exclusively explicitly told them like hey, I'm gonna give you this But I really really really need my money back. I really need my money back And they still they not give me out they did not give a they're so hurtful. Yes, you don't give I feel like you don't care about me at that point If I say hey Mind you because I had already let you borrow money a bunch of times before so if this one time like hey I can't afford not to get this money back You don't care about me you asked me for this money knowing you couldn't pay me back. They didn't give a fuck

1:10:33How I was gonna put me in a hardship you know, yeah, yeah, and that's the messed up part or sometimes people Have good intentions about getting you the money back and they just can't dig themselves out of that hole And instead of being coming to you, I'm like I ain't forgot about you. They just don't say shit Is he planning life? Yeah, asking you if you think this nice. No, I don't my money would be nice. Yeah, I don't think that looks nice Now see that's why when they come to you for asking you about how to spend they money That's next level now you just disrespect right because sometimes people be forgetting or they think oh Or you don't forget when you owe somebody you definitely like they they got the half of God because how Or they feel like you don't need it. She's a she don't need it. She's a working on it. She worried about it Yeah, I don't think people be forgetting I had a I'm not even talking about that. I just assumed you forgot because they know where you are here just spending this money It is a burden on your soul you especially if you love the person even it's just because you owe the person money

1:11:38I doesn't mean you don't love them you just you still haven't gotten your hands on it to To not fuck up your bottom line and to be able to give them your money back sometimes why you should not have borrowed that sometimes because sometimes people just selfish They have already like made up in a mind that you won't get this money back before me anyway, so right you straight you ain't got no kids Oh I really feel like I do not like kids think that people with no kids have excess money for their fucking kids That part really that's the same that's what I was saying about this girl and the goddaughter shit like yeah You you count on my pocket you think I can afford to give you this money and I couldn't at the time. I mean Yeah, you could Why you can't my pocket? Yeah, cuz you don't know what I need to do right or who else I need to help you know exactly that part Yeah exactly Yeah, I think that people with kids and they they really be and I'm gonna tell y'all I feel like mom is mom's come with a loaf of bread all my homegirls with kids got a bag

1:12:42Maybe having more money than me somehow. I guess cuz they have How do you do that without the fucking Everybody look good I know you're super here. Yeah, we be fucking up the bag When you're having we've been a little we'd be a little bit More irresponsible with our money, which is why we don't have extra to give you You I already plan how I'm gonna fuck my damn choose why we wish I'd adore that 17 times this week You think family is soon that money doesn't have to be repaid back cuz they family Sometimes sometimes I feel like that's why I say with family if you give family money is better to Not expect it back just so you don't ruin that relationship because I've seen people Not talk today brother assist for 10 years over money, you know, so if you Just a word of advice if you can't afford to lose it don't loan it especially when it comes to family. Yeah

1:13:46Wistam movie When you know like with big mom big mama house and all that what's the name of big mama's house with Martin? No I know that's the name of his movie, but it was like big mama's house. They were so full You'll be knowing the movies. Yeah, so for remember the one family member I'm pretty sure you know the characters. Oh Terry Terry had the money Terry was responsible Terry's like no, we sell in this fucking house cuz that it at it up cuz I'm the only one paying the tax Yeah, and it was like we can't sell me mama's house. Yeah, the one family member to everybody like I don't I I be you know, you got to have gratitude, right? So I do like I like to be able to help Um, I think you should have gratitude of your position to help your family, right? Right? But then people will take advantage and sometimes you be in the way of somebody's fucking karma You know, I'm saying you probably wasn't supposed to help this motherfucker. This was the situation That was that God gave them to figure it the fuck out so they can get to the next level so now you don't get you can't be in the city

1:14:50Yeah, exactly. No, sometimes you gotta let people fucking drown so they can learn how to swim Okay, I agree with that. Yeah, so I don't I think that Terry was being taken advantage of in her family And then at the end like people were called they could have called her selfish and then that cousin fucked her husband in the house The family fucked my husband Because of Evan the anus No, Evan he was replaced. Oh, she fucked her. I didn't that bitch my name Who doesn't be the host of the Joe cuz of flow Evan these beholes not all The biggest holes you know Thomas the name was Evan Eowa All right, what's your last last then we did we there. Yep You know Like we both said you're not let anybody borrow anything you can't stand losing Okay, and I really feel like if you give somebody's my give somebody some money just go ahead and deduct it from your

1:15:56Bottom line just just already assume that you ain't gonna get that shit back Yes, I agree and what's my last last We outside of what the fuck you said Yeah, that's it whatever she said Did you want to find a better way to segue into the end? What your last you like what's your last last we had a whole something we've been talking about with your last You had something else off of that conversation, but we could have like segueed a little better. I guess Okay, like all right, we can do it. We can cut this cut and go back into it. We go meet us just like it is I want to offer a last last give me so second time we can cut My last last is if you watching this and you know you owe me some money Go ahead and fit in that shit Sin that shit Talk about it See that shit over okay, that's my last last Sticking you

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