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let's get into the episode. So today's episode is two things can be true at once. Yes,

and what I mean by this. Okay, well, first let me say it is the key to healing. Two things to be

sure is true at once. I feel like you need to learn this and establish this in order to help

your healing journey and or process. What I mean by this, dual nature, be a bitch, be a sweet heart.

We know all we hear is good and bad. And we are so quick to categorize things when we don't

need to, you know. And truly, the reason I'm thinking about this is because I recently had a

reading. Yes, it was really good, really, really good. And she kept saying to me, like,

what stood out to me in this reading the most, it was when she would cut me off when I would say

something like, oh, this is how it's supposed to be. She would immediately get it. She was like,

no, no, no, no, stop, stop saying that. And I would always say, like, well, these are how things

are supposed to be. This is how stuff's supposed to end, you know, you know, I guess it's just the

way it's meant to be. And she kept kind of urging me to stop saying that two things can be

true at once, you know. And but also can't. What the fuck did I write?

Oh, she encouraged me to stop saying that. She was really pushing the message for me that two

things can be true at once. You know, not everything is end all be all. And we always feel like we

have to make a decision right then and there about really kind of everything in life. We have to make

why the fuck am I struggling so much right now? And now I can't want to chase a bug.

I really just want to cry. You know what? I'm going to keep all this in. I'm keeping all this in

because I really just want to cry right now. My bitch, I have been so upset today. And I'm not

even in my mood, you know, like I everything is stressing me out. And I don't know why. And I

have been taking me so long to start this episode because my cat either wants in or out.

Everything is making my brain hurt. And I'm going to keep to it because real life, real life.

Okay, you know, that's it. That's it. We make mistakes. And also, that's why it's important to use

commas when you're writing because I did not know what I wrote because there was no comma, right?

Back to what I was saying. We always kind of make it seem like we have to make the right decision.

There is a right decision. When first of all, there's not a right decision at all. There's not.

There's not. It's whatever you choose to do, right? We always try to

label things. And there is no right decision. Like I said, and I think a lot of the times in life,

it is really important when it comes to healing, thinking of the idea that two things are true at

once, simply because it's such a huge part in it. You have to realize that everything is not 100%

right? It's not 100% your fault. You couldn't have 100% avoided this. And like there's so many

situations that we will go through in life where we truly have that idea and you know that notion

behind everything that, hey, you know, you know, this can be right and this can be right. And I'm

dealing with this a lot right now. But I empathize with myself on that because I think I'm just

we're all a little harder on ourselves. You're not a bad person for making a right or wrong decision.

There is no right or wrong in my opinion. Like there, there's always going to be limits and holds

in every, you know, decision will have a different weight. We'll have a different effect, right?

But we can always navigate our way through that. There's no, everybody would make a different

decision than you. So there clearly is no right decision, right? And what I'm trying to say is that

there's so many different ways to use this term as well. Yeah, it's just, it's very important. And

I am hating this episode. Genuinely, because what the fuck did I write? Like I can't even read my

own writing. It's like I was just brain dumping and not being coherent at all. Like I'm genuinely

trying to lock in for y'all because I have I've had this episode written for like a week because

now I have a thing when I write the episodes a week and be like beforehand. So like let's say

that week I am not feeling good or something like that. I can upload it. But genuinely,

I am trying so hard to lock in and I can't because I don't understand what the fuck is happening.

So I feel like I'm just about to go off of rip off the head. And you know,

this episode, my ears, they job. It's cool. Fine. It's irritating me too. All right. It's irritating

me too because I don't know what the fuck is going on right now. You know, maybe maybe that's it.

Two things to be true at once. This is the mess, but it's also perfect, right? This is my mess.

This is there's I'm not wrong. Like I could say, oh, I don't want to post this episode. I could

start it all over, right? Or cannot. There's no right fucking decision. Both are my decisions

and what I want to do. And there will be an outcome nonetheless. It's kind of when we think about

I've been hearing a lot about like alternate realities. Like how everything is happening at once.

And you know, just to go off on a little tangent, there's this girl on TikTok who she like

is a medium for cats. And a whole bunch of cats have been saying there's no future. There's no

past. It's all happening now. Whatever decision, you know, you didn't make today. It was made

in a different life. Like let's say if I wanted to get, oh, I ordered tropical smoothie today.

In another dimension, I did not. In another dimension, I ordered something else. There's always

something fucking going on. There's never a right decision in my head. Now, to say this, there are

right decisions when it comes to certain things. I will say that like per no, right, right. But

wait, wait, no, because even that there's no right decision. Wait, wait, because of its self-defense.

What are you going to do? It's still murder. But is this still murder? Well, that's what all.

Anyway, but it's all still one thing, right? Is there a right decision? Is there right? Because

two things can be true at once. Everybody has different viewing goggles. Everybody has different

mindsets. Everybody thinks different. That's why like if we think about judges, not every judge,

I could like, let's say I have like that, you know, not me. Somebody else, somebody else still,

I've never told my life. Somebody else stole something, right? Every single judge might give

them something different. Every single judge, one judge might be lenient. One judge might not,

right? Who's the fucking say? Who thinks in the true at once? We really have to stop letting

decisions define our whole life in what it's supposed to be because I, I deal with this a lot,

majority of the time I'm always like, well, what if this is the wrong decision? Like, what's the

wrong decision? And I tend to go to other sources to make my own decisions, which make no sense.

It makes no sense at all, right? This is all on me. So yes, two things to be sure I want. I can be

a bitch, but I can also be a sweetheart. Good and bad. Good evil, happiness, sadness. There's,

there's two sides to fucking everything, but neither or is right. It's your life. You decide,

what's right? What's good for you? And ultimately, that's it because like it's like genuinely your

whole mental is different from somebody else's. You could think in your head, like, no, I kind of

understand this. Another person's like, how the fuck do you understand that? Because two things

can be true at once because there's going to be people that agree with them and there's going to be

people that agree with you, right? So you, we have to stop letting the thought that we will ruin our

lives or ruin a decision or something by what we say or how we approach it or what we decide

in this process. You know, your life is not going to fucking end because you didn't decide to do

this today. I'm sorry. I stress myself out so much with this. And I'm like, well, what if I mess

it up? What if I didn't make the right decision and everything's just going to go to shit? Why would

it go to shit? Why would it go to shit? It's a decision. Now, there are some bad decisions I can

say, but that's my perspective. That person who made the decision probably thought it was smart.

Truly, there are two sides to everything. There are two truths. Now, what the hell else did I write?

Oh, this one, this one kind of cooks. And it's legible. Thank God. We're always trying to make

sense in a complicated world. Yes, we are, Zoe. Yes, thank you for writing that. And I think

this is why we tend to have that. And I'll be all mindset is simple. What the fuck is she talking

about? Exactly. This was hard decision to write this. Not mine right now. Two things to be true,

I want. Right. But more of some sense, we're always trying to justify everything. We're trying

to justify relationships. We're trying to justify our wrongs, our rights. We're trying to

literally justify everything. And that is so damaging when it comes to healing because,

oh, let me tell you, I've seen this quote on TikTok the other day. And if any of you guys are

addicts or know any addicts or have dealt with substance abuse or anything like that,

there was this quote. And it was like, if it keeps you alive, don't stop. You know, if that drug

is keeping you alive, don't stop it yet. You can get sober whenever you want. Right? Right.

But inherently, society's the shizm, like, bitch, I?

I

society's the shizm decision. Mine's a great reader. I don't know what the fuck's happening.

We would view that like, oh, stop taking drugs. That's bad for you, right? But the person in their

head, they're like, it's, but it's good for me. It's keeping me alive. It's doing good, right?

We all view things different. There is no right answer. So yes, we might say getting sober is

the right answer, right? Because inherently, we want everybody to be healthy and fine and everything

but if that is not their correct answer at this time because that will not help them,

that is not the right decision for them. That is also true. You know, we also have to view this

when it comes to other people's relationships and stuff and how we give our opinions on that

because we're not in their shoes. We don't know how they feel. You don't know how I feel and

what decision I want to make. We're, we might agree sometimes, but we might not. And that is

perfectly okay. She might see something in him. I don't see it at all.

Partly fine. Two things to be sure I want. He might treat her like a fucking queen behind

what closed doors, but he's just so hard and cold on the fucking outside. And now that's my opinion.

I go to say this just to, to say that we hold so, like, well, no, not hold. We put so much pressure

on ourselves. I think by doing this, by telling ourselves like, hey, you have to make the right

decision, right? And let's say, like, I'm giving you guys so many examples, but like, you want to go

to three different colleges. Every single one will give you a reason on why they are the best,

and you will think to yourself, well, what if I make the wrong decision? Is there a wrong decision?

Truly. Now, there might be a better option or a worse option. That's, that's true because we know

that, you know, we got to take this, we got numbers, we got everything, right? But when it comes

to you, what is the right decision for you? Right? Just then I was buying it. I was getting a gun

the other day. Cool. Cool. Do kept trying to sell me this other one. He kept trying to sell me two,

two other ones, a tourist and something else. And I'm like, no, I actually, I think I want to go

with this. Like, it's just way better. It slides better. It's better. Like, I think I really want this one.

And he just kept trying to push me the other one. And I'm just like, no, I think I want this. He's

like, well, this is the better decision. I think this is the better decision. Two things to be true,

I want because he was a vet. He probably knows statistics on the guns, but I'm like, I am way more

comfortable with this one. And guess what? I love that good. I went to the range. It shot perfectly,

everything was fine. But two things can be true at once. Right? Right. Right. Are you guys getting

what I'm saying now? Is it clocking to you? Because maybe it wasn't clocking to me when I was writing

down all of this. Oh, I said, and speaking about my most recent episode, I think this ties in

with why we take the route. We take a life when it comes to our careers, dreams and aspirations.

We feel like we have to choose one path majority of the time, right? We choose like we feel like

there is a right path. I have to do this. I have to be right. You know, if I do something else,

it's not going to be right. But you don't need one plan, right? The things that we are dealing with

in life, let's say change, love, death, sexuality, healing, everything. None of them have concrete,

clean answers. None of them have one singular outcome. None of them predict the future in

or the best option 100%. No. Now, when we talk about certain things, yes, there are things that

are better. But when it comes to life and your decisions and the shit you go through,

there is no right answer majority of the time. Your right answer is how you feel, right? We are

literally just doing our best, trying our best to make it. And in my opinion, if you can do that

in the best way possible for you, then there is no wrong decisions. There is no wrong decisions

because you are being the most authentic you, you can be essentially. And okay, think about ying and

ying and yang, ying and yang. Yes, right? The black and white things. There will always be two truths.

Again, birds of a feather flock together, two peas in a pod. There's always two. We always see this,

heaven and hell. We always see this. But like, isn't that because when you think of heaven and hell,

then they throw in purgatory. Like so much shit comes with it, everything comes with it. So what's

the right decision? Right? You can think about the Bible. There's everybody has their own interpretation

of the Bible. So who am I to tell you that's wrong? Right? Who am I? So you're you're reading this,

right? And you're like, well, I shouldn't do this because that decision's wrong. But somebody else

interpreted it completely different, right? That is what I mean. We as humans take things at face value

and we think, okay, why do I need to figure out this now? We need to get it solved. We need to get

figured out and everything has to be right. But I believe you should always be open. You should always

give yourself accessibility and take a route where you give yourself options. You give yourself

freedom and allow yourself to make the wrong decisions, right? To make any decision you want because

who knows where it's going to lead you? Who knows? It might have been wrong in the moment, right? We

might think, oh, this might have been a bad decision at first, right? And then five years comes and

then you look back on the decision, you're like, damn, I really hope me get to where I was today. You

know, that's also why I have no regrets because I wouldn't be where I am without my past, right?

You need to stop placing so many limitations on yourself. We don't have to be all one in all the

same. No, we don't have to be organized and have the right job, the right job. No, you don't. But it's

also okay to ask for help. It's important to allow yourself to know that you're not a failure

because you didn't do something right because you didn't do something quick enough or take

or it took you longer. You're not a failure because of that. You

what do I mean? I think overall what I'm trying to say is there is never one answer. There's never

right answer or you know the best thing you could have done. I think being messy and having these

two truths mean to our human. It means you are just living and learning and succeeding and I think

the biggest thing in life is learning and allowing yourself to grow and make mistakes and have

these things happen. But also stopping so damn hard on yourself throughout the whole process. Stop.

We make things so difficult, so so difficult on ourselves. Like I think we would be much happier

as society if we didn't put so much pressure on ourselves to do the right thing, right? We have

to eventually learn, learn it all, right? We will learn. It comes with age. It comes with growth,

right? We will. We will. We will. We will. And if you need to cut somebody out in traffic,

I would say it's not always a smart decision because everybody's crazy. Everybody does things,

but who might I tell you that? Who might I tell you that? Who might I tell you that? See first example,

first example. Now inherently this goes to say like don't take this into the world and be like,

oh my gosh, I can just do illegal things because they always said two things to be true and this

illegal thing can help me in 10 years. That is not what the fuck I said. That is not what the fuck

I said because I said there are some things that are inherently right and wrong, right? We know

some shit is wrong. Wrong is fuck, okay? But I do think there are limitate, what's the sensual

limitations? Now we're out everything, right? There's always a new perspective. There's always

something better out there. There's always something works out there. There's always something

better you could be doing, something worse you could be doing. There's so much in life and we put

so much pressure on ourselves to be perfect because we're not, we're not, we're not, we're not, we're

not. So allow your brain to relax, to relax. Focus on what's making you happy in that moment,

right? And now I love you all and I think you guys are all very critical thinkers, right?

I hope so. Use your critical thinking though. There are some things where we're like, okay,

hey, this might not be the best thing for me right now. Think of it like that. Word it like that

to yourself because hey, this might not, if you hear my dog scratching himself in the background,

cool, cool, cool, cool. This is what my life's doing today. And you know what, what, Zeus,

do you want to join the podcast or something? Do you want to hop on the mic?

Anyways, like everybody's just going to have a different opinion. Everybody's moves different.

Nobody's life looks the exact same. Nobody's life is picture perfect. Nobody is perfect. And I think

we need to stop being so hard on ourselves. Two things can be true at once. Two things can be

true at once. So yeah, that was today's episode. And I'll have another one out for you at like

three days, three days. I know it's when I'm filming with Jordan. It's going to be like,

either a weekly, I don't know how often we're going to be doing it segment where we kind of have

like a girl talk together why she's giving me a facial type of facial. I'm going to have like a new

one all the time. But yes. And I think what we're talking about is being a fool in love on Tuesday

because Jordan is a fool in love. She is. She is. She is. She is. And I think you guys will really

relate to her a lot. She is a very strong and powerful woman. And I think you guys will love her.

Just as long as you love me, what can I say? What can I say? And yeah, if you enjoyed this chaotic

mess of a fucking episode, I don't know what it was. I don't and I couldn't tell you. But I feel like

it would be a disservice to not post it and show y'all that there are some issues behind the

fucking scene. Clearly, there's sometimes there's a lot going on and Zeus is still chasing this bug.

I don't even see the bug. I don't see shit. I think it might be a net. I don't even know how

that happened. But anyway, that's that's what the hell is going on right now. Okay. Also,

Zeus got out yesterday. I lost my shit. My heart dropped to my ass. I was outside and I think

two milliseconds, scoring ink. Hello. No, fucker was in the bushes. He said at me when I picked him up,

I'm sorry, you're a starter. I'm startled. This isn't even about. I thought I lost my child. I

thought I lost my child. Oh my gosh. And like also like I am just been biving. I've really been

trying to lock in for and I really have been locking in. I have been putting in so much work

behind the scenes for y'all thinking about someone. It's new sheet. And I also want to do another

episode soon where I do like where you guys leave your stories or like you guys vent, rant, do

whatever you want to do. So make sure you're following the did I over share Instagram. I'm not going

to keep repeating this because I'm going to post a Google forms and you guys all better sign up

in talk. Okay. Okay. Because I can't be the only one to overshare here. I can't. I can't. And if

y'all make me be the only one who's oversharing, pop house for everybody. Everybody, okay. So

you know, this was something new. Clearly, clearly, maybe not new. I think I'm always a little chaotic

but usually I edit it all out. But yeah, I love you guys so much. And I hope you enjoy the episode.

If this is your first one, please, please go back. Go back in the archive and find some other

ones because this is not a good impression. Okay. But I love you guys. Stay blessed. Stay

rich. Stay beverage. Bye.

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