Who's Really in Charge in Your Bedroom? (And Why It Matters)

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Most couples stumble into bed hoping their bodies will figure it out. They don't. Because nobody's talking about who's leading, who's surrendering — or whether you're both fighting for the same role.

Today's guest is Sarah Perry — certified somatic sex educator, sexological body worker, and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She holds a master's in psychology and a background in women, gender, and sexuality studies. Sarah works with people through the body to help them understand what they actually want in bed without the shame.

We're breaking down:

• What dominant and submissive energy actually means (hint: it's not what you think)
• How to figure out your default — and why it changes with different partners
• Why "feminine energy = submissive" is killing your sex life
• The 5-minute game that'll tell you exactly who you are in bed
• How to stop the awkward bedroom guessing game for good

Find Sarah Perry: Instagram: @havenspacecoaching Website: https://www.havenspacecoaching.com/

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