Who’s Really Making Your Choices? with Paula Houlihan | The Journey: Awakening

How many of the choices you make every day are actually conscious?

In the final episode of Week 1: Awakening of The Delay the Binge Journey, Pam Dwyer talks with behavioral change expert, keynote speaker, author, and Power Pause™ creator Paula Houlihan about the brain’s autopilot, and what happens when the patterns designed to help us begin taking us somewhere we no longer want to go.

Paula explains why automatic behavior isn’t evidence that something is wrong with us. Our brains are doing what they were designed to do: conserving energy, recognizing patterns, and automating familiar responses.

But what happens when those responses no longer serve us?

Together, Pam and Paula explore how awareness creates an opportunity to interrupt automatic reactions, why simply knowing better doesn’t always mean we automatically do better, and how Paula’s Power Pause can help bring the thinking part of the brain back online before we respond.

Paula also shares her own experience of recognizing old patterns returning while writing Hijacked, a powerful reminder that growth isn’t perfection. It’s becoming better at noticing, pausing, and choosing again.

This conversation closes Week 1: Awakening and creates the bridge into Week 2: Choosing.

Your Plus One:
When you catch yourself reacting automatically today, pause and ask:

Is this what I want to choose, or simply what I usually do?

You don’t have to change everything.

Just create enough space for one different choice.

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