
Why self-care isn't working for you
About this episode
I'm Back!
After five months away from the microphone, I'm finally back.
If you've been wondering where I've been, thank you for checking in. Your emails, messages, and support meant more to me than you know.
I explain what happened in this episode and share how this time away also gave me space to reflect.
In also share what I've been learning about capacity the idea that our ability to cope, connect, parent, and respond changes throughout the day based on what's happening around us and within us.
We often tell ourselves that we don't have time for self-care.
But what if the real question isn't about self-care at all?
What if it's about learning to notice and respond to our needs?
In this episode, we explore:
- Why "I don't have time for self-care" may be the wrong question
- What Capacity Mountain taught me about stress and emotional well-being
- The three categories of needs that most parents overlook: Body, Mind, and Connection
- How small intentional pauses can help you show up differently for your child
- Why many of us have forgotten what our needs even are
- A simple way to start noticing what is draining—and replenishing—your capacity
This episode marks a new chapter for the podcast and for Curious Neuron.
Whether you've been here since the beginning or you're joining for the first time, I'm grateful you're here.
Let's reconnect, reflect, and continue this journey together.
Support the podcast and donate as little as $5/month!
https://www.buzzsprout.com/1255388/suppor
- Join the Reflective Parent Book Club for only $9.99 for the year: https://reflectiveparentclub.circle.so/checkout/reflective-parenting-book-club
- Watch my Tedx Talk on YouTube called The Over-Educated, Emotionally Underprepared Parent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDYJFY_9K9E&t=19s
- Grab our course for $99, The Emotionally Aware Parent: https://curiousneuron.com/reflective-parent-club/
- Or email me to join the next 8-week training (Starts Oct 12th), to schedule a discovery call for a 1:1 consult for your and your family or to book some leadership training for your workplace [email protected]
Get every episode summarized
Each time Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron publishes, we email you a written briefing from the transcript — the topics, who appeared, and any specific claims, with the ad reads skipped.
Email me new episodesFree for 3 shows. No card needed.
Hosts & guests
No transcript yet
This episode has not been transcribed. Request it and it moves to the front of the queue.
More episodes
More from Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

What if conflict were actually an invitation for intimacy?
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflecting About the New School Year: Expectations, Slowing Down & Sparking Curi...
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflecting on how mental heath care is failing us all
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron

Reflections on what we need to teach our kids about conflict (which also applies...
Reflective Parenting by Curious Neuron