Women Say THIS Is The Best Support For Betrayal Trauma

Have you been searching for the best support for betrayal trauma? Do you feel alone, scared, heartbroken, and sick over the betrayal and the consequences of his emotional abuse?

Victims of betrayal and abuse deserve a safe space to process trauma, openly speak truths, ask hard questions, and receive validation. What is the best betrayal trauma support group? Here are 4 things to look for . . .

1. Is Your Emotional & Psychologial Safety The Top Priority?

The best betrayal trauma support group will make your safety the top priority. No matter if you’ve discovered your husband’s betrayal today or been on your healing journey for decades.

Here are some indications that a betrayal trauma support group isn’t safe:

1. They don’t identify what the trauma is from
2. They don’t identify you as a victim of emotional and psychological abuse
3. You’re encouraged to not make any decisions that would distance yourself from the abuser
4. Maybe they ask you to ignore what your husband is doing that is harming you

Here are some indications that the betrayal trauma support group IS safe:

1. No one cares about what’s going to happen to the abuser or how you getting to safety will affect him.
2. You are validated.
3. The other women in the group have been through what you’ve been through, and so they understand it on a very personal level.
4. You’re not made to feel like your deficient or that you did anything wrong.

In our Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions, abuse is abuse. We’ll never blame you for any of it.

2. They Do Not Offer Services For Abusive Men

Before you start attending a support group for betrayal trauma, make sure the professional you’re going to doesn’t offer services for abusive men. True experts on emotional and psychological abuse know that working with abuse victims AND abusers simultaneously is unethical

If any therapist or program lets you know that they offer services for abusive men, you can know that’s not a support group for betrayal trauma that will be safe for you.

3. No One Will Ask You To Look Into What Part You Played

Unlike traditional addiction therapists, we do not use the codependency model. We use the abuse model. This means we’ll never label you “codependent.” Too many therapists and clergy focus their energies on blaming the victim, rather than accurately treating the betrayal as abuse.

If you go to a support group for betrayal trauma, and anyone there even suggests you played some part in your own emotional and psychological abuse, this is not a group that understands abuse.

To avoid a support group that blames the victim, before you go, ask someone who goes to the group what the “trauma” you need a support group for is from. If they don’t say emotional and psychological abuse and coercion, don’t try to convice them. Just move on.

4. They Trust You To Follow Your Own Intuition

If the betrayal trauma support group mentions or implies that you’re too sick or diseased or weak to follow your own intuition, it’s not ethically run.

One of the hallmarks for abuse is undermining a woman’s confidence. If they’re telling to you “trust” them or they know better than you, look elsewhere.

Women make a lot of progress by enrolling in The BTR.ORG Living Free Workshop that gives women lessons and exercises to get back in touch with theselves, so they can make decisions that are in their best interest.

If you’re looking for the best betrayal trauma support group, Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions are facilitated by specially trained betrayal trauma specialists who understand this type of abuse. We’d love to see you in a Session TODAY.

Transcript: The Best Support For Betrayal Trauma

On this week’s episode, I asked women their thoughts about the best support for betrayal trauma. betrayal trauma share their experiences with our coaches to see if Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Session Clients would want to stay after their group session and share their feelings and experiences with our podcast listeners. Some of them wanted to talk, and others wanted to write their thoughts and have me read them. Additionally I’m also going to read some reviews that we’ve received.

When Therapy for Betrayal Trauma Falls Short

Betrayal Trauma Victim #1:  I had been to three therapists who told me it was all my fault and I needed to go do my family of origin work and stop trying to control my husband, but my husband was just continuing to stomp all over everything that was sacred that I was trying to build with him.

He and the therapist and I were sitting there. I felt like there was a severed artery. It’s just spewing all over and nobody’s saying a word, and it felt just like gaslighting to me. I think therapy was very abusive because three different therapists in that codependent model were telling me those things.

It’s infuriating that women are made to feel this way when they’re trying to get help. That’s all we did for the last two to three years we were together was S groups and CSATs it just got worse. Everybody was like, read this book, and I was like, um, I don’t need a book. I need help. I felt this mentality too that like, we’re gonna go to therapy and everything is gonna get fixed, and that’s just kind of ridiculous.

We have to feel safe and we have to feel heard, and we have to feel valued, and I did not feel any of that until I found BTR.

Gift Of Finding Betrayal Trauma Recovery

I listened to the BTR podcast for about four years. The betrayal trauma support group combined with the podcast were the two things that saved my life. I’m so filled with gratitude.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #2: after how many years of being in the codependent model therapy groups out there, and I don’t wanna name them, but they’re basically following the alcohols anonymous. Models recommended by my husband’s CSAT

I’ve done years of research and going through different rabbit holes, even suffering trauma from a very invasive local, so-called Betrayal trauma CSAT.

I Googled, betrayal trauma support and discovered BTR. I listened to the BTR podcast and I said, I’ve, I’ve gotta join the group. I’ve gotta join the group. I’ve done all the other groups. It doesn’t hurt to try. Right? I’ve tried. I’ve paid so many memberships and I’ve been to so many meetings, so I know it’s not out there except on BTR. To finally find an online group, and it’s really the only one, where you actually have the most educated well-trained coaches who actually facilitate the group. ’cause I’ve had to stop attending another group because they allowed cursing and the rules were not really well thought out.

Finding The Best Structured Support For Betrayal Trauma

So to have a group that has structure, that has guidance, the safety protocols and the anonymity. Is the best investment that you can make especially for betrayal trauma.

To hear yourself in the stories of others. The coaches have been through trauma themselves. That to me was just such a huge bonus to actually speak to women who’ve been through what you’ve gone through and they’ve survived and they’re thriving, and now they’re helping all of us to have all of that in one package.

It’s not about being ready because in trauma you’re always gonna feel like you’re not ready. So it’s almost like you’ve just got to take that medication that you need right now, even though you don’t feel like taking it. It’s the medication that you need, like as we speak, and it’s the most healing. No one’s here to judge you. No one has you under a microscope. You know everybody’s very much in your shoes. Walking the same journey. You’ll find yourself finally healing. And it is one day at a time, one session at a time, one coach at a time.

If you’ve just discovered your husband’s infidelities, whatever it is that you’ve just discovered. IT’s not too late if you are 10 years after discovery, and even if you’re divorced or separated, or even widowed, but you’re still suffering from the trauma and you still wanna heal. BTR has the best way to explain betrayal trauma and treat it.

You wanna connect heart to heart and mind to mind with other women. Connecting with the BTR coaches, that’s my lifeline too sanity and serenity. At the same time. I’m a mother of eight children, and my children need me. I need them to know that they can conquer this and build beautiful, successful lives. We are worth it.

BTR: Finding Safety, Value & Growth

Betrayal Trauma Victim #3:  my whole life, you know, I’ve been told what I’m feeling and what my intentions are. I’ve been searching my whole life to try to figure out what was going on because there’s always that part of me that told me that.

There’s something deeper going on, up until BTR, I didn’t know what the truth was. and this group has changed my life. This is a group that actually helps women recover from betrayal trauma. could finally find a place where I could identify what was going on. I feel a lot more empowered because of this group, I feel because of this group, I’m gonna get my life back. the coaches and all the women being vulnerable and speaking their truths, this group gave me safety and the chance to decide for myself what I want.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #4: When I first discovered BTR on the podcast, I felt. All of a sudden validated, I’d felt not alone.

It took me a while, several months actually, to join the BTR group, honestly, because I was afraid that I would just become an angry, bitter woman who hated men. And I found that to be absolute opposite of what has happened. I have felt completely empowered. I have felt validated. I’ve felt heard.

I’ve felt seen. When I couldn’t see myself. Yeah. It’s the very best thing that’s happened to me.

The Power Of Betrayal Trauma Recovery Group Sessions

Betrayal Trauma Victim #5: I did think I was alone, um, and so isolated for over two decades BTR groups have definitely helped me know that I am not the only one who has experienced, um, emotional and psychological abuse and coercion. Finding the group and hearing so much of my story in other women’s stories has really helped me feel connected and less isolated and I am able to make plans and know exactly what I’m doing to help my life move forward. The groups I’m coaching have really changed me. I am so grateful.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #6: The skills that I’ve learned in BTR and the education that I’ve gotten has transitioned to so many areas of life that I am able to use the restored intuition. I have to see these people who feel entitled to my life, my skills, my story.

To use for themselves, and I’m grateful I have those skills.

Women Who Found The Best Support For Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal Trauma Victim #7: For me, The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Living Free Workshop has been so beneficial. Going through that workshop, seeing the visualization, and building upon what I had already learned in groups took me from a place of being stuck to moving me to where I know God is carrying me and gonna take me. Also, just understanding the past 20 years of my life and why, like why I became stuck, and now that I’m out of that cave, I’m never going back because at this point I’m living in the light.

And once you’re in the light. It’s not gonna happen anymore. The workshop it’s taken me to the next level. So thank you.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #8:  I did not have knowledge of what was going on in my life and how I was being abused to the extent I was. I am very grateful to BTR. thank you, Anne for your podcast.

BTR coaches have given me courage to continually move forward and strengthen me and guide me. They’ve saved my life. The encouragement has been incredible. I am just beyond blessed, and I couldn’t have done this without the BTR coaches. They have been a godsend.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #9:  BTR has been amazing for not just me, but my family, because it’s provided a safe place for myself and then also my mom to process the abuse happening in our respective relationships and get to safety,

so I’m extremely grateful for BTR and all the coaches here

The Impact Of BTR On Family And Friends

Betrayal Trauma Victim #10:  Some of the things I’ve heard through 10 years of therapy with my husband . Like, what are you doing? Or , how can you support him more? And even, why are you crying?

This has nothing to do with you. Minimizing I spent a year with one therapist trying to explain, giving her books. Another therapist, he’s like, how can you keep him from getting access. I had no idea

BTR Group Sessions have been amazing for me. To get on every day if I need to, not being blamed for something out of your control that a grown adult person is doing to you. The BTR Podcast makes sense. I’m thankful. Thankful is an understatement. Just god bless.

Thank you so much.

Betrayal Trauma Victim #11: BTR Group Sessions for me have allowed me to feel less alone and be inspired by amazing women.

Coaches Are The Best Support For Betrayal Trauma

Betrayal Trauma Victim #12: For me, BTR Group Sessions have been with me through the entire process, from first figuring out what was going on in my life to navigating post-separation issues and custody issues. I just cannot put enough value on practical advice, emotional support, and community with other women.

So,it’s really helped.

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