You Can't Be Defeated When You Compete | ReWire 1914

Welcome to the rewire podcast. I'm your host Ryan Stouman and I'm here to rewire your mind for success

You were put on this planet for success. You were created to succeed

But the force of average is after you every single day my brothers and sisters and this podcast is the one thing

This design to help you fight the force of average and excel in every area of your life. We're glad that you're here

Let me give you a perspective shift a little rewire if you will

About your life now. I may not know you. We may have never met

I may not know your name or that you exist

But I know you're here for a reason. I know you're listening to this message because you need it

You might feel right now like the way to the world's on you

Especially if you're a man

You might feel like you have no one to count on you might feel like no one cares about you

You know that nobody's gonna solve your problems

Nobody's gonna bail you out

The lotteries not gonna be one that in caredence from a rich uncle that you never met doesn't exist

And you might feel defeated

And it's okay

Sit in that defeat for a minute because here's the truth

You're not defeated you're defending and you're playing the game, but you're not defeated

You see so many people they want an easy life

But excellence doesn't come from easiness

Excellence comes from struggling

Excellence comes from hard work

Excellence comes from pain

Excellence comes not from pleasure

Excellence doesn't come from the things that everybody wants to do

Excellence comes from shrink through struggle. And so the truth is you have a roof over your head

You're gonna eat today. You've got people that loves you and here's the good news

You're actually winning you may feel defeated, but that's how winners feel a real motherfucker always feels like we could do more

A real motherfucker always feels like we could step up

A real motherfucker always feels like we didn't give it our all because we know that we are capable of more

And we are so hard and judgmental on ourselves and we feel defeated

Because of the simple fact that we know we could have done better

But the truth is most people are defeated. You're here listening to this show because you're different

Most people do get defeated and quit

But see you feel defeated but keep competing

Which means you're winning and the harder it gets for you the truth is the more you're winning

Because the harder life gets the bigger the next level is

The harder life gets the bigger the breakthrough there is the struggles that we face make us stronger

And so I encourage you right now to shift that perspective of defeat and losing and exhaustion and just know that if you feel that way

And you're winning imagine how you're fucking enemy the force of average must feel

Imagine how bad it's fucking struggling to keep up with you

We watch the force of average

Just blow motherfuckers over like fainting goats they clap and these motherfuckers fall out and pass out

We watch the first sign of conflict people get into to absolutely quit and fall apart

But you you've chosen a different path

Therefore you're winning

Therefore the force of average is exhausted

Trying to fucking stop you

So congratulations

You're not defeated you're competing