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Vanessa & Xander Marin
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what re...
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Episodes (277)
E227: Initiation: What You’re Getting Wrong And How To Get It Right
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E226: Foreplay Frustrations: How to Get More (and Better) Foreplay
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E225: The Truth About Sex and Aging: Menopause, Erectile Dysfunction, and Libido
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E224: The Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys & Tools
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E223: Sex After Baby: Postpartum Sex, Intimacy & Desire
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E222: The AI Girlfriend: How to Protect Your Relationship from Artificial Intima...
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E221: How to Explore Your Kinks Without Shame (Cuckolding, Pegging, Breeding, an...
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E220: A Partner’s Guide To The Female Orgasm
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E219: The Truth About Female Orgasm: Your Q’s Answered!
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E218 Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It pt. 2
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E217: Got the Ick? Why It Happens in Relationships + What to Do About It
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E216: The Truth About Being Passive In Bed: And How To Take Control
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E215: Mismatched Sex Drive Types: The #1 Reason Couples Struggle With Desire
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E214: The Truth About Being Touch-Starved (Even In A Happy Relationship)
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E213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Aging, Leg Hair & Mo...
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E212: Why You Flinch When Your Partner Touches You (And How To Fix It) "The Bris...
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E211: Ask A Sex Therapist: Penis Pumps, Pegging, + Postpartum Sex
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E210: How To Know When Enough Is Enough
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E209: Mental Load: The #1 Desire Killer
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E208: Stuck In A Relationship Rut? Here’s Your 4-Week Fix
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E207 The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong
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E206: Butt Stuff 101: Everything You’re Too Afraid To Ask
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E205: Couples Coaching Session: How To Ask For More Even If You Don’t Know What...
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E204: Confessions Of An Overactive Bladder
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E203: Is This Cheating? Part 2
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E202: Am I being defensive, or am I defending myself?
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E201: Couples Coaching Session: They Love Each Other… So Why Does Their Sex Life...
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E200: 200 Episodes Later: Let’s Get Personal! (Ask Us Anything)
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E199: Am I The Asshole? Masturbation, Snooping, and Jealousy
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E198: Stop Doing THIS If You Want More Sex (Initiation Fixes You Need to Know)
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E197: Ask A Sex Therapist - Resentment, Sexual Frustration, And The Death Grip
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E196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!)
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E195: Giddyup, Cowgirl! Tips, Tricks, & Techniques For Maximum Pleasure
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E194: What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2
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E193: The Things We Can’t Say In The Comments
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E192: “Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby T...
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E191: Breaking Free From Purity Culture And Religious Shame
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E190: Am I Being Reasonable Or Ridiculous?
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E189: Can We Have A Fresh Start? Or Is It Too Late?
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E188: Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?
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Episode 187: Am I The Asshole? The Holiday Edition Part 2
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Episode 186: Period Sex, Internal Vs External Processors, & Queer In A Straight...
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Episode 185: How To Navigate Porn In Your Relationship
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Episode 184: How To Get More Physical Intimacy From Your Partner
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Episode 183: How To Get More Emotional Intimacy From Your Partner
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Episode 182: “Help! I’m Not Into My Partner’s Fantasy!”
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Episode 181: A Brutally Honest Relationship Check-In
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Episode 180: Smash Or Pass: We Try The Weirdest Women’s Magazines Sex Tips
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Episode 179: All Your Female Orgasm Questions: Answered!
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Episode 178: Tie-Breakers: We Solve Your Relationship Standoffs
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