Bitachon4Life Shiur 1678 Chikuy Part 78 Effort

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We are explaining a very important concept,

a foundational idea in growth in life,

in growth really in anything,

any relationship, business, anything that a person wants to grow in.

He has to understand this concept.

Whenever you're going to start something new,

whenever you're going to try to get to the next level,

you are going to feel as if you're falling back.

When you learn how to drive a car,

so your parent is sitting with you and training you and showing you how to drive a car,

and then you have to get into the driver's seat and drive yourself.

And inevitably, you're going to be driving in a much lower fashion,

much less professional than when you had somebody standing over you.

But the bottom line is you learn how to drive.

And eventually you'll become a good driver.

But if you're afraid to get behind a driver's seat,

because you're not going to be able to drive as good as you were driving when you had that person

sitting with you and helping you,

then you're never going to grow.

The Rebanish Shilalam does not care about the outcome.

It's so important for us to realize that.

Even if a person was able to maintain Khikoli, let's say, about Parnasa,

and then Rachmanal Islam, they have another area that just popped up,

or they want to advance to another area.

And in that area, they're not holding by Khikoli yet.

They're back to Mivtach, which is just as Trost Hashem,

or Mishantaline on Hashem, or Tikvah to be hopeful,

and they feel like they went back.

You didn't go back.

You're moving up.

You're starting to ladder in another area.

And just because for you, Parnasa might be easy.

And let's say health is harder.

If somebody else's health might be easy, Parnasa might be harder.

The Rebanish Shilalam doesn't care about the outcome.

The main goal is that you're trying.

You're putting in the effort.

You're trying to feel Tikvah, Tichhales, Khikoli.

You're trying to put in that effort and feel it.

Even though maybe right now in this area, you might be struggling.

Or even in Parnasa sometimes, it's easier because Parnasa is coming simpler,

and then all of a sudden it gets more difficult,

and you start falling back and getting lost.

You have to realize life has its ups and downs.

And the down doesn't mean that you're going down.

It just means it's a stepping stool to be able to go higher on the next level.

And if you think you perfected a certain level and you're happy with your accomplishment and you

should realize there's much more out there.

And then if you try to explore another level or you try to explore a different area

and all of a sudden you feel like it's too hard.

So then you go back to Tikvah and you start struggling.

You have to realize the advancement in the new area,

or if the Rebanisham Khashvisham sent you at Sara.

That advancement, that effort that you're putting in,

is greater than the Khikoli that you felt before.

Even though the Khikoli was earned.

But now you're exploring a new horizon.

You're trying something new.

You're doing something that you weren't holding by before.

So obviously you have to start by a lower level.

Because that's the only way you're going to grow.

There's no reason for frustration.

There's no reason to feel as if you're not getting anywhere.

That's part of the growth process.

The Tachhen is a lifelong journey.

It takes time.

It takes effort.

But with perseverance, you'll get there.