Bitachon4Life Shiur 1679 Chikuy Part 79 Growth

They are talking for life, she is 1679,

Yoyim Shli Shibishabis,

Parshas Vaera.

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This squs of Lima, Rataire, and Chizik of all the listeners,

Shabezia, Shamsendem, our Parnosa, Bishefa,

La Irukhya, I'm tired.

We are explaining the secret of success, the secret of growth.

Sometimes a person worked on Betachan in a certain area,

and then they want to explore a different area.

And it depends on the person, it depends on the situation.

The main thing is you have to get comfortable with it,

and it takes time.

You're not going to be able to feel Betachan in all areas.

And sometimes you're feeling Chikoi,

and sometimes it's not practical.

It's such a difficult circumstance, you have to pull back.

A person doesn't have to feel let down when that happens.

That should be the push to help you realize that you're going higher.

The more difficult the struggle,

the more you feel like now you started something new

or it became too long or you're waiting too long,

and now it's hard for you to still feel Chikoi, so you're full back.

All of these are new scenarios.

These are new opportunities for growth.

Whether they're going to send you chasashala manuna saiyan,

whether you explore a different area,

whether it's taking too long,

and you didn't see the issue as it becomes harder to feel the Betachan so you fall back.

All of these scenarios are news.

They're something new, they're opportunities for growth.

And if you use them,

and you don't get pulled down by the fact that you feel that you're going back

and you realize you're not going back,

you're really going forward,

then you'll be able to grow.

One of our listeners asked,

they worked on Betachan in one area,

and they're trying in a different area.

How are they able to juggle both?

And the answer is sometimes you can't.

You have to know yourself.

You could try,

and sometimes in one area you'll feel Chikoi,

and maybe you'll be comfortable with it.

And the next area you might have to work on Chikoi,

or even less than that.

The main goal is,

and this goal applies to every area in Avesasham,

and in business too,

and in other areas too.

But now we're focusing on Avesasham.

Growth.

A new opportunity.

Either the urbanishlam gave it to you,

or you took it upon yourself.

Start slow.

Don't feel like you're going down.

You're going up.

You're just starting at the lower level,

at the next level.

So you really,

let's say, exploring a new area,

or Chasasham has its aura,

and now they have to start again.

Don't get frustrated.

It's a sign that the urbanishlam

understands that you hit a certain mile marker,

and now he wants to push you to the next level.

The effort is what counts.

The fact that you're putting in Kaikus

to try to attain Betachan,

that's what the urbanishlam cares about.

That's what counts in Chimai.

That's success.

Success is not that you can maintain

Hiklian oil areas.

Hopefully one day you'll hit that.

But the goal is to put in the effort.

And sometimes when you explore something new,

or a new difficulty came up,

or it's taking too long and you have to fall back,

those are signs of growth.

They're growing pains.

Push ahead.

Persevere.

Don't get pulled down.

Realize there are punishments,

giving you an opportunity to grow,

grab it, and recognize your growth,

because growth by their Abaynish sound is not the same

as growth down here.

Growth by him,

is that you're trying to grow

in the situation that he put you in.

Root by him,

is that you're trying to grow

in the situation that he put you in.

Root by him,

is that you're trying to grow, in the situation that he put you in.