Bitachon4Life Shiur 1683 Chikuy Part 83 Relationship

Betachan Falaive Shears 1683, Yaim Rishain Bishabis, Pasha's boy.

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We are talking about how the purpose of Rikoi is to open up the channel, so to speak.

And essentially you're getting the Yeshua that's really dear for you.

Everywhere a person should constantly be having Yeshua's.

He shouldn't be having Cyrus.

All difficulties come from a disconnect.

And Betachan reconnects you.

The Rikoi, the waiting for that thing that you should be having anyway,

is what opens up the channels and gives it to you.

And let's take it a step further because one of our listeners reached out

with a powerful question regarding Tfila.

We mentioned this in the Tfila Falaive Shear,

but we want to just elaborate on a little bit from a Betachan perspective.

This listener wanted to know that they're struggling with Tfila

because it seems like they're not getting a Yeshua.

They're davening and davening and they're obeying Shlalam

is not sending them Yeshua's.

Other people seem to be having Yeshua's with their Tfila

and they seem to not.

And therefore they're struggling with Tfila.

They stop davening as much as they used to

because they don't see Yeshua's.

Now Tfila is a little bit different than Betachan.

It's a different approach.

The purpose of Tfila again is to train you

that their obeying Shlalam is the source of everything that you have.

But it's in a form of request of asking as opposed to relying.

But the objective is the same.

What gives a person a time, a meaning in Tfila,

is the understanding that the essence of Tfila is not the Yeshua.

The essence of Tfila is not the fact that their

Shlalam gave you what you wanted.

The essence of Tfila is the connection that Tfila brings.

And every time a person davens and he tries to connect to Akadish Baruch,

regardless if you get the Yeshua or not.

Bezah Hashem you'll get the Yeshua.

But the purpose is the connection.

The realization that Akadish Baruch is the source of everything

that you need and everything that you want.

That will give you a time in Tfila.

And Bezah Hashem you'll have the Yeshua.

But the time in Tfila comes from the understanding that the purpose of Tfila

is the connection, not the Yeshua.

It's like a parent that wants his child to call him, to be in touch

and the parent says the child what they need.

The purpose is not what the child needs, the purpose is the connection

that the child should remember they have a parent.

That's what Betachin is also.

When you're Michakhe or when you have Teychelles or Tickle,

you're remembering about your father in Shemaian.

You're reminding yourself that you have a Rebonish Lillum

that's looking out for you.

When you remind yourself you connect.

And then Bezah Hashem you'll seechate Yeshua's.

But we have to remember the objective.

If we want to be able to feel a meaning in Betachin and Tfila and anything,

we have to connect to the goal.

The goal is the relationship that Tfila and Betachin bring.

In two different ways.

But they both bring a relationship.

Some people relate better to Tfila, some people better to Betachin.

But the goal is the relationship.

Like a parent that wants to relate to a child.

So when you're being Michakhe, you are opening up a channel.

You're connecting to the Rebonish Lillum and that brings the Yeshua Beth,

but the goal is not the Yeshua.

The goal is the relationship.

The goal is the relationship.