Ep 21 - Why You’re Not Stuck—You’re Just Being Who You Didn’t Choose

If you’ve ever looked at your life and thought, “Wait… how did I end up being this version of me?”—this episode is like that collagen mask you’ve been dying to try—but for your soul. Instant glow-up energy, no downtime required. You don’t need to blow up your life to change it. But you do need to start making intentional choices about who you want to BE.

From subconscious conditioning to Monday morning routines, we’re breaking it down... this might just be your most transformative shift yet!

What You’ll Learn:

✅ Why most women are living as versions of themselves they didn’t choose

✅ How to consciously choose who you want to be (starting today)

✅ The power of “being” vs. just “doing” the same things on autopilot

✅ Why even ONE micro-shift can create a ripple that transforms your whole identity

Resources Mentioned:

• 🔗 Try Dana – Your GPT-powered fitness + mindset bestie
• 🔗 Nikki’s Drop the Pressure Audio (Free 3-part nervous system reset)

Journal Prompts:

• What version of me am I being today—and did I choose her?
• What area of my life feels most lit up about change?
• How would the “next version” of me show up differently in this one small moment?

Love this episode? We’d love to hear from you! Drop us a DM on Instagram at @_nikkivoxx or @alicerickard_, share your biggest takeaway, and let us know what you want us to dive into next!

ABOUT ALICE + NIKKI

Alice Rickard is a life coach who has been through the grind—from a high-pressure career as a hedge fund trader to a transformative journey into feminine flow. After burning out from hustling in a masculine-driven world, she discovered the power of nervous system regulation and feminine energy, which completely changed her life. Now, she’s on a mission to help ambitious women break free from burnout, release limiting beliefs, and unlock their Feminine Flow Codes to experience abundance, love, and ease.

Nikki Voxx is all about shifting your state of consciousness, priming + rewiring your subconscious mind + regulating your nervous system for the LIT AF LIFE you deserve! She helps you build up your own inherent value so you stop relying on external experiences, evidence + circumstances to validate your worth. Sound good? Book a Connection Call with her here.