Ep 4 - The People-Pleaser’s Survival Guide: Spotting Red Flags + Owning Your Power

In this quick-fire episode, we dive into people-pleasing, self-worth and dating... dropping some serious truths about what it means to flip the script on relationships and self-acceptance. We tackle questions from our Instagram community on everything from dating dynamics to breaking free from limiting beliefs. Get ready to learn how to stop obsessing over whether they like you and start asking, “Do I like them?”

Key Takeaways:

• 🔥 FLIP the Script: Shift from “Does he like me?” to “Do I even like him?” in dating.
• 🧠 Procrastination Hack: Your brain is like a GPS—it needs the right coordinates to move! Break down your goals into exciting, achievable steps.
• 🍑 The Peach Metaphor: You can be the juiciest peach, but not everyone likes peaches! How to focus on loving yourself first.
• 🌀 Manifestation Vibes: Trust the void and lean into the unknown. A woman who knows she’s worthy doesn't chase; she attracts.
• 🍩 Food & Feelings: Eating to numb discomfort? Let’s focus on the full spectrum of feeling good—before, during, AND after.
• 🧘‍♀️ Men 101: Stop expecting men to act like women! Understand the beautiful, mind-boggling differences that can elevate your relationships.

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ABOUT ALICE + NIKKI

Alice Rickard is a life coach who has been through the grind—from a high-pressure career as a hedge fund trader to a transformative journey into feminine flow. After burning out from hustling in a masculine-driven world, she discovered the power of nervous system regulation and feminine energy, which completely changed her life. Now, she’s on a mission to help ambitious women break free from burnout, release limiting beliefs, and unlock their Feminine Flow Codes to experience abundance, love, and ease.

Nikki Voxx is all about shifting your state of consciousness, priming + rewiring your subconscious mind + regulating your nervous system for the LIT AF LIFE you deserve! She helps you build up your own inherent value so you stop relying on external experiences, evidence + circumstances to validate your worth. Sound good? Book a Connection Call with her here.