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Quazi Johir — How To Bend Reality To Your Will: This Diagram Changed My Life | Quazi Johir. Machine-transcribed; use the interactive transcript above to jump the player to any line.
quasi here and in this video I'm going to share with you the concept of lifeline shifting why most people stay stuck in Groundhog day for years and years in their lives and keep repeating the same patterns of staying stuck in the same 9 to 5 you know the same job that they hate the same revenue level in their businesses Why this groundhog pattern even happens and how to truly break free from it and how I was able to quickly break free from my Revenue barriers really scaled my business from the ground up to doing 100k months in a very short span of time I want you to stick around to the very end of this video because this is something you've probably never seen on the internet before and Never shared anywhere else before and something that even took me a lot of trial and error to figure out in my life Okay, make sure you stick around to the very very end of this video because I'm going to be sharing with you the three keys to help you Implement this in your life and completely obliterate this invisible barrier that's coming across your way
Before I begin this video and it's a quickly announcement a couple of spots have opened up for the free one-to-one Console with me my team for the reality mastery program wait till the end of the video for the announcement on that and with that Let's get started. So today I want to talk to you about this concept of lifeline shifting and what it really means and You know what what a lifeline even is and the purpose and the motivation behind making this video was really looking at people and You know interacting with people even my prospective clients even clients that I have in the program and seeing why some of them Stay stuck in this same pattern over and over again and why some are able to break free very very quickly now What you've got to understand is that this a groundhog day Happens because of our own patterns of existence. Okay, so There's something key about patterns of existence and by patterns of existence. I mean karma Okay, how we define karma and I made a video about this click up here to check that out is essentially action
Karma in thanks great translates literally to action action in the sense of external action What you do and also internal action of what you think what emotions and what predominant It's thoughts that you have that you keep swirling around all of these Determine your sort of pattern of existence and the fate your life ultimately follows now within that you want to understand that Most people lack congruence to their goals. Okay, this is an important word. I want you to remember throughout this video congruence what I mean by that is basically Being an alignment with your thoughts words and actions. Okay, I'm gonna explain that in a bit but People have a goal, but they don't act in accordance with their goal We have a goal we want to make money, but we don't act in accordance with these goals We don't we're not impeccable with our words with our actions and with our thoughts even and as a result you keep staying stuck in a certain Groundhog day a certain trajectory of where your life is following
Okay, I'm gonna demonstrate this with a sort of diagram. Let's say this is you right now, okay? And in your world view there is only one path that you can follow This is what happens to people who stay stuck in the same pattern for so long for years and years They have a desire to move a certain other way into a certain other goal But they just can't see these these sort of trajectories the the the paths that would actually lead it to these goals because They have become so congruent to one direction right their thoughts words and actions their patterns of existence Their karma is just aligned to this direction and they've been living unconsciously They've been sort of asleep in waking reality when this happens you no longer have the choice of where you want to take your life But you're a slave to in your environment and how you've been living in your past, okay? So if you've been in the same sort of nine to five you've been in the same sort of debt Chances are you're gonna be creating more and more debt for yourself Even if you get out of debt somehow you'll find a way to get back that debt
Right and that's because of this unconscious living that happens in your everyday waking reality right so in in relation to that There are different Lifelines that you can follow this is one lifeline that you're on currently, okay? Let's say this is the lifeline of you being stuck at that nine to five you trying businesses and nothing really working for you And maybe you've been making and breaking even in your business and you just can't scale up for some reason All right, so this is the lifeline you've been following for the past five to ten years and nothing's really changed You move one step forward and one step back and stay stuck at the same neutral You want to switch to a parallel lifeline of where you are let's say this is you making 10k per month in your business you're currently maybe making five k a month But for some reason you can't shift up to that lifeline. Why is this happening because the parts This path isn't even visible to you right now. This dotted path is invisible to you
Maybe this is another parallel lifeline, but this is invisible to you either These paths become visible to you in accordance with the Thought energy that you put out, okay? These are all parallel realities and just separate aspect of the whole grand reality scheme But because of the thought energy you're radiating and the frequency you're radiating only a certain sector of it is visible to you This frequency that you radiate is determined predominantly by the thoughts, words and actions that you've been Having aka the karma right? So with this you determine the fate of your life And the fate of your life right now is to stay stuck in the five k month The question becomes how do I attune myself with different sectors of this whole reality scheme so I can choose what I want The goal is again to change your frequency. How do you change your frequency? You change your karma? How do you change your karma? You change the thoughts, words and actions that you radiate out there, okay?
So A great way of being able to do that is just by expanding your comfort zone Something very very powerful happens when you expand your comfort zone When you stop living how you've been living and you choose to live a different way as a different being Overall, so when you expand your comfort zone Literally, this is what happens, right? You go from this circle to a bigger circle You become a bigger circle When you become a bigger circle More of your world view is expanded you can see more of this world because you're not currently sort of cornered in this little circle But now you can your perspective has expanded When this expands these paths now come into your world view, okay? These paths that will lead you to that different lifeline that you want to get to The different trajectory you want to follow They become in your world view Now the question becomes are you going to choose to follow these paths?
Right? So most people they know what to do by the way, right? They know what they need to do, but they just can't do it because it's so damn uncomfortable They can't invest money in themselves, you know They can't invest in the growth of their businesses They're stuck in this fear mindset and holding onto this money Because they're worried about the bills that could come up and they want to be safe Because they fear something bad is going to come up Right? There's a difference between you know Saving some money and holding it to be safe But another difference completely from Holding onto it so tightly because if you hold onto anything so tightly Life will always show you its impermanent quality and find a way to destroy this identification Seriously if you hold onto I've seen people do an 80k month in their business to go bankrupt the next month Because they've held onto it so tightly When you hold onto it tightly it literally means I'm going to lose it so I might as well hold onto it That's what you say to reality and that's what starts to get affirmed right? So
A very crucial thing happens when you expand your comfort zone When you've been in this sort of suffering you start to learn You know you're so uncomfortable in this suffering because you want something else completely right? But now the choice becomes okay, you know what it is you need to do You clearly know that you need to follow this trajectory You know you need to follow this path but it's not comfortable because this path isn't in line with your current trajectory of you know going the 9 to 5 doing the 5k a month But now you have to you're faced with an uncomfortable decision Whenever you're about to shift a lifeline you're always faced with an uncomfortable decision Okay, what actually Causes a movement between lifelines right what causes this movement from here to here Isn't Just a thought Isn't just a word but it's the intention aka the the action right when you put a goal on a pedestal and you keep thinking and dreaming about it You know, I've seen people who were like oh, I want to make 20k months in my business Now I want to do 20k months, but they can't invest 5k in themselves and in their businesses
You know, they can't put 5k down for advertising They can't hire people or they can't basically do what's needed for their business to get them forward because they're holding on to what they already have If you're holding on to what you already have you're never going to be able to go Free into what you actually do want right so these people they're so afraid to invest in themselves and in their growth for their businesses They never grow But on the other hand, I've seen people who've literally like Gone to debt into investing in themselves. They bought it you know courses programs mentors like 10k even though They didn't have 10k to spend but they actually made that money back very very quickly like they've made quantum Leaps in a very short period of time because they keep doing these uncomfortable things and they put a great meaning behind them When you do uncomfortable things the key behind that is to also put a awesome meaning behind it because then that intensity of the uncomfortable activity and Basically intensifies the emotion of this is going to get me to my goal and as a result That's actually what happens right you can sit on your couch all day and be like oh, you know
Somehow I hear from now. I'm gonna be a millionaire You can tell yourself that all you want but without the intention this forward movement never happens When you believe and allow yourself to have something Your comfort zone expands a little bit because now you conceive of the possibility that you could be a millionaire Right, but unless and until you ground that with the intention of wanting to move forward It's just going to be a daydream You can tell yourself all of these bullshit stories all you want But if it's not grounded in solid concrete intention the forward movement along these lifelines never happens This is something I had to learn the hard way when I would take like You know five ten days to make a decision on a thousand dollar product that could you know a course that could have helped me But now I went from that point to making a thirty thousand dollar decision within one hour of having a call Right because you start to see that successful people make quick decisions and rarely ever change them once all the facts are presented unsuccessful people They know what they need to do but they just can't make the decision because it's too uncomfortable
They can't expand their comfort zone when you can't expand your comfort zone You stay with what is comfortable and the pattern you've been living for the past seven years Okay, this is why groundhog day happens because you essentially know what you need to do intellectually But emotionally you're not grounded in that Emotionally you can't take you can't take that one step You you let the fear run you not the desire Okay, this is the biggest key between people who are successful and move forward They're driven by their pure desire of what they want to create for their lives But people who are poor and stuck stay stuck in poverty They're driven by fear and holding onto it because they anticipate bills and when they anticipate bills and the bills come Right, so we're all creating our realities because this is the Mirror principle of life whatever you hold to be true within will eventually show for you without Okay So this is the concept I want you to get key I want you to get very very acutely aware of That you got to first expand your comfort zone and actually ground that with the thoughts that you're thinking the words that you're saying every single day and the action that you're actually taking
It's not enough to just think oh, I'm gonna be a millionaire and not have it grounded in the words and actions because you're lacking congruence now right so the key is congruence and and Expansion of comfort zone Because no one ever grew out of their comfort zones you've got to know that anytime growth happens is because you're not comfortable This isn't comfortable, you know If you're always looking to be comfortable, you're going to stay stuck in this comfort zone success and really like freedom isn't Being able to do what you like and avoid what you dislike that's slavery that's not freedom That's bondage because if you're tied to your likes and dislikes you're going to be a slave to your likes and dislikes True freedom is being able to do anything that's necessary for you regardless of how you feel within So now you're not a slave to your emotions you're actually free from your emotions and your body and the character
You get to choose who you want to be and what you create for your life Okay, so to experience something different you must operate out of your comfort zone If you want to break free of groundhog day you must operate out of your comfort zone Every single day must be lived as though you're in a dark room looking for a way out That's how uncomfortable it's got to be But it's just that you get comfortable in the discomfort right? There's a key difference between that when you get comfortable when you accept Acceptance is very very powerful when you accept the discomfort that this is what's needed aka You put a good meaning onto that then that discomfort actually leads you to growth Even though I am uncomfortable. I am no longer the body so I can detach myself from all of the bullshit that goes on right So that's the most important thing and yet to you really give you a concrete example people want to be rich But they act and think like they're poor You know people want to make 20k month businesses, but they act like
You know, they're an employee and they think like they're an employee They can't invest in their personal development You know, they buy the $97 courses, but they can't invest a you know, $5k in their personal development And actually doubling down on themselves into one course of action But they do a million different $97 products right That's number one I've seen and that I've even experienced in my personal life And when I started to shift from that from trying the next shiny object actually committing to one path one mentor one coach Then I experienced forward movement in my business very very quickly and You want to really model sort of How rich people how successful people think and most of the time how they think isn't By analogy and what other people do Because if you do what your friends do you're going to be like your friends Unless your friends are millionaires then in that case you want to think like them But other than that if you want to be rich You've got to act think and speak like your rich right all your thoughts
all your words all your actions Must be in line Because eventually your thoughts will lead to your words and what you speak and whatever you speak You're going to be doing okay Your thoughts turn into words and your words turn into actions This is the unconscious cycle again I'm in a video about this talking about the subconscious mind cycle and how your thoughts and your emotions start to dictate And evolve into eventual convictions which start to keep you stuck in this hypnotic rhythm in your life, but You've got to be very very careful of the thoughts that you cultivate in your mind What sort of emotions you're feeding which version of yourself you're feeding right now in your life If you're feeding that fearful little child self And you're afraid to take a leap in your life that'll make you grow You're afraid to go from full-time to part-time. You're never going to grow You know sometimes all the time all the time you must do something uncomfortable I know now in my life if I'm doing something uncomfortable I'm doing right every single day becomes a journey for me to do something uncomfortable to expand my comfort zone
This is what I've been doing for the past two years and this is why exponential growth has been happening for the past two years Right So that's what I want to leave you off with and to really conclude this video I'm going to share with you the three keys to help you really do this is a systematic manner Number one Key you want to consciously change the patterns of your existence first and then Reality will start to follow this is the mirror principle of reality as within so without Click up here to check a video on that. However, there's a delay time for that Okay, it doesn't happen immediately because the mirror of reality raises its hand with a delay when you raise your hand in front of the mirror Eventually the reflection will match the image presented to it But you must first craft the image consciously if you live unconsciously in the same patterns you've been living You're going to see the same reflections that have been happening, okay? So number one consciously change these thoughts words and actions you present to this mirror You've got to make these uncomfortable decisions every single day
If you want to grow if you want to move forward there is no other way Number two look for ways to really expand your comfort zone Look for ways to expand Because if you're not expanding you're contracting there's no staying neutral staying neutral means you're Expanding a little bit and you're just contracting a little bit more you're expanding again and you're contracting again So your rate of expansion must be greater than the rate of contraction That will eventually lead you to seeing all these possibilities and seeing that forward movement in lifelines, okay? That's number two Number three start strive for congruence. This is key become impeccable with your word whatever you say you follow up and you Grounded, you know I will never give my word to myself or even someone else if I can't keep it I'd much rather not give the word, you know I would much rather say no than be like oh maybe I'll do it even though I know that I'm not gonna do it
Because now you're not being impeccable with your word. I'll just straight up say no. I'm not gonna do that So that is a huge key that I've had to learn in this journey as well learning to say no As a business only your time is the most important thing you've got to learn to say no If you don't say no Then you're going to be a slave to someone else's plan. You're going to be on a puppet on a string You're not going to be impeccable with your word your integrity will not be there if you're not If you don't see yourself If you don't act in accordance with your word then you're not going to perceive yourself as having integrity And if you don't perceive yourself as having integrity then Your word will literally mean nothing your word becomes more and more powerful the more you follow through with it when you tell yourself You're going to do something you do that thing if you're not going to do it then you tell yourself. I'm not going to do it The more you start to do this the more you start to show up for yourself The more you start to show up for yourself the more powerful your words get And eventually your thoughts gain the same power whatever thought you keep in this mind
Eventually shows up into reality eventually shows up into your word eventually shows up into your actions Okay, this is how you become very very powerful as a reality creator With that I conclude this video and Let's just quickly recap. We discuss some complex concepts. I'm going to clarify some things up for you So most people stay stuck in this groundhog day pattern because of the patterns of existence that they live by aka the karma Okay, karma literally means action whether it be internal or external action now Most people also stay stuck because they have a lack of congruence to their goals They can't achieve their goals because they're not congruent in their thoughts words and actions They say one thing they do another They want to become rich but they think like a poor person and they can't make decisions that they need to make in order to be rich in order to move in that direction Right, they want to go here, but they make decisions that help them move here So This is the whole concept of parallel lifelines and the whole quantum space that contains every single possible reality that can be manifested
Most people go through this trajectory because their sense of self is so limited because they've been living in their comfort zones If you've been living a certain pattern in your life your whole life and you're comfortable being here You go to work and then you come back you watch some TV and then you numb yourself with Basically all sorts of junk food and then you repeat the same pattern next day only to look forward to the weekend This is the pattern your life is going to unfold in But then one day you expand your comfort zone you do something that's completely different Maybe you take a different path to work That just expands you out even a little bit But more so if that comfort zone expander is in line with what you actually want for your life So you've got to be in congruence with your goals If you want to become a successful business owner you want to make more money in your business How can you become more comfortable? How can you expand your comfort zone? But also in a more congruent manner that your thoughts words and actions are in line with that goal Okay That's what basically first of all there's two effects to it first of all your comfort zone expands a little bit more
You start to conceive of the possibilities you know you start to know what you need to do But then you keep doing more and more of the uncomfortable things and it moves you towards this The movement along the lifelines happen Okay That's key and understand that in order to experience something different one must operate out of their comfort zone Every single day must be lived in sort of like you're in a dark room If you're living your life as though it's a dark room every single day You're naturally going to be uncomfortable like you're looking for the exit like you're looking for something right You don't really know you're not unconscious The more comfortable you are the more unconscious you are Like think about it this way Who's the most when do you get the most comfortable When you're dead Right, that's the most unconscious as well when you're the most unconscious The lowest level of consciousness is basically death. There is no consciousness at all And that's also the the highest level of comfort
Right the more alive you are the more uncount the more conscious you are The more uncomfortable you are Right consciousness equals aliveness aliveness equals sensitivity sensitivity equals discomfort The more and more alive you are the more uncomfortable you are That's how you know you're living or else you become so numb You become so numb to life and you keep reliving these toxic patterns over and over and internally you're suffering But your body is so comfortable The internal suffering happens, but your body is just comfortable, okay So remember this Most people they want to be rich, but they act in accordance with poverty If you want to become rich, if you want to become successful Your thoughts, words and actions must be in line with that, okay? And the three keys are first of all You must consciously change the patterns first and then reality will reflect this
Number two look for ways every single day to expand To expand your comfort zone do something you never would have done brush your teeth with your left hand You know go out there talk to a stranger you've never talked to Invest in a program you've never invested in and you would never do so For your personal development, but more so act in accordance with the goals that you have not just willy nilly even doing it willy nilly doing a workout That you normally wouldn't do is still better than doing nothing at all That still at least gets you into the momentum of expanding your comfort zone Right number three strive for congruence like I said with whatever goals you have make sure your thoughts Your words and your actions are in line make sure you put a good meaning to that Uncomfortable reaction that you've taken and with that I conclude this video Thank you so much for watching I sincerely hope this was helpful If you're new to this channel make sure you like comments subscribe hit that little bell there So you'll be notified of any new video that I put out and also i'm super excited to announce as I mentioned before A couple of spots have opened up for the reality marshy program and the console with me and my team
Make sure you click on the link in the description to sign up for that And let's see how we can help you take your life to the next level Now who we typically work with are as follows are people who are professionals first of all They're really looking to transition out into entrepreneurship into that uncomfortable lifeline And what they see is they jump from one attempt to the next in the different business models The stock trading real estate investing the affiliate marketing and they always return back to their neutral baseline Which is the cubicle that they're worthy of you know They're not worthy of making more money. They're not worthy of entrepreneurship They're only worthy of the cubicle so that's what they keep returning to Okay, if that sounds like you click on the link to sign up Let's see how it can help you become an entrepreneur within first people who are also existing entrepreneurs Who are stuck at a certain revenue level, you know you're doing the 5k 10k 15k months You want to scale up, but you're hitting an invisible barrier It's you have the coaches you have the tactics strategies business mentors. You know what to do Or you really aren't seeing the right opportunities presenting themselves to you because you're focused on the wrong thing You're really seeing it's an internal problem. You have an internal ceiling. That's basically keeping you stuck here
That sounds like you make sure you click on the description below to sign up And let's see how we can help you people who are creatives people who are high performers as well Okay, and also I'm super excited to announce the free Facebook group is open for you to take advantage of It's a great community. We're growing. So make sure you click on the link to sign up for that Thank you so much for watching till next time peace You
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