How To Have an Unforgettable one night Stand: From Pickup to Aftercare

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There are one night stands you forget before you've brushed your teeth — and there are one night stands you're still thinking about years later. Today we're breaking down the difference.

Zachary Zane — author of Boy Slut, Men's Health sex columnist, and Grindr's official sex and relationship expert — joins me to map out exactly how to have a one night stand that actually lives up to the fantasy. From the mental prep most people skip, to where to find the right person, to what happens in the room that makes it unforgettable — we're covering every stage.

We get into: 

→ The honest conversation you need to have with yourself before you go out 
→ Where to find casual sex based on your gender, orientation, and vibe 
→ How to communicate what you want without killing the momentum 
→ Why one night stands can be MORE intimate than relationship sex 
→ The aftercare that turns a hookup into a core memory instead of a regret 
→ Safety tips every woman needs before leaving with a stranger

Plus — we both share our own one night stand stories, because we've been there. A lot.

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