Looksmaxxing and What Actually Attracts Women

Rebecca and Jojo from Two Fit Chicks pull up a chair at the Billified table and the conversation goes exactly where you would expect it to go and then a few places you would not. It starts with Bill accidentally becoming the dog sitter for his ex-wife's dog and ends with a 90 minute conversation about dating, attraction, confidence, and what men are doing wrong in all of it. Bill brings up looksmaxing, the online trend where young guys are literally measuring their skull dimensions and researching how to reshape their bone structure with a hammer because they think their face is the reason they are striking out. Rebecca and Jojo break down what women actually find attractive and it has nothing to do with any of that. Confidence is at the top of the list. Not cockiness. Not a guy who walks in and tells you how great he is. Actual confidence. The kind where a guy is comfortable enough in his own skin that he is not sweating you every second of the conversation. Jojo says a guy who cannot stop telling you how much everyone loves him is the most unattractive thing in the room. Rebecca says the guys who have to announce their money have already lost.

They get into dating apps, filters, AI profile pictures, and why women started lowering the age range because men their own age just look worse. Kevin brings up the guy holding the dead deer on Tinder. Bill brings up running through a dorm hallway in college with a sock on as his alternative to the apps. It checks out. The conversation gets real when they talk about what happens to couples when the kids come first and the relationship gets put on a shelf. Empty nesters who suddenly do not know how to be in the same room. Guys who let themselves go for years and then get blindsided when she is done. Women who spent years going to the gym and watching their partner not care, and then watching that same person suddenly find a gym the week after the split. Jojo tells the story of her ex-husband straight up. Rebecca does not sugarcoat it either.

 Bill lands the question of the night: what should older guys who are behind be doing right now so they do not get left behind? Rebecca and Jojo have answers. Dad bod is not the answer. Also: the 90s workplace stories including one involving a locked office door that is not funny at all, whether young guys shooting their shot reads as confident or cringe, the worst pickup lines the table has ever heard, and why Bill got accused of using an AI photo when he genuinely did not. Kevin's music game did not happen. They ran out of time. No one is surprised. New episodes of Billified drop Monday, Wednesday, and Friday. Follow us on Facebook, X, and Instagram at Billified_pod.

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