Master the Mind 3/7 : The Mind That Wins First: “You never win the game you already lost in your mind.” #WinItAllWednesday

I don't know about you, but I'm sure glad it's Wednesday and not just any Wednesday.

This is when it all Wednesday.

Now come on now.

You can say that with me, come on, say it with me, it's when it all Wednesday.

Yes, you're listening to the sweet spot and yes, I'm Dr. Derek Sweet and yes, it is

well with you, it is well with your family, it is well with the work of your hands, it

is well with your soul.

You know, the old folks used to say that and I never quite understood it, but when you

go through life and you get to something like Humpty, right, where you have to get over

the hump, where life is thrown so much at you, it is sometimes all you can do, but say

it is well, it is well, it is well.

It is well with my soul today, I'm with it all Wednesday.

So alright sweet spotters, we are in a wonderful series here where we're talking about mastering

the mind and we're looking at a book, a wonderful book written by James Allen, it's an older

book.

James Allen, I think wrote this in the early 1900s perhaps and the book is called as a

man think of.

So here's the thing, on Monday, we set the mind, on Tuesday, you did the work beneath

the work, remember that.

So we find ourselves here on Wednesday, Wednesday being the middle of the week, the middle

is where most people negotiate with themselves, right?

Yeah, they don't quite, we don't quite quit on Monday and we don't always quit on Friday,

what we do is we let go of the rope on Wednesday.

This is the day that we let go of the rope gently quietly, we kind of sort of ease off

of the gas kind of thing, but not today, not today, not today, because this is when it

all Wednesday.

I'm your host, I'm Dr Derek Sweet, I'm brought to the fight sky chest, I work in the

elite performance, but more than that, I enjoy being your teammate here in the game of

life.

So what do we have today?

Well the author James Allen puts it this way, the winner is built before the win.

You see, I'm not quote what he says, he says a division that you glorify in your mind,

the ideal that you enthrone in your heart, that is what you will build your life by and

that is what you will become.

So the trophy doesn't make you a champion, the champion is what makes the trophy possible.

What you're holding in your mind on Wednesday morning, when nobody's watching this morning

if this is the time you're listening to me, that is the real competition.

And so yeah, you are up against you, a lot of times we're up against ourselves.

So a lot of it is about really understanding what they say in Buddhism, right?

In Buddhism, they teach this, they say that what you think you become, what you feel

you attract, and what you imagine you create.

So the win that you're looking for on Winner Law Wednesday starts inside of you.

The win is being constructed invisibly in the middle days.

So what is your vision, you got to pull that up, knock your task, knock your list of things

to do, not where you would like to be.

What is your vision of you and for you?

Figure that out.

Before you open the emails, before you respond to people, before you get going, take a second,

chill out, relax, take a breath.

Yeah, and remind your nervous system, what is my winning formula look like?

Am I strong?

Am I anchored in courage today?

Because if you're not, then it's going to be hard to actually win.

Yeah, you see, winning requires certain sacrifices.

The author James Allen of this book, as a man, think it broke this, and I'm quoting him.

The person who would accomplish little, must sacrifice little.

The person who would achieve much must sacrifice much.

The person who would attain highly must sacrifice greatly.

Sacrifice, sacrifice, sacrifice, it appears a lot in this quote that I just read.

Hmm, you know what it's telling me is that winning is not always by addition.

It's subtraction first.

It's getting rid of things that don't help you and don't support you and don't serve

you.

The habits that don't serve the vision, you got to cut them out.

That includes conversations that drain you, that don't deposit anything in you.

It includes certain people that drain your energy, certain habits and behaviors that only

you know shouldn't be a part of your get down, the lack of a better term, right?

So the commitments that you make out of guilt instead of out of really what you're really

supposed to be doing.

So yeah, it's, you can't serve two masters, right?

That's in the ancient wisdom.

In the ancient wisdom, it said, I think Jesus said this literally, the Jesus said this,

that you, no one can serve two masters.

Either you're going to hate one and love the other or you'll be devoted to one and despise

the other.

You see, what I think they're saying there in Matthew 6, verse 24, the ancient wisdom

is this, two masters means divided energy.

Whatever your two masters are, right?

So divided energy is not great because divided energy means half results on a full-time schedule.

Does that make sense?

Yeah, that's why the story is put it this way and you know, I love the stories because

they just blood, markers are really, it's just put it, it's time you realize that you've

something in you more powerful and more miraculous than the things that you're allowing to affect

you and make you dance like a puppet.

No, that's not me, I didn't say that.

That's markers are really, it's time you realize that you have something in you more powerful

and miraculous than the things that you're allowing to affect you and the things that you're

allowing to make you dance like a puppet.

What's making you dance like a puppet?

Huh.

Yeah, you're not obligated to answer the bell every time that doorbell rings, if you

know what I mean.

You're not obligated to every single pull.

You got to know who you are, you got to know your identity, we talked about that.

Drake or nothing was the same puts it this way, know yourself, know your worth.

Why?

Because Drake gets it, Drake gets it, knowing your worth means knowing what you will not

trade it for.

That's important because once you know your identity, you're already a winner because

that's not going to change whether you quote unquote winner lose a game, you're stable.

So here's the thing, you got to do some cleaner, identify one thing this winner or Wednesday,

identify one thing on this week's list that does not belong in your vision, your winning

formula vision, this person, this activity, this action, this habit, this thing doesn't

belong.

Not to eliminate it today, I'm not asking you to do that, I just want you to name it clearly

and understand it, have clarity about what you're carrying.

That's the first step to really being a true winner.

Absolutely, that's the key.

Don't a big part of winning is not dwelling in the past, like people will, they've lost

games or the things that work out, staying there doesn't help you.

Don't dwell in the past, don't dream of the future, concentrate in the right here right

now.

That's what we teach here.

I was about to say the full circle, which is our practice.

That's what we teach here on the sweet spot, right, that you stay in the present which

of you could add anything to your, to your stature by, by, by putting on a worry on anxiety

about the future.

We can't control the future.

In fact, we got to learn how to be happy with whatever we got today, today God has made.

Figure out how to rejoice, how to be happy.

You know, in the ancient wisdom in Philippians, they say Paul was in prison, this dude was

in prison and wrote, I have learned in what, so every state I'm in to be content.

I don't know about you, but I'm still learning that how to be content, how to be a winner,

even if I'm not in a winning situation.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Nipsy, how to put it this way, you know, Nipsy is, I'm in, I'm from a place where you

either win or learn, but you never lose.

And you know why, why that works?

Because you're in my identity as winners, that's got to stay intact.

The minute you say I'm a loser, it's over.

Because what is this series about this week?

It's about the mind, mastering the mind, so we can't allow the mind to tell us a story

about what's not working and losing and dwell there.

No, no, no, no, no, no, because that real competition is always internal.

Remember the battle, the work under the work is on us.

And James Allen, the author of this book, as a man thinketh, wrote this, the person

who is conquered themselves has conquered the universe.

The person who master them, the people who master themselves are greater than those who

take a city.

You see, the opponent is not across the table.

The opponent is not understanding, it's not in the audience.

You know where the opponent is?

I know, you know, in the mirror.

It's Wednesday morning, it's Wednesday afternoon, it's Wednesday evening, whatever time

you listen to this, it's in the mirror.

That's the opponent.

That's the one that you have to fight and get under control.

Remember Michael Jackson put it, I'm asking the man in the, I'm starting with the man

in the mirror.

I'm asking him to change his ways.

And I think no question or something like that could have been any clearer.

If you want to make this world a better place, take a look at yourself and make a change.

A hundred, that makes so much sense to me.

So much sense to me, because ultimately it's about control, it's about self-control,

better a patient person than a warrior.

The ancient wisdom says, one with self-control, right, has more power than one who takes a

whole city.

That's in Proverbs.

So yeah, you know, here's the thing, the author and the Solomon, James Allen and King

Solomon are in complete agreement.

It's amazing to me how the ancient wisdom and current writers, contemporary writers are

saying the same thing, 25 centuries apart and they come to the same conclusion.

Even he picked at us, the stoic says it too, no man is free who is not a master of himself.

No person is free, none is free, they can't master themselves.

And look, you don't have to be perfect.

You just have to be in the game, winnings about staying in the fight no matter how bad it

looks.

Whether you're perfect, you're not perfect, whether you're tall or short, whatever it is,

the issue is, Kendrick put it this way and this is Pimper Butterfly.

From the closest thing to crazy you see, I'm the furthest thing from perfect that you

see, but guess what, I'm still here.

You know what, still here is a win, you're still here, you're winning, you're still in

it, you're winning, you're still competing with full intentionality, that's a win on

win it all Wednesday, absolutely.

So name, here's the win it all Wednesday task and we're out.

You got to name your internal opponent, forget the ones that are annoying you on the outside.

What is the internal opponent on the inside?

Because that's who you have to conquer the stoic, see?

That's who you have to conquer the ancient wisdom says, that's who you have to conquer

with Michael Jackson said it, Kendrick Lamar said it, nipsy hustle, I mean come on.

Now, Jay Z, everybody's saying it, we're saying it, what's the pattern, what's the doubt,

what's the distraction, what's the fear, what's your internal opponent and let's name it

so that it cannot run you and cannot start making you fade to the back.

That's not happening, that is not happening because this is win it all Wednesday and you're

going to renew your strength, that's what it's all about.

Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, thank you so much for listening to me today on win it all Wednesday

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