She Calls Out “B*tchy Women” After Losing Her JOB - EXPOSES Female Workplace Behavior

0:00Every single time that I've had to quit a job, it's because some f***ing can't stop terrorizing me. This is 110% true. Women are vicious. This man literally lives and breathes every day to make sure I have a smile on my face. I'm happy I'm taken care of. Who do you think's running that relationship? She is. This guy's going to get racked. I used to think I got ectusally. Turns out that Ike was just years of undying mental illness. There's an awakening happening in some of these women, and they realized they're the problem. I feel like a little woman don't actually want a masculine man. They want a masculine employee. Again, the awakening. Let me just correct one thing here. Hello everyone and welcome back to a brand new episode. You feeling hot? I'm feeling hot. For many reasons, it's 100 degrees in Texas, but also the clips are hot. So let's dive right in today with clip number one. Let's do it. I am not a girls girl because every single time that I've had to quit a job, it's because some

1:01f***ing can't stop terrorizing me. It's never because I'm bad at my job. It's always because of some bitch. The way women treat each other in the workplace needs to be studied. Why did I pick this? First of all, I lived it, right? This is 110% true. There is a talking point out there. That's bull oh my god, girls are so amazing to each other. If girls were just in charge, everything would go so much smoother. You need to work for a woman to be really respected and treated well. Women are so much better at the top. They should just be CEOs. They'd be more efficient. They'd be so much better to work for. They'd be more compassionate to their workforce. Bull sh**t. Okay, bull sh**. So let me just reiterate. First of all, kudos to this girl who's telling the truth, which is that women are extremely competitive and jealous, right? And some of the worst with

2:02each other, some of the worst, most I love that she uses the worst terrorized, some of the worst most most heinous, cruel, mean bosses I've ever had have been women. It's not even close. It's not even close. I worked at, as you all know, worked a long TV career and did a podcast over with PBD, the worst people that I have ever worked for. I'm going to say again, in terms of jealous, cruel, competitive, undermining, vicious. These are the words that I would use have all been women. At the view there were two there that were so, I mean, the wicked witch of the West truly would be like kind. Come here, truly undermining just horrible, horrible people. I mean, so unbelievably cruel and obnoxious and jealous. It was just unbelievable. Fox had a couple there too

3:04that worked it beyond. The cruelty, the lies, the deception, the, I mean, the backstabbing, not just female to female on this like colleagues, which also exists, but top down. And I'm not saying every male boss is a gem, but of the people when I look back, you know, I worked in an insurance company when I was younger had two bosses guys. Yeah, were they perfect? No, not even close to the women in terms of like just the women were vicious. I mean, truly, so good on women for busting this talking point like, oh, if women led the world every, oh my god. If you asked me if I had to ever work again for anyone, which I never would, and you asked me, would you choose a man or a woman? I would 100% have to choose the man because of what my experience has been like in television, in the insurance company in schools. Oh my gosh, I worked into like three schools,

4:08trying to remember two, yeah, three schools and the female bosses. Oh my god, cruel, mean, agitated. And I wonder if some of that, well, I know some of that is that those women are in positions of power that they're miserable, right? Because they're doing the boss babe climb, their hormones are jacked up, right? They're on some testosterone climb. Only they don't, their testosterone is actually oftentimes. If you, if you do research on this oftentimes, testosterone will collapse in these corporate women because they're just grinding it to a bone, you know, so these women do the career climb and they can't handle the stress because it goes against female nature to be at the top like that and the grind it goes against your hormonal cycle to be doing that all the time. They're miserable. They're absolutely freaking miserable. I actually have a doctor friend that scaled back her proct practice and looked back at her life and was like, this was not like good for me. My, you know, like the sleep deprivation second half

5:10of cycle, I wound up with unregulated cycles, hormonal and bat like so many things happened to her that she put in perspective. Now she has a small practice part time, all this. But these women do the boss babe climb and they're like, I can compete with a man. They sort of try to turn into men, but they're just rotting on the inside. And so what does that rot do? It comes out at you. Oh, it's terrible. So I think it's really important now. I'm not saying every woman. I also worked for one woman at the view. I'm not mentioning names here. One woman at the view was very nice, right? A coward would never stand up for me because you know, afraid of losing her own job, but regardless, nice. And there were a couple that I can trigger at fall like a couple of women at the box that were not like that were kind probably didn't belong in that business. Certainly weren't going to like slit everybody else's throat to get ahead, which is why they're probably still sitting in the positions they are and haven't climbed the ladder. But this idea that women aren't vicious to each other is so full of crap. Women are vicious to each other a lot of times vicious.

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9:20Ford Focus. I don't remember the last time I put gas in my truck. He meal perps all my chicken and my steak for me every week. I have BPD. He started reading a book on how to understand BPD more to help me understand my feelings and be able to help me regulate and understand around like November, December last year. He noticed I was smoking a lot less and it affects my mood a lot and he asked me why and I told him like it was so cold out at night like I didn't want to go sit outside and freeze. The next day I had a big industrial heater on my back patio to keep me warm so I could go smoke at night. I have really bad BPD and he started reading a book on borderline personality disorder and to help me when I'm having my moments because he wasn't understanding how my brain works versus like a normal brain in situation so he started reading a book on BPD to help understand and be able to help me in my little situations and breakdowns. This man literally lives and breathes every day to make sure I have a smile on my face. I'm happy I'm taken care of literally anything in the world he would do for me like I truly truly mean that.

10:24I'm a very tight V person my phone is always f***ed. He plugs my phone in to charge every night because he knows I already forgot to. Two weeks ago after I had surgery our door dash driver was lost it was 10 pm at night I'll add and I was fasted all the way up until that point. The driver got lost he went outside and went like scouring the neighborhood looking for this f***er because I was sitting in the kitchen b***ing bawling my eyes out I was so hungry and all I wanted in the world was my end-of-the-and-tood so he went running around the neighborhood looking for it. We never have to have the same conversation twice if that makes sense. He's a very responsive person and we don't get an argument we have conversations like adults it's healthy it's mature and we just talk about it and it's always if something's ever brought up he is so responsive and he's like you're right and he fixes it it's not I have to say the same thing over and over it's just it's such a healthy dynamic and I just it's something I've never ever had before.

11:24I said I wanted another dog he got me another dog I have a seven month old conicor so that's 85 freaking pounds and he's just the biggest level boy in the whole world he's my big my big dopey boy is what I call and then he got me a snake from Valentine's Day that I named jelly roll and I'm considering changing that because I don't know what's happening with all that but I might change it but that is literally just scratches scratches the fucking surface of this man. What do you do for him honey anything okay so there's a difference between treating your girlfriend wife respectfully you should do nice things for her just this not sound like it's is he your dad I'm just asking is he like is it a father figure like plug do your fingers not work to your legs not you can't put gas in your car you can't lay out your own like supplements you you can't charge your phone so guys just know there's a difference what do I think it's gonna

12:26this guy's gonna get wrecked can we all just agree this guy is gonna get destroyed because she knows she's the boss did y'all there's one little part of that video that's really important and where she says we I never have to say the same thing twice we have an argument or not an argument but we have a talk like adults and he'll just say you're right and then he fixes it who do you think's running that relationship she is who's running the show she is this guy like I'd love to ask him what does she have on you that you're like a servant he sounds like a slave a servant and there's a big difference between a man who does nice things for his wife his girlfriend and a guy who's like bouncing all over the place constantly because he's so terrified of losing her that like he'll do anything that she's walking around with this sense that she can have a fit in a kitchen sobbing and he's running around chasing a door dash guy with Indian food at 10 or 11 or 12 o'clock

13:28there's a difference between again a man you're like well he does really nice things for his girlfriend that sounds really good and then like a doormat who like seems like what the hell is he doing like why are you enabling her to act like a small child right she sounds like a little baby she can't do anything she has a tantrum she's like can't lay out she you can't meal prep your own fucking chicken like I'm sorry to say like honey it doesn't look it looks like like just dad-daughter behavior and what what happens in these situations a lot of times is that she she doesn't respect that guy because she knows he'll do anything she's always right he'll go like he's like on pins and needles waiting until like how to make her like she she basically is not even functioning like an adult anymore and he's so whipped literally whipped that a lot of times those women lose respect for an attraction for those guys and the guys like they're doing more and then they're doing more and then they're doing more and it never winds up being enough because the

14:29real recipe for that is for you to have some self-respect and stop baby in the hell out of her and stop always saying you're right you're right no matter what and stop given her the feeling that she can do no wrong ever because that's just not how human beings work she's gonna make mistakes that she too is gonna need to apologize for sorry guys are setting up a losing dynamic for themselves man alive I mean it it started out nice and then I was like what's going on like is she is like a daddy issue or something you know inside okay um text on the next one says I just realized the egg is not the egg let's play it how about when you go to therapy and you find out the egg was never the egg I used to think I got egged easily a guy texted like a normal person instead of double uyd egg he shows up on time and plans a real date egg tells me he really likes me instead of being nonchalant about it major egg I used to think that man something was wrong with them turns out

15:31the egg was just ears of undiagnosed mental illness my nervous system didn't know what to do with a normal man so it got egged anyway huge apology to several perfectly normal men out there that tried to date me okay this is really important again because there's an awakening happening in some of these women and what's happening is they're going through relationship after relationship they're landing alone the awakening is not gonna happen at 25 the awakening is gonna maybe happen at 35 maybe even 40 and they wake up in their alone and they go and try and figure out what the hell happened and some of them go to therapy I have my own reservations about what that looks like often some of them do their own self reflection they do their own nervous system work whatever it is trauma whatever whatever it is and they realize they're the problem right so all these things that she said gave her the egg were all just guys just behaving well and she didn't know how to treat good guys right she didn't know how to be a good girlfriend to a good man so the egg was not

16:31them the egg was her right and you have a lot of women that are coming to this realization and the problem is they come to it and they've like lost their peak years right they come to it you come to that realization at 40 and it's not the same as coming to that realization at 25 so this video should serve as a reminder to women be self aware right and guys you know you may you may hear from girls later on that apologize I mean she's doing an apology video maybe she picked up the phone and apologize you may hear from girls that treat you like s*** at 25 and then at 35 they're like what the hell did I do you ever see those stories of those women who are like how do I let this guy go it's like 10 years later and they're like oh my god it was so stupid right I was so stupid because they realized that there was no accountability phase now why do women have that no accountability phase because they get so much attention in their 20s they're at their peak they're in you know in the club this that and they they just don't need oftentimes to take the time to think about

17:33is the problem me so they get away with murder frankly they get away with so much crap treating guys badly this that and the other thing and then it's not until they get out of that peak phase and have that self reflection and then they're like oh my gosh that they realize I F'd up right I F'd up and they don't have the realization before because they're too busy getting attention and all this stuff and it doesn't it doesn't inspire a lot of women to self reflect so this is really really important okay last video of the day uh the tech says you want him to lead until he stops taking your order oh interesting let's play it I feel like a lot of women don't actually want a masculine man they want a masculine employee you want him to provide to protect you take initiative plan to date make the decisions handle the problems lead the family be confident be assertive be a fricking man and I get it but a lot of you only want that when his decisions perfectly align with

18:35yours because the second he says no to you he's controlling the second he disagrees with you he's insecure the second he tells you I don't think that's a good idea he's toxic oh and god forbid it he actually makes a decision without running it through the fricking board of directors first suddenly you're oppressed so what exactly did you mean when you said you wanted a man who leads because leadership that requires your permission isn't leadership you don't want him to lead you want him to take all of the responsibility while you retain all that authority you want him to be masculine enough to carry the weight but submissive enough to never challenge you and no this doesn't mean your husband gets to control you it doesn't mean he's always right and it definitely doesn't mean you don't get a voice your his wife not his fricking hostage but the only time your comfortable your husband leading is when he's doing exactly what you've told him to do and he has to do it exactly your way isn't it again the awakening right the awakening and this is on point let me just correct one thing here she's saying you know these guys these women say they want a masculine man until that

19:36masculine guy tells them no or makes a decision let me just tell you something when that masculine guy let's say she's got the masculine guy and then let's say that masculine guy one day capes right and suddenly it's like you know what whatever you need babe whatever you okay knows it's not the right decision whatever cave starts losing his authority in the home starts doing what she says she wants him to do right because women will say I you know you're this is toxic this is controlling let's say he let's say he listens becomes less that way you know let's say he says okay you want to go out girls night out wearing that okay go because she said you're being controlling or whatever or whatever the issue at hand right the second that she sees that that guy says all right babe you know what you win you want to go out just like she's like oh she's lost like that guy's less attractive because what women say they want a lot of times in a man is not what they actually want and I will

20:38say again she needs to respect you she needs to respect you if she doesn't respect you the whole thing crumbles the only way she's going to respect you is if you retain your authority that does not mean the abusive to her that does not mean treat her like garbage it means treat her well be respectful be honorable be honest be all of those things but be the man at a house retain your authority because if you don't retain your authority if you don't do that and you just shed it when she says oh my god you're being too contolated you're making these decisions blah blah and you're just like babe do whatever you want just you want to go out with your friends half naked it's fine by me the second you do that she realizes oh he's actually not retaining his authority he's you're no longer the masculine man the power dynamic flips her attraction as her as your power dynamic if you're here as your power dynamic goes down her attraction for you goes down because ultimately what she really does want and does need in order to respect you is for you to be that how to pass hold right just

21:43know that I know I can get a little confusing because the next messages right because women get confused right they're like no no I want to run the show I want to run the show and then when they realize they are running the show and you're no longer running the show they're like well I can't lean on you I can't count on you I'm not attracted to you because you can't even get your sh** enough to run the show and then the guys are like well you told me you wanted to run the show well I mean not like that so this video is great right because it also attests to the mixed signals that guys get guys man of the house authority you know respect her love her treat her well honor you know honor her she should also be treating you well respecting you honoring you but there can only be one head of household remember that and if it's not you and it's her it's not gonna work I promise you you will either get left cheated on for some guy that knows his role and knows that if he's gonna provide and protect he also needs to run that house right just saying talk to you soon see you again soon