
Wife PUBLICLY SHAMES Husband Over a Note to Their Son - Internet RIPS Her Apart
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My sex role was like, can you make me a no for tomorrow? Because I really love that and it makes me so happy. So, my actual man has a bad eye. He's like, well, I'm gonna write him a no. In fact, I hope you're having an awesome day at school. Love death. That really is so awesome to a big ol' fight. You actually started an argument because you didn't like the little adorable note. Honey, grow up! I refused to sleep with a man after three dates and this is the text he sent me. I'm not asking for anything you wouldn't want to do with someone you actually fancied. I'm not waiting for date number seven or any other stupid number that you've made up in your head. This is the reason why that guy got pissed. My friend has this rule that she has to be seen and guy for 12 weeks before they can have a f***. Women are doing this and here's a woman saying women are doing this. My consensus is women are doomed. How are they doomed? Hello everyone and welcome back brand new episode. Today I'm so glad you're here before we start and we have one, two, three, four, five incredible clips today. The first one went viral and it's batchet.
We're going to get to that but before we do that can you do me a solid and hit that subscribe button. Some of y'all are here and you're watching but you forget to hit subscribe. Others do hit it. It would just mean a lot to me. If you could do that it really really helps us to grow so I thank you so much in advance for doing that. We have some cool stuff coming your way including some live shows so get psych for that. I'm going to be in the chat. Oh man, man alive. Everyone ready? Not ready. Okay, we're going to start off with number one and I'm going to give you the text first on this one. Your engineer husband writes your son a note for school. Okay, this is amazing. Okay, here we go. My husband and I got into a huge fight last night over the silliest thing ever. I made a TikTok post asking if school lunch notes were silly, if kids ate it up, if they loved them, whatever randomly. My sister was like he's going about it. He said mom, can you keep writing me notes? Can you make me a note for tomorrow because I really love that and it makes me so happy. I was like you didn't even see my video or know that I even made it but yeah, of course,
I'm going to. So anyway, I told my husband about it. He's like well I'm going to write him a note. Okay, okay. So you wrote him a note earlier this week and then you wrote him a note yesterday. Well, when I was writing my note I looked over and I saw his note said and I was like okay, we're still kind of like a little bit fighting about it and background info. My husband's an engineer. Okay, so like his brain is just very engineer-y. Okay. So anyway, here's mine. I hope you're sailing through the day with like a little cute love it. Okay, whatever. My husband's. Beck, I hope you're having an awesome day at school. Love dad. Then he says it's a cube. He drew a cube. I said why did you draw a cube and then why did you write it's a cube? He said because that's cool. He's going to think it's so cool that there's a cube on his paper. And I was like sure but like the it's a cube thing. You know he takes us to a teacher because he can't read to read to read what it says. And so you know the teacher's going to say back I hope you have an awesome day at school.
Love dad. It's a cube. It's a cube. What? I was like can you like make it like into like a cool character or like right like this is how you make a cube or you know I don't know just like it's a cube and that that really sent us into a big ol fight. That is how we ended our night last night fighting about a thanks school note. I know I probably heard his feelings by saying that and like making his note feel like it wasn't good and it is a good no it's a great note. Just it's a cube as the book. I don't know either way we worked it out but that still was giggling and I have yet to ask my son how he liked his cube that is that made him. I'm gonna ask him later. So anyway this is your sign to write your kids school notes for their lunch boxes. Can they let them? Apparently. Can you imagine this?
Can we all okay you know how sometimes we do here on the show a moment of silence? Let's all take a moment of silence and a small prayer perhaps for this poor bastard that is married to her. Oh the mother. Oh can you imagine his life? Can you imagine his life? She must nitpick everything this guy does. Top to bottom drive him completely crazy. Oh my god. And like why did you get yourself into this? Man why did you marry someone like this? So she she actually honey grow up grow up. You actually started an argument because you didn't like the little adorable note that he wrote to your son to take to school in his school lunch. I think the cube is cute. I think it's adorable. He's an engineer. Kind of looks like your sailboat if you know how you're sailing through the day. How would you feel honey if he turned around and was like that's so corny. Oh my god.
Right? She'd be like my feelings are hurt. Like it would be a dramatic crying bull. I mean really because you know these women condition out but they can't take it right? Guys this is why I always tell you this guy's life is hell we all know. This is why I always tell you observe the warning signs right? Observe the warning signs because I guarantee you that there were a lot of them that came into play here a lot of warning signs that would tell you not to put a ring on it right? Or your life is just going to be hell over and over and over again you're never going to do anything right? I mean can you imagine how many things this guy does wrong in her view right? Wrong. If this note with the cube drove her this crazy to start a whole big fight. I mean can I can't even imagine being married to a psychopath. Holy hell. Guys look for the warning signs don't put a ring on it. Don't put a ring on a warning sign. Right? If she's a giant red flag next. Okay. So then she makes a video because she got pushed back people were like who?
Like he wrote a note to your kid and you're making a video so she makes a video and the POV says you didn't marry a loser. So let's see do we do we like her video response? Let's see it. Hey guys it's me the cube hater here to give you a little update. First of all I think everybody has lost their dying minds to be so invested and to protect my husband who does not need protected. I can assure you I think the issue is that this like the bar for men is just so far on the floor that like everyone is just so in awe and oh my gosh a dad wrote a no he's the best dad ever. When mind you okay he is the most involved dad we do everything like we are in it together. We're need deep in the sh** together okay. He does doctors appointments and cooks meals he does dishes he does laundry with me we both work he's in it okay. So my expectations of him are pretty high as they should be just like they are of me like he
holds me to a high expectation just like I do him okay and him writing that note the cube was cool cute I love the cube I used to draw cubes too so cool that's not the issue the issue was it's a cube I don't get it I don't like it I don't know so I said something about it it's really not that deep my husband's one who told me to publish that video by the way he is loving it okay we're pretty strong I don't think we're getting a divorce because I made a comment about his school sticky note okay nice try though um but anyway when he wrote it's a cube all it reminded me of was it's an avocado thanks okay it's a cube write something else also he's very artistic he can draw really cool stuff so like I felt like he just wasn't putting his full effort into that no but anyway this is just me saying that I really feel like you guys should marry better guys I can't stand listening to her for another second first
of all a little bit of crazy eyes going on just saying the crazy eyes there's a little little little bit of this going on right not sure what's going on there um she starts off by ripping out the bar for men is so low and then she realizes she got her and herself into a hole there and she's like oh but not like my husband he like he's on board like he does laundry and he does this and he's like and how do you what are you even talking about this this stupid rant you're going around and around in circles it makes no sense you're just trying to justify that you made a video where you looked like sh** writing is to settle this crap about your husband you made yourself look terrible I don't mean physically by the way I mean she just looks like a horrible wife to be making that video now you're trying to dig yourself out of a hole because everyone commented like oh you're kind of an engraid oh what a weird thing to say oh the cube is cute and you felt stupid right see trying to just come up with all I know the bars low for men but my husband does a lot but don't you love the line where she's like my husband told me to post that video yeah you know he did because that guy was sitting there like oh I know she's
gonna post this and everyone's gonna rip on her because she's totally a rational enceico about this so posted honey yeah let's see what everyone says haha he's sitting there like yeah I knew my cube was cute check one for him in his box right zero for her but man alive can you imagine this is what I'm saying about these women with no self awareness she made the first video she got all the comments she comes out she made another video trying to justify the cheetahs didn't like the hero this is a cute she's still talking about the freaking cube oh my god it would be so hard for me to not just be like honey shut up sh- zip it stop talking for the love of god I can't stand another second of you oh did I say that out loud oh I think I did all right I want to tell you who today's show is brought to you by because it's really important don't don't pass forward through this do y'all have passwords do y'all have passwords that you use for your email for bank accounts for your youtube for your anything your credit cards your financial institutions whatever you got going on do you have passwords we all do right do you ever wonder like hmm are my passwords safe
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guide justified with this text yes or no let's listen I refused to sleep with a man after three dates and this is the text he sent me and if any man in the comment section think that this is okay then you shouldn't be allowed near women listen to me I don't care that we've only been on three dates or that you've got this ridiculous little I don't sleep with someone until I know where it's going rule I like you you like me we're both adults I'm not going to keep taking you out and spending money on you while you make me jump through hoops for something that should happen naturally and before you start calling me pushy I'm not asking for anything you wouldn't want to do with someone you actually fancied you'll either attract it to me or you're wasting my time I'm not waiting for date number seven or any other stupid number that you've made up in your head so decide what you want because I won't be asking twice the audacity of these men and the thing is I don't even care that I'm sharing it all over TikTok because women need to know exactly what this man is like okay here's the problem with this I don't have a problem if women just don't sleep around before
they really know someone or they're like great right um I don't have a problem if women decide they're not going to have some marriage fine put it out there front and center be honest about it here's the problem there are too many women who will put up a rule they'll meet a guy good guy right they're like oh yeah this is you know good guy and they'll put up this rule right why is she putting up this rule do you think she likes him do you think she likes this guy right no she doesn't like him okay she doesn't like him first of all women don't talk like that to men when they really like they're not like well I really need to like just see if I know where this is going you know I'm not really sure that's not what they say good women who don't sleep around first of all they have a vibe about them secondly they will say something like at some point if it naturally feels like it's leading there you know there's like making out and there's like some they might say like hey I'm like really um cautious about like you know this is really important to me
something I take really seriously so I just want you to know this is not like about you this was like every guy I am really into you like obviously you can see that but I just like want to make sure that like you know we're doing this for real they might have a conversation but it won't be like a number like I need to go on seven dates first or well this guy here's what really happened here this guy got a vibe that she wasn't really into him right oh I don't know where I have to make sure the relationships going somewhere and he probably got a vibe from her just taking a guess that she didn't have that same philosophy with other men that maybe she was the kind of woman who wouldn't be making a guy wait if she really liked him so here's the thing my advice to women first of all if you don't like someone don't waste their time don't make up some nonsense about like well I'm just trying to see if it's really gonna go somewhere before I right while the guy's paying for date after date after date after date after date right if you don't like him you know it already
if you don't feel attracted like you want like to just like kind of just have him like kiss you or if you don't feel that after three dates you know it already you know it ladies so why are you stringing the guy right it's not you're not gonna on date five suddenly you want him to kiss you if you don't want him to kiss you on the first three dates right if you're a woman who with everyone is really select you just take sex really seriously and that's just who you are then put it out there but don't it will come out guys the way you'll be able to take it tell the difference is that she will be holding your hand she will be super flirty with you she will kiss you she will you will be able to read that she's a really good girl the way she carries her body the way she dresses the way she interacts with you the way she interacts with other guys in the room you will be able to spot a good girl who's really just good at her core and maybe doesn't want us sleep with a guy and then have him disappear and have her heart broken right those are the girls that you want to take home to mom those are the keepers as we call them that is not the same girl
as one who's like yeah just stringing you along sleeps with another guy on date one because oh he's so hot and I'm so attracted to him but you're like waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting because she's really not that into you so you've got to learn as a man how to tell the difference but I think happening the situation is that guy read her and realized she's not into me right she's not and she probably there was other things she probably wasn't doing right physically affection wise whatever because when a woman really likes you she's like all like you know like they'll find reasons like I was a good girl in many respects and I remember when I met my husband we were going on these walks that I would find like reasons to touch him like I remember like bumping into him as we walked or I'd be like oh my god that's so silly and I would like tap it like they we can't help it we're just like you know like you know like oh my god it's a snack you know and you kind of want to be the snack his snack but that's how it is you know and if you are a good
girl who doesn't you know you take seriously and you really like the reason that good girls take seriously is because they don't want to get their heart broken and they if they realize they already like a guy they don't want to be like okay I'm gonna sleep with them he's gonna walk away and I'm gonna be like wrecked right that doesn't feel like what was going on here so ladies be honest guys learn how to read your lady and honestly if he straight up wrote that I don't really have a problem with him saying it and then she could have just come back and been like clarify you know what I'm saying at least he's like honestly just telling her like hey this is what I'm seeing going on and it's not cool with me right and maybe he's and maybe he's a jerk right maybe she was given all the right things and he was a jerk we don't know for sure but just a vibe I'm getting just doesn't feel that way just saying okay next clip it says the text says my consensus is women are doomed my consensus is women are doomed are they doomed and at the ripe age of 28 I've honestly accepted that there's a high chance that I'm never married
I never got to have kids with a husband I will never go on vacation with a man again because y'all are just having so much fun swiping on hinge and bumble and whatever the f**k else is out there like do men wake up after the age of even like 33 and say we don't I really want to like commit and build a life with a woman one day or is it all just like way too much fun for you to just be single and lustful and gross okay first of all this is a sit look where it says do you see the tag manhattan okay I could show these I'm ten manhattan okay these New York City girls guys every what it's like a delayed she's not the norm okay she's 28 and looking to settle down not the norm 28 like girls are just starting to be like I've been like I'm so young I'm they need to like sell my oats you know so I always tell people get out of this if you're looking to settle down young if you've realized like okay it's time to grow up I'm 28 like I want to like have kids I
want to what do you do get out of the cities because that's not what it's about it's not it's not the culture there so even the guys everything is delayed like really really late instead of looking this is like you know like you know how women sometimes will like meet a guy and they will try to they'll meet a guy that's kind of like not good for them and instead of just saying this guy's not good for me like I'm moving on they'll try to change that guy they want to make that guy into something else right I need him oh I'm really attracted to him but like I just need him to behave differently so I'm gonna try to just twist and contort him like gumby into what I need and guess what it fails right you can't do that to a man right because he is who he is right you got to you got to let it go and go find a different in the same way a lot of these young singles in these cities will try to like twist and contort city life like oh I want to be in the city and I want it yeah but I also want to you know get married young and I want the whole culture to be about family and and
community and it's that's not what it is I mean I New York City is like you know you're 40 and you're like just now starting to think about marriage like oh maybe you know that's just what it is right so stop trying to twist and contort it get out of these cities Manhattan is probably like one of the worst ones you know for that if you really look family and get out get out man alive that's a separate note all right the last one of the day has no note which means it's probably the most horrific one let's check it out my friend has this rule that she has to be seen a guy for 12 weeks before they can have sex but if she decides she actually doesn't like the guy he's not very good then they can have sex immediately so I'm just telling you guys this because if you're not getting laid right now have hope you might be on some girls 257 week program but if you are getting laid right now then someone out there hates you okay now why did I pull this because it goes with the other girl remember the other girl we just did who was talking about oh you
know I told him the guy got mad because she's saying three dates in I don't really know like I don't sleep with anyone until I know where it's going that this this is the reason why that guy got pissed because women are doing this and here's a woman saying women are doing this Brian wrote Brian Atlas wrote above this can anyone explain it to tweet can anyone explain this female phenomenon this seems insanely backward she makes good men weigh three months but bad guys get to smash right away yeah that's what's happening so guys know it so now guys are saying well she's making me wait because she doesn't like me because she's smashing a bunch of guys on date one right so there's there's many prongs to this number one wire women smashing right away when they know they don't like a guy because they're they're dead inside in many respects they've lost their connection to s**t and love and the like all of it right and they're they're acting like what I say is like badly behavior man right you know those like old school like frapp boys just asleep with everyone right and
they want so badly to be able to do that and not be broken so they could be like I'm just like those guys you're not gonna hurt me right doesn't always work that way I wanted to get hurt anyway but regardless they'll be like if I don't like him that much I'll just like you Sam I'll just like you Sam because they're broken they're broken women because women should not be able to do that women should not be able let me just say it bluntly to have s**t without any emotion being involved that is not natural for a woman it's just not so what they're doing then is there why are they making the good men wait they're making the good men wait because they want to be taken seriously by the good men and they know damn well that if they screw a good guy right away that guy's gonna judge them because guys don't want to wife up a woman who's been a h**k on day one with them because they know damn well that that woman's been a h**k with everyone else too so they know they strategize and they say well I'm gonna make this good guy wait because I want him to take me seriously and I know if I like act like a h**k he's not gonna take me seriously I want him to take me seriously
so I'm gonna make him wait and oftentimes you know what happens that good guy knows some other guy that you f**k on day one why it's always like I know you're not a good girl you're making me wait you're not that into me and you banged all these guys on day one so now it's just a bunch of games by right there are some good girls again that will make everyone wait because they they treat it really seriously but that's the not she's telling you straight up that's not what she's talking about guys getting the chat for me and let me know have you had a woman tell you curious have you had a woman tell you that she wants to wait and she's making you wait and making you wait and then you find out that she's the type of girl that'll like sleep with somebody on day one of she's really hot for them I'm curious if you've had this experience it's all too common and it doesn't work ladies it's not working right because you're making that guy wait but you're not really pure you're not really like virtuous on the inside you've been sleeping with everybody left and right it doesn't work the strategy doesn't work either be virtuous across the board or just to admit
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