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The 5 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist (I Missed Every One)
About this episode
Narcissistic relationships, narcissistic behavior, emotional manipulation and relationship red flags can be incredibly difficult to recognize, especially when you're the one living them. In this solo episode, Tamsen Fadal shares the relationship lessons she learned the hard way after years of interviewing leading psychologists and reflecting on her own experiences.
She breaks down the subtle signs of narcissistic behavior, why so many smart, successful women get caught in these patterns, how gaslighting and blame-shifting slowly erode your confidence, and the practical tools she now uses to recognize emotionally healthy relationships.
In this episode, you'll learn:
- The relationship red flags Tamsen wishes she'd recognized sooner
- Why narcissistic behavior is often so difficult to spot
- How emotional manipulation makes you question yourself
- The difference between genuine apologies and blame-shifting
- Practical ways to rebuild self-trust and set healthier boundaries
If you've ever wondered, How did I not see it? This episode will help you understand why and how to trust yourself again.
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