Way 18: Limited Pleasure, Maximum Fulfillment

In episode eighteen of the 48 Ways series during the Omer, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe teaches B’Miut Ta’anug — “with limited pleasure.” Like the previous two ways (limited business and limited intimacy), this does not mean total avoidance or asceticism. It means achieving balance so that physical pleasures enhance life rather than dominate or diminish it.

Rabbi Wolbe emphasizes that God wants us to enjoy life and created pleasures for our benefit — but only when pursued with proper limits and intention. The Torah’s mitzvot are not restrictions to make us suffer; they are the precise guidelines that allow us to maximize genuine, lasting pleasure. Deviating from them leads to imbalance and diminished fulfillment. All pleasures — food, exercise, material goods, intimacy — require balance. Seeking pleasure for its own sake is spiritually detrimental.

He uses the powerful metaphor that the body is for the soul like a car is for the driver. The body is simply the vehicle that transports the soul; we must maintain it well so the soul can accomplish its mission, but we should never become enslaved to the vehicle. The soul is like a vacuum cleaner that constantly craves spiritual connection to God. When that connection is missing, people chase artificial, momentary pleasures (recreational drugs, excessive materialism, instant gratification) that never truly satisfy and only create greater craving.

Practical examples include barbecue potato chips (one bag leads to feeling sick) and the danger of becoming dependent on luxury (his own story of buying a Lexus and the family reaction; his neighbor obsessing over a new truck). True pleasure has substance behind it — use nice things to do mitzvot, help others, and elevate the experience. Shabbos is the ultimate model of ta’anug (pleasure): it combines physical delicacies with spiritual elevation.

Rabbi Wolbe warns against wasting pleasures or opportunities and stresses that Mashiach will come “riding on a donkey” (chomer = materialism) to teach us how to master materialism rather than be controlled by it. The bottom line: do not retreat from life or reject pleasures — elevate them. Make every experience holier so it serves the soul instead of the other way around.
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Recorded in TORCH Centre - Studio B on May 17,  2022, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on June 9, 2022

The 49 days we count between Pesach (Passover) and Shavuot are an exciting time for powerful and impactful change. The Mishna (Avot 6:6) teaches us 48 masterful tools and ways to maximize life and get the most out of each day.
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