To Be Successful You Gotta Help People | EP 014

In this episode, Phil discusses the true essence of success, focusing on selflessness and helping others. He shares personal experiences to show that success isn't about personal achievements or wealth, but about genuinely helping others without expecting anything in return. Phil emphasizes the importance of kindness and humility in all aspects of life, from business to personal relationships. His key message is that real success and fulfillment come from positively impacting others' lives, choosing a selfless approach over an ego-driven approach. Giving and treating people well is the fundamental secret sauce to true success.

Welcome to The Phil Bohol Show, hosted by USMC veteran, mindset coach, sales expert, self-made entrepreneur, husband, and father, Phil Bohol. On this podcast, we don't just offer strategies — we offer a war cry, a call to arms, a challenge to rise, to break free from the shackles of mediocrity. You’ll learn the raw truth on how to break your limitations, scale your business to 7-figures, and level up every area of your life. Together, we won't just face challenges. We will crush them. Relentlessly.


Timestamps:

(01:08) - How To Win In Business

(06:08) - The Secret Sauce of Success

(14:59) - Breaking the Ego Barrier

(19:00) - Defying Odds

(20:14) - Quantum Leaps Through Generosity

(24:22) - The Ripple Effect of Kindness


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Transcription:

[00:00:00] This is the secret sauce to success. 

People don't want to understand this though. 

People are like, no, no, no, no. I have to first be this rock star. 

I first have to like be a millionaire. 

I first have to have my first million dollar business. 

I have to be this like high level person for people to give me the respect.

No motherf*cker. 

That's called ego. 

That's called pride. 

That's called all of that bullsh*t that will never serve you. 

If I thought like that, I would have never entered the rooms that I enter now.

[00:00:30] What's going on you guys, it's Phil Bohol, and welcome to the Phil Bohol Show, where we have real talk about family, fitness, finance, and everything that would hold you back from leveling up in every area of your life. 

And more importantly, how I personally got through them. 

Everybody else in this world wants to bullsh*t you.

I'm here to give you the truth.

[00:01:00] If you want to be successful, I think a lot of people misunderstand what it actually means to win at this game of life. 

Most people are in it for themselves. 

Most people think that In order to win, you just gotta look out for number one. 

You just gotta look out for this guy. 

But the truth is, that is not the case.

If you believe that this life is a selfish life, and you serve nobody but yourself, then you will always lose. 

[00:01:30] The most selfish people in the world are the losers in life. 

The most selfish people in the world are the ones that never get ahead in life because what they do is they prioritize themselves versus helping the person to the left and to the right of them to win.

You have to understand, the more people that you help in this world, the more that you win. 

And it's the act of giving. 

So when we think about building massive successful businesses, it's about helping clients. 

It's about helping people. 

Because if you help them win, then your business looks really good.

[00:02:00] And that is how your business wins. 

But there's some people out there, especially in the online coaching industry, that are just in it for themselves, in it for their money. 

And if that's the case, then what happens is you create this terrible reputation for yourself that that's all you are. 

You don't really give support to your people.

And your business will tank at some point, if not already. 

[00:02:30] But the people that give and give and give to their community and to their tribe, the same way that I do, constantly get referrals, constantly have clients wanting to renew, re-enroll to be plugged into a tribe with a leader that genuinely gives a f*ck about them.

And you might not have a coaching business, you might have a brick and mortar business, but isn't it exactly the same? 

Let's say you have an appliance shop and you're, you're a mom and pop shop, right? 

You're not a big box, but you're a mom and pop. 

[00:03:00] If you were to care about your clients, make sure their deliveries were good, make sure their installations were timely, make sure their customer service and their sales experience was all 10 out of 10 good to go, wouldn't you have clients each year?

Even if they don't need to buy appliances all the time, wouldn't they come back for more? 

Wouldn't they refer their best friend who's fridge just broke during the holidays to go talk to you. 

That's a 3,000 deal right there. 

What if, what if mom and dad's dishwasher breaks, but they had the best experience with you, don't you think you would get that referral?

What happens though if you do things different? 

What happens if you don't care about people and you're just in it for the deal? 

[00:03:30] You sell somebody some sh*t that they don't need. 

Gave them a sh*tty experience, because you had a bad day and you spilled coffee on yourself, and somebody cut you off on the freeway.

You're treated like some somebody like sh*t. 

Do you think that they're gonna say, “Hey, mom and dad, hey, best friend, go to this f*cker that just treated me like sh*t.”? 

Absolutely not. 

You think about any business that you have, any f*cking business model, the only way that business is going to win is if you help people.

Let's take this away from business. 

Let's say you're not a business owner. 

[00:04:00] Let's say that you just wanna get ahead in life. 

You're not going to get ahead in life, just like bullies will never get ahead in life by bullying people. 

Bullies are the biggest sh*tbags in the world. 

And for a moment in time, that third grade level, they might win because they're the biggest and baddest.

But what happens over time is, the reputation follows them, their confidence gets shot, they don't have a lot of opportunities because they burned all the bridges of the people that could have probably got them set up. 

And they lose in life the same way that happens in adulthood. 

[00:04:30] If you're just in it for yourself and you want to get ahead of the game, but all you do is look out for number one and that's you, nobody's going to want to help you because you didn't help anybody along the way.

It's the people that understand that they want to get to the top of the mountain. 

They know that they want to win at this game of life, but they also want to give value to everybody that they meet, everybody that they come across. 

It doesn't matter at what level they're at, they want to help that they see a grandma crossing the street.

Don't want to help the grandma across the street. 

[00:05:00] Who knows though, you help grandma across the street. 

You might find that grandma is a multimillionaire that was just looking for somebody nice to give an opportunity to, and that was you simply by not asking her for an opportunity. 

But being a kind, genuine f*cking human wanting to help her across the street.

You never know who people know, and you never know who people are, and you never know who people will become in the future. 

So if you want to get ahead in life, the whole point is not focusing on getting ahead. 

[00:05:30] The whole point is understanding that the marketplace, which is life, will award you. 

For how much you put into the marketplace, how much energy you put into it, how much you're an asset to everybody that you come across.

Everybody that I meet, I try to give value to in any shape, way, or form. 

And I don't try to throw up what I perceive as value to them. 

I genuinely figure out what is valuable to them. 

And I try to be that or deliver that or introduce somebody that can deliver that. 

[00:06:00] When I first started in the online space, I didn't have any type of online presence, I didn't have, I f*cking didn't even have pictures. 

I didn't even like social media. 

I thought it was stupid and I thought it was for stupid people. 

But the world is going to social media so you have to connect to people and I had to shift my perspective because me thinking that way was selfish.

Because I didn't want to give to people. 

I wanted to protect my privacy and blah blah blah. 

[00:06:30] And the reason why I went from having zero network, zero anybody that knew my name, to only being surrounded by multi millionaires, ranging anywhere between a million to a hundred million. 

How did I go from this guy, from a third world country, barely graduated high school, did drugs, f*cking drank a lot, almost threw his f*cking life down the sh*thole, joined the military, still no f*ckin millionaires over there.

And then somehow now, all I am surrounded by are high level people. 

That give me their cell phone number and say, “Bro, at any time, you need anything, you just give me a call.” 

How the f*ck did I do that? 

[00:07:00] Well, I can guarantee you, I didn't get there by saying, “Hey bro, what can you do for me? Hey, you're a high level player, what can you do for me? Give me something.” 

No. 

At every level that I've met somebody that I've added to my network, my intention was not, let me do something nice for this person so they can reciprocate and give me something. 

The intention would be so f*cking off, you can smell that sh*t from a mile away, and just so you motherf*ckers know, at a high level, we can sense that sh*t.

[00:07:30] If your intentions aren't pure, easily able to sense that sh*t. 

Don't ever feel like you're gonna get away with it. 

Don't try to charm your way through sh*t, because again, all of the red flags that we are aware of, you are not aware that we are aware. 

The game is played at a different level. 

So just understand that if your intentions are not pure.

We can smell that sh*t from a mile away. 

You just got to understand that. 

And so for me, I've never really tried to take or receive from people. 

I've always tried to give the best that I can. 

[00:08:00] And sometimes that just means me being a good listener, me being a good student, me being a good human. 

And just by being a good f*cking human to people and treating people, not like millionaires on the come up, but as human beings who have achieved a level of success and giving them that respect, and even once I started doing my first million online, or my second million online, still treating people like f*cking humans, whether they're above me or below me.

I treat everybody as equals. 

We're all people. 

[00:08:30] We all have blood in our body. 

And we all have bullsh*t we have to deal with. 

And we're all trying our best. 

That is how I view the world. 

And by doing that and treating people this way, not asking, but giving as much as possible, what happens is, it's the law of reciprocity.

You give something to the world, the world will give something back, usually tenfold. 

But you don't say, in my timeline, you don't say, “I'm gonna give this to this person, so they give me something in return in the next five f*cking days.” 

No, no, no, no. 

[00:09:00] You give without ever having an intention to receive anything back because it might not be that person that gives something back in return.

You might throw some equity into the universe, and you might not get it for another month, another year, another f*cking decade. 

You never f*cking know when you're getting it back. 

But you will, because that's how the world works. 

That's how the universe works. 

And it might not be from the same entity you poured into.

You might give peace, joy, space to somebody. 

[00:09:30] And that act of kindness doesn't come back from them, sometimes that act of kindness comes from somebody else. 

That thing that the universe will throw back your way tenfold, sometimes may be an opportunity, a year from now, a month from now, a week from now, a day from now, who f*cking knows?

But that opportunity would have never presented itself if you weren't a good human to this other person over here. 

I think they call that sh*t the butterfly effect. 

You do something over here, it affects the rest of the timeline. 

I don't f*cking know. 

[00:10:00] But I want you to understand that in order to be successful in life, if you can just grasp this one f*cking thing, you will be successful, wildly successful, more than you can even imagine right now.

If every person that you meet Instead of getting in your way about how you negatively feel about the world, instead of questioning or doubting, “What is this person's intention? Do they want something from me?”

[00:10:30] Instead of giving off that f*cking energy, if you were just to shake people's hand and really genuinely want to get to know them, and know that they're an awesome human, and that they've probably been through a lot of sh*t in their life, and that you've been through a lot of sh*t in your life, and that's what makes things, like, that's the commonality between you two, and then you go about your f*cking day.

And then you just say what's up, nicely, for the rest of time. 

You do that with a thousand people, your entire life changes. 

Because what happens is, they're gonna throw that energy back to you. 

You give energy to them, they give it back to you. 

And what happens is it starts creating like this storm of energy.

And then other people are gonna feel that, they're gonna sense that, they're gonna be like, “Oh, what the f*ck is this guy about?” 

You know, this person's giving them good energy, this person's giving them good energy. 

[00:11:00] I'm gonna go check them out, and maybe that person was looking exactly for you. 

What you had to offer, your skill set.

Your poise, your confidence, your ability, your f*cking availability, I don't f*cking know. 

They're looking for something that you have to offer, but they would have never made that offer unless they felt your energy in these other areas of life. 

So again, it's not the thing that you put energy into that gives you the energy back.

Sometimes it'll come back tenfold from another source. 

You have to remember that. 

[00:11:30] And if you really, really want to crush it at this game, you have to have the long game in mind. 

You can't have this immediate instant gratification bullsh*t where it's like, “I give now, I want now.” 

Give so much, become the most valuable person in everybody's f*cking life.

And just trust, have faith that that is going to turn you into the most successful person because the most successful people in the world are the most valuable, the most valuable people in the world give the most. 

[00:12:00] And because they give the most, they're recognized the most. 

The person that gives the least, nobody wants to f*ck with that person.

Everybody's like, “Ah, I don't f*cking know. Don't have my number. Not adding you as a friend. Blocked. Please don't show up to any of my gatherings or f*cking parties, you piece of sh*t. And anybody who invites them, you're exed too, motherf*cker.” 

Don't be that guy. 

That guy f*cking sucks. 

Nobody likes that guy.

[00:12:30] Everybody likes the guy that's like, “Oh yeah, I'd f*cking love to have you over. I would love, I mean, you don't really say much, but you're nice, and you're good people.” 

And then eventually your confidence grows being in those rooms that you don't feel like you rate being a part of. 

It's when you finally have a seat at the table and you're like, “Oh sh*t, I'm with the big dogs now, like Jesus Christ, I don't even know if I should be here.”

I can't tell you how many rooms I've been in with the f*cking billionaires, with people doing high eight figures, f*cking people just everywhere in between. 

And I'm just like, “Jesus Christ bro, I'm just like this dude that came from the gutter and like, I'm f*cking here.” Or something, I don't f*cking know.

[00:13:00] And I'm just smiling with my face looking like this. 

And I was like, “Hey, what's up? I'm Phil I'm Phil I'm Phil. Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you. Awesome. Tats. Awesome. Awesome. Awesome. I hear a lot of great things about you. Awesome. I heard you speak. I heard this. I heard that.” 

And I'm not saying like, ‘Hey, let me tell you about me. Let me tell you everything about everything that I've ever done in my f*cking life to make me look and feel like the part.’ 

I'm like, ‘If nobody knew about me, I don't give a two sh*ts.’

[00:13:30] But what happens in those moments when I'm networking with people, and this is what's given me so many opportunities in life, is I'm so curious about other people that at some point they're just like, “Oh Jesus Christ, Phil, bro, like, you've been asking me about my life this entire f*cking time. What about you, bro? What do you do?” 

And sometimes, all it takes is for you to care about other people. 

A lot of the times care about other people more than you care about yourself and what you can get out of people. 

Think about how that applies to business. 

In business, if all you want to do is help people genuinely and they can feel that, won't they do business with you?

If you're in sales, and all you want to do is genuinely help solve people's problems, won't they do the deal with you? 

[00:14:00] If, if you want to crush it in romance, let's say that you're not married yet, or you're trying to find your girlfriend, or, you know, you're courting your future wife, I don't f*cking know, you're super nice to them, and you want to be the best version of you for them.

Won't they do that deal with you?

Won't they say yes? 

When, when you pop the question, won't they say yes, the date? 

Won't they want to take you more serious because you're actually being the guy that they need in their life? 

Think about any area of your life. 

[00:14:30] If you were just the most helpful f*cking person in every area of your life, wouldn't everybody give you everything that you could have ever possibly asked for?

And even if they didn't, wouldn't you do that so much in so many different areas that it wouldn't really matter? 

Because if you don't get it from this area, you get it from another area. 

You see what I'm saying? 

That this is the secret sauce to success. 

People don't want to understand this though. 

[00:15:00] People are like, “No, no, no, no, no. I have to first be this rock star. I first have to, like, be a millionaire. I first have to have my first million dollar business. I have to be this high level person for people to give me the respect.” 

No, motherf*cker. 

That's called ego. 

That's called pride. 

That's called all of that bullsh*t that will never serve you.

If I thought like that, I would have never entered the rooms that I enter now. 

Literally. 

The only people that I respond to on text are doing anywhere between 8 figures and 9 figures. 

That's it. 

Everybody else, you can wait because I got sh*t to do. 

[00:15:30] How did I go from like, doing shady sh*t in the town in the middle of the f*cking night, doing f*cking drug deals over here to try to put food on the table, to like, doing things legit, and being a good person, and an ethical f*cking human being.

How did that happen? 

It's because I was over here all about me, all about my money, all about survival. 

Doing whatever it took, no matter what. 

And I had to do whatever I had to do. 

It is what it is, I don't f*cking know. 

But over here, you don't grow that way. 

You burn bridges. 

[00:16:00] And what you have to do in this life is understand that life, like, we're all f*cking connected.

We are all on this path. 

We have one life to f*cking live, and if our timelines meet like they do right now, if you're watching this video, our timelines are meeting right now. 

There's a bridge that connects us, and if you can see that in life, we're all connected. 

We might not know each other right now, you might have just met me for the first time.

[00:16:30] You might have just bumped into my content for the first time, but our timelines were meant to meet at this point. 

The question is, will our timelines part ways because you don't connect? 

Or will you build the first step to building that bridge and have that bond forever there? 

Do you see what I'm saying?

If you were to do that with everybody that you meet, you're going to create so much opportunity for yourself. 

[00:17:00] And when you create opportunity and you prepare every single day, you wake up early, you go to the gym, you eat, right? 

You do good things. 

You're an ethical human being. 

You have high integrity. 

You put yourself in positions where it's uncomfortable, but you know, it's going to cause you to grow.

You're preparing for that opportunity. 

So that way, once the opportunity presents itself, you're ready for it. 

That's what's called luck. 

When preparation meets opportunity and all of those opportunities, it's either going to be a little opportunity because you're a sh*t bag or a lot of opportunity. 

[00:17:30] But what happens is sometimes people can create a lot of opportunity for themselves, but they haven't been battle testing themselves.

They haven't been preparing for it. 

And because of that opportunity also passes. 

It's kind of like that sushi buffet, right? 

It's like on that f*cking turntable or whatever. 

The sushi might go around, or f*ck, it might have been there for a couple days, I don't know, and they spray it with water to make it look good.

But it comes around, it might not come back around again, it might be gone forever. 

So you have to understand, it's a balance, it's this art form to truly be successful, you gotta help people. 

[00:18:00] And if you look at life that way, every area of your life, starting today. 

You don't have to, like, wait till tomorrow, you don't have to prepare for this sh*t, you just choose to be a good human to everybody.

Choose to do it right now. 

Emotional control, emotional mastery will help you with this because no matter how the f*ck your day went, you still treat people good, you're gonna get that back. 

It's gonna completely change your life. 

[00:18:30] See in your life where you might have been dropping the ball here, where you might have been doing life for you versus doing life to help people and to serve people.

And by helping other people get what they want in life, you ultimately get what you want in life, but you don't focus on you. 

You focus on everybody. 

Imagine what happens when you do that day in day out with everybody you f*cking meet. 

You're gonna get hit with so much success, so much abundance, so much joy, so many opportunities, you don't even know what the fu*ck to do with them.

And you're just gonna feel blessed. 

You're gonna feel grateful. 

[00:19:00] And all of that gratitude, all of those good, positive emotions are coming from you just putting goodness into the world. 

And the world is now giving it back to you. 

So I want you to understand that this whole game of success has nothing to do with your level of skill set, okay?

I never had any formal training in a lot of the sh*t that I'm in now. 

I never went to f*cking college. 

I think I stepped on a college campus and I was like, “I don't even know how to f*cking sign up for this sh*t, so I'm out.” 

Like, I literally, remember, I spent like one hour trying to figure it out and I was like, “This is dumb.”

I don't f*cking know. 

[00:19:30] I barely graduated high school. 

I was truant in high school. 

You never saw me junior year, you definitely didn't see me senior year. 

Somehow I made it to prom, and somehow I got selected as the top three for prom king, even though I was never in class. 

I don't know if people were just, you know, playing a joke on the staff and sh*t, but, f*ck, and it happened.

I barely graduated high school, because of how depressed I was. 

How truant I was, because I was just like, “I don't f*cking care about the world anymore. I just wanna die.” 

I went from like, the brokenness from 10 to 18 years old. 

[00:20:00] If somebody like me can create the network, the opportunity, the success I have today, and I came literally from not a first world country but a third world country, and maximize on my opportunity by being a good f*cking human to people, I promise you your life can change.

But I will tell you this, being selfless takes a lot more work than being selfish. 

Because being selfish is easy. 

[00:20:30] Just like, “I don't care about anybody. I don't want to deal with anybody's sh*t. I don't want to carry anybody's burden on my f*cking back. It's not my burden to bear.”

But when you start putting other people first, you start carrying that burden of leadership.

Of, like, sacrificing. 

You know, sometimes when I only had, like, 20 bucks, I'd give people 10. 

That was 50 percent of what I had. 

Some people would be like, “Oh, f*cking just 10.” 

And they have like thousands, hundreds of thousands of dollars at that time.

Probably not, we were young. 

But you get what I'm saying?

[00:21:00] And they give like 10 bucks and it's like, “But that's like a cent to you, bro.” 

I would give like half, sometimes I'd give it all. 

Sometimes I give people my money and I'd have to figure out the money because I knew I had it in me, and I'd rather give it to them

And that happened for f*cking years, guys.

 

And this is also when I was working like odd jobs and sh*t, you know, like making 600 every two weeks and sh*t. 

I still have the checks. 

I'm probably gonna, you know, do a video with it and like f*cking check it out, you know, and I just wanted to give. 

[00:21:30] I just wanted to help because at some point I was like “You know, like, even though it sucks for me, I can handle it.”

You know, like, “I believe in me. I'll figure it out. I just genuinely care about this person, though, because I feel like they're gonna break, bro. So I might as well, like, give them the last of me, and I'll go figure it the f*ck out.” 

I've done that all throughout my life, and for many years, I didn't see anything come back to me.

I didn't see any, like, forward momentum. 

I didn't get an opportunity. 

But because of that, I spent time in self mastery. 

I spent time preparing myself. 

[00:22:00] Not because I knew something was coming, but I just focused every day to be the best I could be, to figure out the best course of action, and to execute on whatever I could.

And over time, that started to compound. 

And f*ck, I went decade after f*cking decade just going down more in the red. 

And that sense of belief, having faith that all of this is for something. 

Going through your trials, accepting all of the sh*t that's happened and happening in your life.

That's all part of it. 

[00:22:30] It's trusting this f*cking process that everything is built. 

Like, the plan is already there and you just have to walk the path. 

But you got to believe there's a high sense of belief there. 

Most people start breaking on themselves because they're just like, I can't endure this anymore.

 

So the preparation stops. 

So I want you to understand that it wasn't always easy for me. 

There's many times, many times I didn't have any money. 

Many, many times I was like negative, like big negative, negative a hundred thousand plus in the red. 

And I still had to hold true that. 

I was going to figure it the f*ck out.

[00:23:00] And the only way I was able to do that, and to heal myself in those moments when I felt the weakest was, “Okay, things aren't going my way. F*ck it. I don't f*cking know. I'm going to go help somebody, bro. I don't know. Somebody needs help right now. I just need to distract myself from me for a minute. And I'm going to go help people.”

Every time I helped people, something weird happened. 

My energy shifted. 

I felt stronger. 

I got to see things in life from a different perspective. 

And that allowed me to just win for one more day. 

[00:23:30] And all of those days stacked into weeks, stacked into months, stacked into years, and win after win after win just by showing up for me, myself, and people around me, eventually I just started quantum leaping.

 

And that's just been happening the past couple years, but if you saw my life, day for day for day, you would have never guessed that I would have made it out of that sh*t. 

You'd have probably guessed that I'd probably end up dead, to be honest. 

And I genuinely thought I was going to turn out dead too. 

I never thought I'd reach a level of success.

 

[00:24:00] But the only way I was able to do that was to realize that the thing that healed me was helping people. 

The thing that healed me was not focusing on me. 

The thing that actually allowed me to have these quantum leaps in life, in business, and in family, was to stop focusing on me, my hurt, my pain, and all of the bullsh*t that comes along with it.

 

And wanting to protect myself from being hurt again in life. 

I had to be open completely with life to receive life, to feel life again. 

 

[00:24:30] So if you want to win at this game of life, if you genuinely want to be successful, help more people. 

By helping more people, you help yourself because you heal yourself.

You become the best version of you. 

You become the most valuable version of you. 

And that version of you is the version of you that everybody wants to f*cking know. 

And you might not feel confident about it. 

You might be like, “Oh Jesus Christ, it's just me. I don't know why everybody wants to know me.”

And that's okay.

Even at this level. 

[00:25:00] I've had multiple conversations just this past week where I'm just like, “I don't f*cking know why people keep giving me their cell phone numbers. I don't know why all these f*cking higher level people are like, ‘Hey bro, if you ever need anything, just f*cking text me or call me.’”

Whatever the f*ck. 

I still don't f*cking know till right now. 

I don't get it, but I'm sharing with you exactly what's worked for me up until now, and even though I'm blindly just going like, “Okay, I'm just being super helpful all the time, I don't f*cking know, opportunities keep presenting themselves. I'm establishing deeper relationships with people because I'm authentically, genuinely just wanting to help people.”

And if you become that person for everybody that you know in life, you're gonna have to go through your season of haters. 

You're gonna have to go through your season of doubters. 

And at some point, because you believe you and what the f*ck you're doing on this planet, the world will believe you at some point.

 

You just can't lose that belief in yourself. 

All right, help more people. 

Help one more person today. 

Just see how that fills up your cup. 

And then stack that, every day moving forward, help one more person every single day, and just see how that changes your life.

[00:26:00] And just see, the more work you put in, head f*cking down on just like, doing the work you gotta do on a daily basis, helping people on a daily basis, by the time you look up, your entire world f*cking changes.

 

This whole life that I have now, it's been built. 

Nobody gave this sh*t to me. 

I didn't have parents to help me with this sh*t. 

I didn't have parents to f*cking guide me in this sh*t. 

I had to figure all this sh*t out on my own, but, somehow I'm f*cking here. 

I don't know. 

I just f*cking do my best, and I give my best.

 

Daily. 

[00:26:30] And apparently that's a lot. 

But do you value you? 

Do you value your efforts to that level? 

If not, I would start there. 

Because if you don't value you, then you're never going to put yourself out there. 

You're never going to help people because you're not going to feel like you're valuable enough to those people.

 

But again, isn't that the most selfish act? 

Being so worried about if you can help somebody versus just trying your best to help them. 

[00:27:00] I didn't always know, always know the answers, but I always knew that my heart would want to help somebody. 

And even if I couldn't personally help them, I point them in the right direction.

And that's why people are open to talking to me. 

So if you want to be successful, help one person today, prove to yourself that this is truth. 

And then practice that discipline on a daily basis, you will reach a level of success you couldn't even f*cking dream of it. 

I never dreamt of this life that I have today.

 

[00:27:30] And I was fortunate enough to meet all the right people all along the way, that I can give value to, and that are still very close friends of mine to this day, and we've only ever met through social media, online. 

It's a very interesting thing. 

So I want you to understand if there's ever a time where you just need to reach out and talk, never hesitate to reach out to me, even if it's just a conversation. 

I'll probably talk to you about some of my programs because that's how I actually will be able to help you, but if it's just a conversation you need, just a little pick me up, just tell me where you came from, tell me what's going on in your life, and let's have a chat. 

[00:28:00] And then you go about your f*cking day, and you go do that for somebody else. 

Pass that torch of knowledge, that experience to somebody else. 

Give them that gift. 

That's how you're gonna succeed in the world.

 

That's the show. 

Don't just listen to everything I just f*cking said, and do nothing with it. 

Take everything you learned, go out and execute. 

Send it.

[00:28:30]

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