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How to Lose the 'WAIT'

Holly Toscanini

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Welcome to How to Lose the ‘Wait’ – Stop Waiting. Start Living. (Formerly the Say, “When!” podcast)If you’ve ever felt stuck, waiting for the “perfect” body, job, or love, this podcast is for you. It’s not just about ditching diet culture—it’s about shedding the emotional weight that’s kept you from living fully and embracing your true self.Join me as I help women like you break free from perfectionism, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs. We’ll explore how to trust yourself, reconnect with your in...

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Episodes (115)

114. Fear with a Planner: Is Your Responsibility Just a High-End Hiding Place?

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113. Why you Keep Saying, "Someday": The Permission Problem

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Apr 27, 202614:33pending

112. The Research Loop: Why More Information Is a Form of Stalling

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111. Who Is Actually Making Your Decisions?

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Apr 13, 202616:17failed

110. How to Start Changing Your Life in 30 Days (Without Burning Out)

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Apr 6, 202619:50failed

109. How to Move Forward after Loss : Grief, Identity, and Reinventing Yourself...

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108. Good Girl Rehab: 5 Rules You're Still Following That Keep You Waiting

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Mar 23, 202617:51failed

107. Pursue Your Spark with Heike Yates

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106. Stop Saying Yes When Your Body Says No: Setting Micro-Boundaries

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Mar 9, 202619:00failed

105. The Energy Audit: Where Your Time, Attention, and Self-Trust Are Really Goi...

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Mar 3, 202616:39pending

104. "I Don't Know What I Want": How to Get Clarity When You Feel Stuck

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Feb 25, 202616:33pending

103. How to Stop Over-Giving in Relationships (Without Feeling Like a Bad Person...

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Feb 16, 202625:27pending

102. Stop Self-Editing: The Unwaiting Rule for Visibility in Midlife

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Feb 9, 202615:53pending

101. Standing in your Brilliance with Kathy Kwiatkowski

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100. Stop Starting Over: The Unwaiting Method to Turn Insight Into Real Change

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Jan 26, 202626:59pending

99. The Self-Trust Rule for 2026: Stop Making Decisions That Betray You

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Jan 19, 202618:32pending

98. Why New Year’s Resolutions Keep Smart Women Stuck (And What to Do Instead)

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Jan 5, 202610:21pending

97. How to Make 2026 The Year of Unwaiting

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Dec 29, 202517:08pending

96. How to Get Unstuck in Midlife: Tiny Pivots, New Habits, Real Momentum

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Dec 22, 202519:58pending

95. Choosing What to Leave Behind: Emotional Decluttering for the New Year

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Dec 15, 202518:27pending

94. How to Calm Your Inner Critic Fast!

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Dec 8, 202516:19pending

93. How to Stop Fixing Yourself

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Dec 1, 202520:10pending

92. Gratitude Without Guilt: Finding Joy When Life Isn’t Perfect

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Nov 24, 202515:11pending

91. Body Wisdom 101: What Your Cravings, Energy, and Emotions Are Trying to Tell...

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Nov 17, 202523:26pending

90. How to Rebuild Trust With Yourself (After Too Many Broken Promises)

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Nov 10, 202513:06pending

89. From Overthinking to Aligned Action: How to Calm Your Nervous System and Cre...

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Nov 3, 202514:39pending

88. Midlife Reinvention Lessons from K-Pop Demon Hunters

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Oct 27, 202540:08pending

87. What Happens When You Stop Asking for Permission

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Oct 22, 202523:45pending

86. The Confidence Gap: Why Smart Women Still Second-Guess Themselves

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Oct 18, 202512:05pending

85. The Religion of Thinness: Why Midlife Women Deserve a New Faith

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Oct 7, 202513:08pending

84. Middlescence: Women Over 50 Are The Influencers We Need Now

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Sep 30, 202512:57pending

83. It’s Not Too Late: The Midlife Wake-Up Call You Didn’t Know You Needed

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Sep 7, 202517:26pending

82. How to Know You’re Ready -The real question is are you willing?

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Aug 30, 202522:37pending

81. From Good Girl to Rule Breaker: Designing the Life You Actually Want

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Aug 24, 202521:38pending

80: Enough Already: How to Finally Feel ‘Good Enough’ Exactly as You Are

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Aug 23, 202519:52pending

79. Reclaim Your Energy: Letting Go to Embrace Your Next Chapter

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Aug 18, 202516:34pending

78. Why September Is the Real New Year (and Your Perfect Moment to Reinvent)

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Aug 10, 202515:23pending

77. Teri Hofford- Learning to Embrace Yourself in Photos and in Life

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Aug 4, 202558:11pending

76. How to Trust Your Intuition

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Jul 26, 202524:52pending

75. We Simply Do Not Care Anymore, Midlife Women Are Over It—and Finally Living

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Jul 20, 202515:51pending

74. Finding Effortless Love with Michelle Chung

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Jul 13, 202532:18pending

73. What’s Holding You Back? Uncovering the 5 Hidden Blocks to Self-Trust

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Jul 6, 202510:29pending

72. Messy is Magnetic: Why Showing Up Real Beats Being Perfect Every Time

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Jun 28, 202515:19pending

71. The Myth of ‘Too Late’: Why Now Is the Perfect Time to Reinvent Yourself

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Jun 22, 202514:34pending

70. How to Rediscover Your Voice and Visibility in Midlife

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Jun 15, 202510:21pending

69. The Confidence Trap – Why You Don’t Need to Feel Ready to Act Boldly

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Jun 8, 202523:30pending

68. How to Break-up with Burnout- Why Hustle Culture Is Failing Women

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May 24, 202525:29pending

67. Unlearning Good Girl Syndrome: How to Speak Up, Set Boundaries, and Say No W...

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Apr 27, 202521:10pending

66. Permission to Pivot: How to Reinvent Yourself Without Losing Your Mind

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Apr 14, 202525:53pending

65. The Power of Imperfect Action: Why Messy Progress is the Key to Your Dreams

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Mar 31, 202532:19pending