Pillow Talks
Vanessa & Xander Marin
EN277 episodes
healthfitnesssexuality
Meet Vanessa and Xander Marin, your new BFF couple friends! She’s a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and he’s a regular dude. Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with. They share the ups and downs in their relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours. Subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally do-able sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what re...
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Episodes (277)
E277: How to Take Your Orgasm to the Next Level with the Four Orgasm Amplifiers
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Sep 10, 202652:06pending
E276: How Do You Turn Your Partner On? (When You've Been Together For Years)
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Sep 3, 202649:46pending
E275: Reasonable or Ridiculous? Sex Quotas, Oral Every Time, and Dirty Talk Deal...
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Aug 27, 202650:13pending
E274: Is it Normal to Not Orgasm During Sex? We Got Attacked for Talking About T...
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Aug 20, 20261:06:07pending
E273: How to Try New Sex Positions Without Killing the Mood
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Aug 13, 20261:00:00pending
E272: What Do Men Really Think About….? (Part 5) Rough Sex, Vibrators, and What...
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Aug 6, 202657:23pending
E271: The Real Reason You Can't "Let Go" in Bed
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Jul 30, 202650:43pending
E270: The 5 Silent Relationship Killers That Turn Partners Into Roommates
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Jul 23, 202656:48pending
E269: Tie-Breakers: We Referee Your Realest Relationship Standoffs
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Jul 16, 20261:01:27pending
E268: Ask Us Anything: Only Fans, The Ick, & Creeps In The Comments
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Jul 9, 20261:06:47pending
E267: The Hygiene Episode
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Jul 2, 202655:21pending
E266: Ask a Sex Therapist (Part 3) Sex Pillows, Squirting, and Standing-Up Sex
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Jun 25, 20261:00:53pending
E265: Is This Cheating? (Part 3) Emotional Affairs, Secret Texts, and Sneaky DMs
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Jun 18, 202656:37pending
E264: What Women Really Think About... Part 3
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Jun 11, 20261:05:19pending
E263: How to Have More Fun in Your Relationship
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Jun 4, 202656:40pending
E262: The Sex Personality Quiz Every Couple Needs (And What Your Type Says About...
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May 28, 20261:07:51pending
E261: ED, PE & Everything In Between: Your Performance Problems Solved (Part 2)
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May 21, 202658:30pending
E260: How To Orgasm Like A Man: Breaking The Blocks That Keep Women Stuck
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May 14, 20261:05:04pending
E259: Sex and Intimacy After Kids: What Actually Works (From Parents Who've Figu...
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May 7, 20261:03:40pending
E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and Desire
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Apr 30, 20261:04:33failed
E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming
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Apr 24, 20261:03:36failed
E256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum Pleasure
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Apr 16, 20261:01:44failed
E255: The Sexiest Thing You're Not Doing in Bed…Mutual Masturbation
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Apr 9, 202643:17failed
E254: Couples Coaching: Why Resentment Is Killing Your Sex Life
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Apr 2, 202653:33failed
E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex
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Mar 26, 20261:07:04failed
E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)
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Mar 19, 202652:29failed
E251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and...
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Mar 12, 20261:05:34failed
E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + are...
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Mar 5, 20261:03:26pending
E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?
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Feb 26, 202648:06pending
E248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)
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Feb 19, 202655:38pending
E247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more)
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Feb 12, 202652:55pending
E246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s Burning
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Feb 5, 20261:02:56pending
E245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone Journey
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Jan 29, 20261:02:40pending
E244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take)
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Jan 22, 202649:29pending
E243: Your Biggest Marriage Regrets (And How To Prevent Them)
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Jan 15, 202659:41pending
E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About I...
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Jan 8, 20261:04:10pending
E241: Sex Fails: Car Hookups, Clap Lights, and Cowgirl Concussions
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Jan 1, 202634:33pending
E240: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex
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Dec 23, 20251:11:18pending
E239: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt. 3)
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Dec 18, 20251:09:29pending
E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s
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Dec 11, 20251:04:55pending
E237: The Real Reason You’re Not Having More Sex
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Dec 4, 20251:01:09pending
E236: Sex with Other People…Around: Our Holiday Do’s and Don’ts
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Nov 27, 202547:03pending
E235: How Your Phone Is Secretly Sabotaging Your Connection (and what to do abou...
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Nov 20, 202556:29pending
E234: Tie Breakers: Passwords, Period Sex, and Passenger Princesses (We’re Settl...
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Nov 13, 20251:01:43pending
E233: Our Most Viral Tips (That Actually Changed People’s Sex Lives)
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Nov 6, 202557:45pending
E232: Trick or Treat: The Bedroom Edition
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Oct 30, 20251:03:41pending
E231: When Life Gets Heavy (A Personal Update)
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Oct 23, 20251:17:45pending
E230 How to Actually Enjoy Oral Sex (Without Overthinking It)
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Oct 16, 20251:01:40pending
E229: Ask A Sex Therapist: Swallowing, Fetishes, + Exes
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Oct 9, 20251:05:42pending
E228: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt 2.)
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Oct 2, 20251:06:00pending