1581 - Abby Recently Attended a Lesbian Orgy, a Kink Hotel Take Over, Got into Rope Play and More

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3:01I do have a free trial for my listeners. Stc is like the world's largest online dating website. And it's not just a place where you can hook up with people. You can learn all about the lifestyle. You can find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun. You're going to find it all on stc.com. Like I said, you get a free trial if you use my code, 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. Okay, today I have back on Abby. Abby was on before episode 993. She even made it into my book. She was very young when she first called and she was dating a guy as well as dating a trans male friend of hers and she's doing all kinds of crazy things. And in this episode, she really stepped it up. She broke up with everybody in the past. She started going solo to all these kind of crazy parties. She started on a sapphic party and had all kinds of things go down with a lot of women.

4:01And that was her first time with a woman, but she didn't just do one woman. She did a ton of them and she talks about that whole experience and how that went down. She does this all solo. She's very young, she's really 22. And then after that, she got involved in the King community went to some munch, she went to a King club, met some people, started going to munches, got into all kinds of things, met a dynamic partner. She explains what that's all about and what she does with him. She talks about what went down at that King party, which was really super crazy, lots of crazy stuff she did there. She gets very detailed about everything and then she even tried a hotel takeover. Eventually, she wound up meeting a guy and she's dating somebody new. She talks about their relationship dynamic. That's a real relationship with him. He's kind of sometimes like into a cross dressing and being caged and they went to a hotel takeover together and she explains that hotel takeover in detail as well. Like I said, she's only 22. She's done so much just in this update episode and I have a whole other episode with more stuff. And in this update episode, it's all new stuff.

5:01So you're going to enjoy the episode. I have a hot picks over on my Patreon, but I'm going to get right to you to be right back on with Abby. This is the strictly anonymous podcast strictly anonymous podcast. Hi Abby. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you today? I'm good. How are you doing? I'm good. Listen Abby. You have, we're not only on my show, your actual episode made it into my buck because you were like super young. You and a boyfriend were doing all kinds of things. You were in a threple with your trans male friend. You were hookin' up with both. I mean, you had a really interesting story that I think really speaks to younger people nowadays because you guys are so much more open. But you're even more open than when you were in my buck. Okay. And when you're last on my show, your first episode was 993. First of all, wait, rewind me and then I'm going to give the short story that we're going to go in chronological order of all the things you've done since we last spoke. But remind me how old you are because you are super young, right? Yes. I'm 22. 22. I mean, I can't even fucking believe it.

6:0122 years old and you dove headfirst into all this stuff. Like recently, you had an orgy hooked up with all these women. You went to a King party. You have a new partner that's maybe doming you. You're into ropes. You went to a hotel takeover. Like, did I miss anything? I mean, we're going to get all the details. But like, is that like all the bullets? Yeah, that's most of the bullets going in there. Oh my god. Now, are you still with your boyfriend? Are you doing all this stuff with your boyfriend? And are you still with that, your trans male friends? Okay. So, me and my ex broke up. The one we have a couple with. Him and I broke up. But we're still very close friends and then same with my trans male friend. We're no longer playing together, but we're still super duper close. Okay, cool. So, you're all these new people are new players in the game. Yes. Okay, so let's start your first thing, the sapphic party and you know, like the whole lesbian thing that you got into recently. Because that, I think, was first and we're going in your chronological order. How did you wind up there? Was it like after you broke up and you were like single and went on your own?

7:02Yeah, so pretty much. We might ex broke up and then we ended up living together for a few months afterwards. But during those few months, it was like, I got to be way more open and so that was my first event I went to since breaking up. And it was this party on the coast. And I had no idea what to expect. Going by yourself, I just have to just say, like as an older person, you know, and thinking back to when I was 20 and so badass, like I still was not like you. I would never have gone to anything like this alone. Like that's pretty ballsy of you. It was a bit scary for sure. But you still didn't. That's a gives you balls, do you understand? It was. So I was on the coast with my grandma, actually. And I was trying to come up with an excuse. I'm like, why do I need to sneak out of our hotel room at like 9 p.m. at night? Where am I going? And I was like, oh, I had family friends come in. They landed late last night. I'm going to go visit them. And so I go to the summer party. I get there and it was honestly, it was super great to get there.

8:03I walked in the door and immediately the host approached me. Before the event, we admitted we had faced time. She knew it was my first event, so she immediately approached me and kind of like broke things down what the night was going to look like. And she brought me over to a group of like the younger girls. And so we got chatting and things like that. And it was immediately like a very welcoming environment. I connected with a few people. When the night started, we all started. Oh, wait, stop right there. I don't care if people yell at me. I cut you off. I know exactly where you go. We're going to get the whole night started. I just want to know, A, how did you find out about this party? What was it called? Is it a traveling, bisexual, female party? It was a party because I had someone on recently that runs the big one. I for skirt club. What was this one? This was a very small one actually. It was just in some lady's house. Oh, interesting. And I found it on set, like it was just like a set of sapphic flurry or something like that. And she was doing them all the year. So like for the season, all girls are female identifying. Right. Okay. How many people were there?

9:04I want to say about 30. Okay. That's enough. Right? Okay. So you walk in and now the night she tells, what were some of the rules or anything that she told you like when she gave you the quick rundown? Anything interesting? There wasn't necessarily any rules like obviously been asked for consent and make sure you're safe and respectful and things like that. If you're watching a scene, make sure you're asking and things like that. But there wasn't any like out of the blue rules. What she did that I really liked before the party started is we all sat upstairs. So the upstairs was like the hangout, food was up there. That's the chill, like not naughty area. And then downstairs was where all the fun was going on. And so before the night started, we all sat upstairs. And we went around in a circle sort of and everyone went like what their intention for the night was. Did you want to watch? Did you want to play? Did you want to calm? Did you want to sub? And we went around and each person sort of gave what they were looking for. And then based off of that, you kind of could form your connection. So after we all went around, I went and talked with another girl who had wanted to play. And so her and I went downstairs and started like we were making out on the couch.

10:07And she started fingering me, we used some toys and things like that. But she actually, she was a little bit intense for me where it was like just a bit rough and a little bit intimidating. And so I was like, I don't know if it's entirely my thing with her. And I went back upstairs and ended up wandering around a bit more and talking to a few other girls. And I met this girl and her girlfriend. And we were chatting a bunch and they were actually the first ones that the organizer introduced me to. And so we eventually make it me and the one girl make it downstairs. I'll call them downstairs. What's downstairs? That's what the playroom. So there was like a bed set up, there was coaches set up, there was like a few different rooms, there were some toys, some more moody lighting. But that was like downstairs with the play area. So I make it downstairs with the one girl and we're down there and like we're making out with a finger in. I'm like grinding on her, we're totally getting into it using some toys on each other. And that's just like we're in the middle of like the living room downstairs.

11:07And so we ended up going into one of the side rooms. Now there's an entire bedroom that no one lives in. So we kind of took it over. And I ended up like starting to go down on her. And first of all, my first time ever being with a woman. And this time I'm like, yeah. Okay. So I go down on her and not only is my first time in a woman, but she's multi-ordantic and a squirtor. Oh my god. Did she go out like, I do squirters, dude, do they warn you first? She did, yeah. She was like, oh, I brought puppy pads by the way. So she had these like water-perds mats in her bag that she put down on the bed and she's like, I squirt. And I was like, oh my goodness, okay. And so yeah, like I started going down on her. She had a few orgasms. She squirted all of my face. She went down on me a bit. There was a few people in the room watching at that point. But then her girlfriend comes down into room. She's like, oh, I was wondering where you went. And we kind of like, look at her. Like, do you want to join? And so she came into the bed and then it looked like the three of us sort of making it going down on each other.

12:08We have a couple of ways. I don't know. By the way, who knew Lesbyans were so much fun. I mean, it's typically like the joke is. Like they have like the least amount of sex. You know what I mean? Here's like this couple having an open relationship. You don't mean everyone thinks it's just gay men that do this. Oh, well, it was only that, but they were telling me they were in like a polycure. So the one girl had like four other partners. But then we also had a trans girl come into the room. And she was like, I don't really want anyone to pleasure me. But can I go down on you guys? So she also came and joined. So there was like four of us on the bed just sort of taking turns going down each other using sensory toys, that sort of stuff. And like we did that for like five hours. No joke. And the one squirter multi orgasm girl. I think she talked about like 20-ish orgasms that she had. And 20 in a row? It was easy. So she did a lot. Yeah. Oh my god. Well, not in the row. I'm going to take turns and like she'd need a little bit of a break. But it was crazy. But the trans woman was she post-op? I'm not sure. Like I said, she didn't want us to do anything on her. Oh, right. So you didn't really know. So you just kind of went down on that. Okay, okay.

13:08Yeah. Okay, keep going. Okay, so we're going to go back to the end of the night. Everyone had sort of gotten tired and we were still going in this one room. So everyone had slowly made their way into our room and was just watching like the four of us on the bed going at it. Were other people going at it? Oh yeah, no. There was like some of us doing electrical scene. There was an impact scene. There was like just other people fucking each other. Okay. And then near the end of the night it's like one in the morning at this point. I get a call myself sort of swinging. I'm like, oh my god. Everyone be quiet. It's my grandma. And so in the middle of this, it's like 20 percent of my people are so strong. And I was like, maybe sorry I lost track of time. I'm coming back right now and I hang up in the whole room just a rubs into laughter. That is so funny. And like I'm like coming myself in my bag and running around getting everything together, kissing people. Goodbye. Your grandmother will die if she knew. She absolutely would. Yeah, totally. Okay, go on. So you had to leave. Yeah, you left that. Did you take any of the numbers of any of the girls?

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16:10So, they couldn't rent you. So, throwing myself straight in the deep gun and immediately going to a sex party. That's really well. I know. It went really well. Oh my God, you thought that was your only option? For real, I thought that was the chill intro to it. Oh my God, hilarious. Okay, go on. Well, that's from a graphic party. And then, so my next party was my birthday. I went back down to the coast and there's a well-known group down in Vancouver here. Uh-huh. That does parties. They're called glitch. And they run monthly parties. Yeah. And there are pink parties. And so, I went down to Vancouver. My first time traveling, so I went down to meet my dynamic. What's a dynamic? Can you explain to people what a dynamic is. Older people don't understand. Okay. I don't even understand what a dynamic is. I'm not sure what everyone classifies. I'm not sure what everyone classifies. That's what my dynamic is. A guy who, like, I consistently meet up with, to, like, ex-working stuff. Sometimes we'll fuck, but it's mostly, like, we explore kink together. Okay.

17:10And we don't have a relationship. We're not going to ever date. We don't meet each other's family. Your friends, we just are close to working. Okay, cool. Mm-hmm. So, I call him, like, my dynamic partner, as opposed to my boyfriend, which is someone that, like, he knows my family, we are going to live together in a future like that sort of thing. Now that I know what a dynamic is, what was the party that you went to? So, there's these parties in Vancouver that run every month, and it's via a more well-known organization. I think it's called Glitch, and they're kink-based parties. So, there's no sex on premises, like, no penetration. But it's, like, a dungeon. You pretty much you walk in, and they have, like, they had a spanking bench. They had a St Andrews cross. They had mats down for wrestling, and they had, like, a needle place scene. A blood place scene, like, all kinds of different setups that you could wander around and use. Yeah, okay. And so, I'd gone to this party solo. There was one person I knew there from, like, my town where I live, because there's events here, and they're one of the organizers here. So, I went to that party, and they were kind of my safe person, like, they checked in,

18:11and they were making sure I was okay, and things like that. But I walked into this party and being one of the younger solo girls. I immediately got swarmed by, like, five or six different dudes trying to say it was, like, one guy wanted to see, and some guy took off his hat, put it on my head, and went, oh, I hope I don't have life. Oh, my, oh, gross. Which was interesting. Sorry, but sometimes guys are so dumb, like, he thinks he's being funny, but that's kind of, like, a gross pickup line. He asked me. I know, right? Yeah, anyway, go on. Well, I ended up taking off to the bathroom for a minute, just to, like, take a moment to myself, and I ran into another younger girl in there who was also kind of hiding. And we were both wearing, like, this light teal, and we were talking about her outfits and stuff like that. I was like, you're so pretty if you want to possibly play. So, here, and I, part of the, like, dungeon furniture that was in there was there was this huge cage on wheels. So, here, and I have this fun little idea to go lock ourselves in the cage. So, none of the guys could really get to us, and, like, make out and play with each other

19:13in the middle of the floor in front of everyone. And so, yeah, we did. We got in the cage, the tibeturns going down on each other and fingering and tithering and things like that. We played for a few hours in there, actually. And they also had these big maps there. And so, her and I were also talking about, like, wrestling and, like, play-sitting and putting each other down. And stuff like that. We put that a little bit, and just, like, play-fought, wrestled. I took turns putting each other down and doing more, like, going down on each other, fingering each other, things like that. Yeah, that party wasn't too super exciting, but we also, like, I got her set, and we still think, contact and things like that. They also had, at that party, was a big, after-care room, which was kind of cool to see. So, there was, like, a big dungeon space from an off to the side. They had a room with, like, the dimmer lighting and, like, pillows and stuff like that. That's where you could go to, like, cuddle after a scene and just go decompress afterwards, which was kind of neat. So, let me ask you a question. Like, are you just trying all this, like, I know that you wanted to try girls, so you went with that. Like, what would remind me, have you always been into Kink?

20:15Like, is this a new thing for you? I've always kind of been into Kink. Like, it's not necessarily a new thing. Like, I remember watching shows growing up and being like, oh, that made my tummy fuzzy when someone's tied up or when someone's pinned down or something like that. Oh, even when you were really little? Yeah. Interesting, right? So, this is, like, you just, like, exploring everything. It comes into your head, you want to try it, you, like, go for it. Yeah. Well, honestly, your podcast was also a big one of the things that introduced me to Kink. Like, I want to go check out Sex Party, because I think these sounds so cool, or dungeon parties, or, like, the more people sort of things, swingers events, stuff like that. Yeah, yeah. I mean, you eventually make it to a hotel takeover, so you're working your way up. You know what I mean? Oh, yeah. Yeah. Do you want to talk more about your dynamic party or your roleplay that you got into? Yeah, for sure. So, with my dynamic is a friend I met, so not in the town I live in, but near us, there's moupley rope gems. So, it's like an event. You can go to, it's in a studio that this way, the ones that we rent from,

21:18and we go up there, and it's like a clothes on, but it's like open ties. You can be topless. You can do, they have, like, suspension set up, and things like that. And you can just go and practice your rope skills. Yeah. That's where I met my rope dynamic, and a bunch of my other friends, actually, but her and I met there, and then we just slowly, like, started becoming closer. She actually started dating and having a dynamic with my childhood next door neighbor, so she now lives right across the road from me, which is kind of funny. That is kind of funny. It was kind of funny to be like, oh, my neighbor, my lifelong neighbor, that canky, okay. Yeah, that is weird. Sometimes like freaks smell each other for a mile away, but did you just have no clue? I had no, I had a little bit of a clue, but not entirely. Right, okay, great. So, she is, my guide dynamic, she is my rope dynamic, so she is my girlfriend. Yeah. Well, we're not actually dating. We didn't date just because we have, like, just different types, like different motivations, different goals,

22:23and different kinds of different sort of, we're very close friends, but just not quite right for a relationship together. Right, okay, that makes sense. I mean, kind of, you know. But, her and I have explored rope stuff a ton. We've done some outdoor scenes. I actually have a photo I'll send to you to link with my episode if you want of her time. We went and up the mountain and did, like, an outdoor scene, where she just tied me to trees, like, completely nude in the forest. We had, like, a few people drive by and give us, like, thumbs up or honk at us, which were kind of neat. Oh, my God, that's kind of naughty. Oh, a little bit. But we've done some stuff like that, and then she's also been part of a few scenes. So, before me and my boyfriend started dating, she was his key holder. Okay. We do chat for these stuff, so she was the one who's key help for him. They've done rope scenes. They've done, like, paging scenes and stuff like that. My boyfriend's also into, like, cross dressing, sissy stuff, so she's done some of that with him. She's had them, like, strip on the side of the highway and changing the girl clothes and things like that.

23:25And so, him and I met through her and then started dating. Oh, my goodness. Okay. So, you're dating now? This is who you're dating someone now that. And this is my boyfriend. Oh, okay. This is your new boyfriend. Now, does this person go with you to the hotel takeover? Because it is going chronologically. Okay. Cool. All right. Go on. Now, is this person, like, involved? I mean, obviously, like, but is this person, like, involved as much as you are and stuff? Is this the person that got you into hotel takeovers? Because he had been, like, what's his deal? The him and I met through King, like, we met at a lot of the time, locally, and through my dynamic friend. But we, it was kind of more my idea to do the hotel takeover. It was, like, a local event. It was an entire hotel takeover. It was just we rented out one of the, like, part of the hotel. Okay. And we had gone with, so my rope dynamic, we went with her. We went with two other friends that we've met through the King scene. And then also, so my rope dynamic partner, who's my neighbor, was also there.

24:28Yeah. And so it was, like, six of us all together. We're kind of there together. And we'd gone to this event, and we'd all kind of, like, made our outfits matchy and stuff like that. It was, like, a masquerade thing. And so we all had, like, matching colors and matching masks and things like that. And we went in and, oh, goodness. Okay. I need to remember how this one went. Okay. So we went in and we all started up stairs in, like, one of the rooms. There was, like, a massage bed. And so we took turns with me and my boyfriend, and then our other couple's friend. We'll face the insides of, and so we were all, like, sort of massaging each other. It was me on the bed first, make it. And I had, like, the three of them, so my boyfriend and our couple's friend, sort of rubbing me and massaging me down. And we had taken the room or chose the room with the bathroom. And so as we're doing this, like, massage scene, people were coming in and out and we're waiting in line for the bathroom. They were just sort of watching, which was kind of fun. And then me and the couple's friend, the girl, she laid down on the bed with me.

25:32So it was, like, the two of us were getting massaged by our boyfriend. And then her boyfriend would come and massage me. And my boyfriend would go massage her and her and I are, like, making out and, like, touching each other as well. Which was pretty fun. And then I had one of my customers from my job come into the room and she was waiting in line for the bathroom. And she was, like, kind of in the scene, she didn't recognize me because, once he had, like, a mask on, but I immediately recognized her. And she was, kind of, like, can I join the scene? And so she had us joining and we're doing this. And she's, like, what's your name? And I'm like, oh, you know me, actually, and I took off my mask and she went, oh, my goodness, you're the server from this place. What? Yeah. No way. What a small, well, it is a small world. That's why I got to tell you, like, when I was your age, this is why I think you're so busy and you're so opposite me. You obviously don't think too much because I do. And in my day, nobody did shit like you. Like the young girls that had balls, they all became strippers because, like, in my day, when I was around your age, stripping became, like, the thing that every hot girl did. It was, like, very common and mainstream.

26:33And I was, like, the only one out of my friends that wouldn't do it. And I had, like, I hate to say this, but I had to really have body and, like, a better way my friends would always be like, you have the hottest body, why are you doing it? They would keep outfits and the trunk for me, but I would think to myself, okay, I cannot do it. Like, what if my brother's friends come in? What if my, you know, uncle comes in? What if my teachers come in? Like, that's how my mind thinks. You know, what if the person that I'm serving at my job comes in? Like, and here you are because this shit can happen. You know what I mean? That's why I never stretch. You know what I mean? That's like, hard fight. But it is, like, shit, like that can happen. You know what I mean? I didn't even mind the customer coming in. This is my favorite customer. Oh my God. What was a little bit more interesting to running into my ex-boss there? Wait, I know. This is what comes in. I'm sorry. I knew this one part too. But, like, that's crazy. That's what I mean. We'll get to that, though. But I, like, I love that you don't even care. But, like, that this was this person. I mean, I think it's kind of crazy. Like, what are the odds? But it's my kind of mindset about it. I mean, I'm not going to be the same reason. Like, hold on. I wanted to come out.

27:33I know it's like, you're not going to go tell them because I could also tell them. So it's like, there's not really that fear. I'm also like, I guess I've gotten super into the community in the past few years because, like, all of my friends know about it or are part of it already. Like, I'm not. I don't tell my family. But other than that, like, I'm not secretive about it. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, that's cool. Okay. Yeah. You're just, like I said, I mean, that's why I, and I like people. I wish I wasn't so cautious and like, it's so much of an overthinker. So I always admire and look up to people that don't fucking think as much as I do. Because at the end of the day, it doesn't really matter. Look, you saw all the things that I worried about happen to you and who the fuck cares. What about your ex-boss telling that story? We pretty much, we ran into each other. So in that same original massage room, I'm winning in line for the bathroom. And she's standing beside me and I started looking at her and she looks at me. And I was like, okay, how's it going? And so I already know when I previously worked for her that she was part of the community. Yeah. We talked a little bit about swinging, like not to each other that we were going to do it. I just knew she was part of the community and that was something like I might bump into her at party.

28:36Oh my god, it's a woman boss. Sorry, go on. Yeah, it is. Yeah, go on. So it was just sort of like a, hey, how's it going thing? And we didn't really talk much and then there was a scene going on. We're like an impact squirting scene. So we just sort of stood beside each other and watched the scene. And was like, that was entertaining and then went to the bathroom and left. Oh my god. We kind of just avoided each other and it was like that mutual. Like, I know you, you know me. Let's not worry about this. Okay, guys, why better orgasms and way bigger loads that also taste better? Well, there happens to be a supplement that will not only increase your loads. It will make your gizz taste better. Okay, and it's called low boost by VB health. Low boost is not some sketchy supplement. Okay, it is the one supplement that my listeners email me about the most. And besides being a favorite supplement of my listeners, it's a favorite supplement of adult film stars too. And let me tell you what else low boost is good for.

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30:37Wow, I mean, and you're saying like van Cooper when you're throwing around city names like I can't believe like, it's not like you're in a small town. I mean, I feel like the odds aren't that great. I have a small town. The hotel takeover was in my small town. Oh, okay. I got to the coast for events, but I live in a small town. Oh, okay. So that's why you're bumping into everybody. Okay, go on. So is, yeah, I mean, did we finish with the hotel takeover? Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. Okay, keep going. Okay, good. So we did the massage room scene and then we went back outside and there was a little smoke area outside. Me and all my friends are like stoners and my boyfriend's smoked nicotine. So we were hanging out in the smoke area and they opened up the hot tub and it was like a nude hot tub. So we're like heck yeah, and the six of us go over to the hot tub. And my boyfriend's locked in chaffity. None of our friends know that I had him locked or even that that's dynamic we explored. Oh, oh. All stripping down and jumping the hot tub and he sort of has a tint and I'm like, what's wrong? Like, come in the hot tub and he's like, well, like I'm locked or friends don't know and I'm like, dude, we're at a kink party. Take your clothes off and get in so he came in and it was pretty fun.

31:37Like we all sort of like were doing some touchy-teasy things in there and hanging out and discussing. We were waiting for a room to open up to go do like our main scene is what we were waiting for. And so we just hung out in the hot tub a bit. There was a few people. There was like the window inside looked right at the hot tub. So like me and the girls would like stand out and we're like, show them off our bodies and the window kind of and people are cheering and clapping for us inside and it was fun. But eventually a room opened up so we go up there and so it's me, my boyfriend, our couple friend and then my dynamic friend and her boyfriend, which is my neighbor. So upstairs can take over a room and she gets my boyfriend tied up. She's so great at rope. I can't even, I have no idea how I can do some basic ties but nothing that intense. So she gets him tied up like completely restrained. He's on his knees and he has an anal hook in and that's tied to the top of the bed frame. He's on all fours and he's completely new and we're in a room full of people. So me and my dynamic friend and the girl of the other couple, so there's us three girls and my boyfriend.

32:41We started like fingering his mouth and teasing him and kissing up and down his body and touching and tickling him and stuff like that. Well he's also blindfolded and gags. And we had raw sharpie with us because he likes being written on and things like that. So in this room there's like 30 people watching us. I was like does anyone want to sign the slut and I just started passing the sharpie around and some people were coming up and they were writing their name or writing a degrading thing on him and he got written on by like 30 different people. And what are they writing like all like degrading things? Is that what it's about? There was like degrading things, there was praise, there was people were writing their names on him, people were writing like someone drew a Pokeball. Like it was just sort of the idea of him being tied up and people being able to do what they wanted to him. Right, right. I cannot really have him say in it. So we did that for a little bit and then we ended up, so with the anal hook still in, he tied up.

33:42I started fingering his ass and I was like, okay, like anal hook is already a lot in your ass. So I started fingering him like I'm not sure how much he can take and I slowly get the small dildo and I'm like, oh wow, like he can take a lot. So with the anal hook in I started paging him. Have you ever done that before? Actually I think that might have been the first time I paged him. I paged someone else but not him. Right. So I'm doing that and the other two girls are still like making out with him and touching and using him and stuff like that. I swap with my rope dynamic friend so she can take over paging him and he starts going down on me. So he's going down on me and she's paging him. I'm making out with my other girlfriend. He's making out with her work. Like just to move it all around. Eventually my rope friend's boyfriend, so my neighbor, he was just sort of standing on the sideline. I was like, do you want a turn? Paging him? Because my neighbor was locked in chastity. He was full cross dress. Oh my god. So he takes over and we put the strap on on him.

34:42He's still caged and everything and he starts paging my boyfriend. Well, he's paging my boyfriend. My rope dynamic friend starts paging him. So it was like someone paging someone being paged by someone. Like a trade. So yeah, well my boyfriend's going down on me. Yeah, crazy. And so they did that for a while and then we took the hook out of my boyfriend. He turned over and then the neighbor friends started paging my boyfriend a blow job. I'm riding my boyfriend's face and he's eating my pussy and eating my ass and things like that. And yeah, we did that for a little while and we still had people coming in and out of the room. People were still signing my boyfriend. He's still blindfolded and gags. Like genuinely can't do anything and put it for a while like that. And that was mostly it for the night. We went back in the hot tub again for a little while. Well listen, I have a million questions anyway about the hotel takeover specifically. Like what is the demographics of the people that were there? Was it mostly young people like around your age or were you the like young gas?

35:45Like what was and you know it was mostly older people. Like I want to say it was mostly like 30s to 50s. Okay, mostly couples. It was a good mix. It was a good mix of couples and there was a lot of women. I know this organizer is well known in the area and does most of the hotel takeover. Yeah. She had a very good mix of like women and men. There was quite the age difference. And like mostly young people this there were part of our group. But we're also like I'd be friended most of the young people in the community around here because that's just because not many of us. Right. So you know each other small world like we were saying before. Yeah. Okay. Uh-huh. And were they are they will see attractive people like what's the vibe in your small town? It was, no wasn't even really hot. Like there was some really hot women there. There was some pretty hot men there. And it was like it was a good vibe. It was very upbeat. They had music. They had amazing food. Oh my goodness. I was so impressed by the catering of the energy. Really? They have food like a swing or let the hotel take over. How long? Like what time does it start and what time does it end?

36:47It started at 7 p.m. and it went till 2 p.m. Wow. And are there like constantly because I've never been to anyone. So it's interesting for like me to get like paints like you know how the picture painted. So how many rooms did they rent again? Like you said it's not the whole you know. So we didn't actually take over the hotel there. Right. Like a cafe. So we were in that little place and there was like five rooms, two bathrooms. There was the outdoor hot tub. There was like an outdoor little tent thing set up. Oh okay. So it was a separate part of the hotel but it was still a part of the hotel. Right. And everyone now do a lot of people come and go or is it mostly like all the people show up at 7 and say to two or is it just like new people coming in? Everyone's put a show up like in between 7 and 8 and most people stayed the whole time. There was a lot of faces I saw the whole time. Oh my god. So like tons of action going down. There was. Yeah. No. I walked into the one room to use the bathroom and there was like five people fucking each other. And then I walked into the other room and there's an impact spreading scene going on. This one guy spanked this chick for like two hours on the one bench.

37:49Like it was. There was a lot going on. You can walk into any room and there was something happening. Oh my god. That's so crazy. And like you know, I mean because you're like here you are so young having experience so much when you're with your guy now because you have a boyfriend. And you're just having like a vanilla sacks at home. Is it just as fulfilling because it's like different and it's emotional because you're like feel have feelings for him or like do you know like has it desensitized you at all? I don't know. We really don't have vanilla sex both of us are so into the scene that like most of the time it's like if we're having vanilla sex it's still starting to where I'm like doming him and riding him and something like that. Or it's turned into a cross dressing scene or we're doing like a state adding thinking to it like we really don't have much for vanilla sex. And when we do like it is so it does not take away from it. It's so like a great feeling and it's so like great to not only have someone to explore king with but to be emotionally connected to because I've had dynamics where I've got to explore the king side and I've had relationships where I've got to explore the emotional side.

38:52But this feels like one of the first times that I've been with someone who matches my king energy. Yeah. Which is really exciting. And he must be excited too because I think you know listen if you're a girl who's like into a lot of things when it comes to sacks that's really open and crazy. Like you're going to find a line of guys being like yeah I struck gold. But the opposite isn't necessarily true. Tons of guys out there are looking for a lot of kinky sacks but most girls are like no thank you. Okay I'm not putting you in a cage. I don't want to fuck you if you're dressed in a dress. You don't even be like most women would be like uh uh. So really he's like super lucky to have found someone that matches him and is into all the things he wants. I talked to crush dressers all day long. I even have a separate section on my page here on just for them because it's such a common fetish right and a lot of guys are doing it. Especially on the DL and the biggest problem with most fetishes and even a lot of kinks and a lot of things that guys are into they can't really tell their girl because most girls will be like oh that's gross. You know what I mean or oh I'm not like into that at all so it's hard you know so he's really lucky that you know not it's not like there's one thing to be okay with it but it's not like you're okay with it.

40:01Like you're like down with it you know what I mean. Oh yeah no I'm down. Yeah I love it. Honestly I've done like I was never necessarily into it but I have a dynamic partner and he brought it up that he was into it so he might sort of explain it then I met my boyfriend and he also brought up that he was into it and I'm like I like this way more than I thought I would. Right. And it's kind of fun as well because I've been a cause player for years I have the wigs and the dresses and the makeup and things like that. So I'm walking in these guys lives and I'm like hey I'm into this and I'm like perfect. I don't know how to do this. Oh my god so wait so you're and it's like does it do you like your you know your partners who have been crush drusters like to dress up sometimes and not be dressed sometimes do you like you know like do you get into it like at all like do you like I think it's not like it's super fun to dress them up when they're seven but like if they're don't mean me I definitely like I don't necessarily want them dressed up as a girl to don't you like that's not my thing it's more of a like I enjoy having that control over someone my boyfriend went on a week on work trips the other day and so he taxed his bag all up and well he's in the bathroom showering I took all his boxers and his bag and replaced him with panties so he went on this week on work trips with nothing but panties in his bag and so it was like kind of fun to have that control over someone.

41:12Did he love you for it like what kind of text did you get from him when he opened up his luggage and saw what you just did. Oh he was so excited well not only that but when he was going on his work trip I kind of empty that his closet and replaced half of it with like girl clothes so he got come back to a feminized closet as well. Oh my goodness. Yes and I got him pretty into the mindset. Yeah you were made for a guy like this I mean it's like so crazy because like I said I have so many guys on that would be like oh my god I want to date her next if this guy doesn't last how old is this guy and how come like you know do you see yourself dating him long term. I think I do he's honestly pretty amazing and he's 28 so he's a little bit older than I am but not ridiculously okay. And why don't you explain to people because a lot of people don't know anything about cross-dressers or you know or any or sissy's that want to be cocked or all that kind of stuff and you know like how and a lot of people I think sometimes assume that you know first of all cross-dressers are gay which most of the time they're not they're actually very straight and it's like they're love of women and everything that women wear and dress up like is what what's the best way to do that.

42:15And what I think is what is what sort of rules their life and why they that's why they want to dress up not because they want to be with guys you know what I mean but like what how does your guy present when he's not cross-dressed like would anybody like like what most people never have a clue that this is what this guy you never have a clue he's pretty hyper masculine he's like six three so he's pretty tall he's a bigger guy he works with a security guard. And so he goes to work and you have this like bulletproof best this big work uniform and I'm like I know you have panties under that. Oh my god isn't that crazy. Yeah no it's you've never had you expect and same with my other guy who does cross-dressing he's the same thing. And now the pagging do you get into that? Hey my name is for that time we did a bit at the party and then I've done like we've used plugs on him for sure I keep him caged a ton. Yeah how long so long has he ever had him caged up? We can have but we're also still working so he was exploring a bit with my rope dynamic before him I got together and he was wearing like a lot more and a lot more often but because they haven't done anything recently he just hasn't worn and it's like something you have to get back into slowly like you can't just go from not working.

43:25So let me ask you this because that's like you know a lot of times when someone's dressing they're like the seven it sounds like when you're putting them in a cage you're kind of like the dumb but I know that's he sometimes doms you right you're kind of like a switch correct. I certainly am a switch if anything I'm actually more suvy yeah yeah okay cool so and what has gone down when he has domed you. We've explored impact quite a bit recently that's something I really enjoy the idea of bratting and like being spanked and things like that that's in a lot of fun and then we also recently got like a cage like not a chance to cage but like a cage. Oh that's been kind of fun to explore is like bratting and then getting locked up or he's like locked me up and nude in exposing positions and tied with my feet up so he's just sort of there and he can use toys on me or just watching or videoing me or stuff like that. It's something we've explored recently like that more exhibitionist side that's a little bit of humiliation for you to know a little bit.

44:25Oh definitely yeah. So we've explored that a bit recently he's used toys on me vibrator on me we have a fuck machine that's kind of fun that we've explored. I do all kinds of dress up as well. Does he enjoy seeing you with other guys like do you plan on going more to like swing or clubs or doing things or bringing partners in together? We haven't super talked about me with other guys but we have that couple of friends from the party we talked about swinging with them for sure and you super into seeing me with women absolutely like I've sent him photos making out with my friends and he thinks it's the hottest thing ever. But I'm not too sure I know he's something he's sexually attracted to guys like he'd want to be fucked by a guy but he's not into guys like he's not romantically into them he's relatively straight other than the sexual aspect. Right but let me ask you this would you like to see him with girls do you get into that like do you enjoy that? Oh absolutely. It's so entertaining I also feel like it was fun having him tied up at the party and watching my two friends to use him and stuff like that well even when I was just standing off to the side.

45:30I love it so much. Right and so you know so basically when you say you guys don't really have vanilla sex I mean do you are you guys going out because that was when at 22 years old you're going out every weekend right like that's how I was so like is every weekend you guys going out to these kind of kink parties and stuff. They don't let super often you're asked I'd say we go to maybe one every two months. Oh okay. But most of my kink stuff like was at home or it's like at our friends places or having friends come over or something like that. Right your kink friends like all these people you met them mostly on fat and stuff is that is that where you have like all these kink friends? Mostly for events so like I said there's a rope jam that runs here so it's a monthly meetup where we just hang out and do rope and that's why I've met most of my kink friends and then through them I've met other people or things like that it's mostly in person. Yeah and what is that community like now that you have all these friends that are into the same things as you and you know you guys all get together and you play together and you swap together and you do all that kind of things like what is it like being a part of that community for you?

46:32It's pretty great like it's definitely fun to have these people where you can just be open with. Yeah. And you have to hide that from your friends and get to talk openly like about your relationship and the things you explore or ask questions and things like that. It can be a little bit tricky though dating or getting close to people not seeing because when you're fucking three people and they're fucking three people they can possibly be drama. Right. Whereas this person is a little bit jealous of that person or this person have their feelings hurt by that person and now you can't like them or play with them and it can be a little bit tricky to navigate. We haven't come across those issues yet but I definitely feel like it could become an issue one day. Yeah well listen sometimes when poly people come on my show I get like a headache because there's a lot of stuff involved especially when there's like all kinds of partners on each side you know and then partners that are partners you know. Are you do you consider yourself poly because I do remember you were kind of like poly last time.

47:32I don't know if we're necessarily poly like we I think we would only date each other mean my boyfriend they're dating each other but we are okay playing with other people as long as it's a conversation. Right. And it's not just oh hey I have to put three guys today. We have to be like a hair you all right if I go and do this scene with this person that you knew or I know is safe or something like that. Right but you did say like I said in a picture of me my girls making out like are you fine to like make out what girls you don't have to text them before like hey I'm gonna make out my friend. Well these people that he already knows and we've already communicated that are okay to play with okay so you have people that it is okay with right ahead of time you don't have to ask permission. No. Yeah interesting and do your vanilla friends know about all this stuff you did say you're kind of like very open. I do my vanilla friends know all about this so my vanilla friends well I'd say my vanilla friends but it's like my trans friend that I used to help out. Of course yeah my other buddy that knew that I used to hook up and it was like. I'm so open with them they know everything I'll call them be like oh guys I want you the wildest sex party this weekend.

48:35Yeah and they love they love hearing all of the details none of them are necessarily into it like I am. Yeah but they're not judgey. They're not judgey. No because it's interesting you know I talked to a girl yesterday well no I'm airing her I air at her opposite. It happened like experience and she said like she was very open to all her friends and all of her friends were like and this is a while ago but like you know you just always wonder what girlfriend sometimes because she said she was like telling me. She was like telling all her friends she was very open about what she was doing and they were all asking a million questions and then she found out through the grapevine that they were like you know saying Rooch shit about her behind her back you know but I tend to think she's a little bit older than you. I tend to think of the younger generation just across the board is kind of like less judgmental when it comes to sex is that is that true like nobody really cares what you're doing like they don't really judge you for it like they did in my day. Do you an extent like I'm friends with really open people we've always kind of been like the weirder kids the outcast at school. Okay. So I thought that's why we're friends. Okay. So I'm like I feel like it's just a bit more normal with the people that I'm close with.

49:35Right. I definitely like I work at like restaurant that's very church orientated. I've never tell any of my co-workers about this ever. Okay so right. Even though they're younger and they're more woe can things like that it's just not. You got to kind of figure out like who's a safe person to tell and who's not. Yeah that's interesting to me because I assume you know not knowing because I'm not a part of your generation that there's so much more open but you're saying even like the really woke ones that I would maybe think like oh they are super nodgently they still are when it comes to stuff like that right. Yeah well not absolutely it and then like you'll see a lot of people in the LGBTQ community can be very against pink as well. So from what I've seen just because the way that it can be represented at pride for it's and things like that like I feel like sometimes the LGBTQ community looks like pink is something that's contaminating their space almost and so you can get like a bit of hate from them which is really crazy some days.

50:38Yeah it's not interesting. And you look at this person where I'm like that's the safe person to say that I'm poly-tuber to say that I have this person I hook up with too and then it's like oh no they're not a safe person to tell that to. Right even though they are like right because I do think that like when you're talking about LGBTQ community like that has nothing to do with like that's like your you know that's not like your has to do it sex right that's like your just identification of like who you like to marry who you like to fall in love right so yeah maybe it's like they don't want to be attached to stuff that's just purely sexual because a lot of times people do just sexualize them and they think oh gay people it's gross it's like all about sex but that's not what it's about you know what I mean and maybe that's where that comes from do you know what I'm saying. Yeah exactly yeah or will you see people at like some of the bigger pride parades where they're wearing like a pop mask or like a fetish outfit or things like that. Yeah yeah I think that really is harmful for both the LGBTQ community because that's not part of their space and also for the kink community because you know that's not welcome at their space it's welcome at our space. Yeah it's so weird even in these communities that you think it's so open there's like even in Swinger's Clubs it's like they still don't like guy and guy action and then you like you know it's uh and then you know a lot of times they say

51:46gay and lesbian people don't like bisexual people but one day you should come to the gay parade in New York City you'll see if I can all and I'm sure you do and you're like any big city it's a little bit different but you're still in that small town but I give you credit for having the balls in your small town to be doing all this kind of crazy stuff because like I said you really are I mean living it up and you're only 22 I don't know what's next for you what is next for you. I'm not sure trying to figure that one out because over here for my birthday I've done something pretty extreme really trying to figure out what it is this year. It is a sin June. Oh okay so you got to figure something out. And it's all my boyfriend's birthday in June so I think we're going to do like a kinkie road trip somewhere and try and hit up a few different parties. Yeah you should. We can eat some people along the way. Yeah interesting well we'll do a part three listen you know the deal what do we call you again Abby if you want to send some hot picks like rated R picks for my Patreon. You can you know they could be sexy picks but nothing showing anything revealing but like it could be lingerie and if you want also you could go into are you on my discord already.

52:50I think I am. Okay you could post it there or you could send me picks to post in there on there you could post yourself you could post whatever you want that's a lock down 18 plus site so that's okay but for my Patreon if you can because this episode will be up soon make sure to just send me as soon as possible some picks for that so I have them so when I air this episode I have it already. Listen Abby thank you so much for calling and I love your update I told you I really you know I think you're so super interesting because you're so young and you've done so much which is like you know sometimes I'm talking to people of 50 and that they just start out that at that age or you know even 35 but you're like 22 doing it so it's super interesting thanks so much for calling an inch and sharing your update how fun on your birthday well let me know what you want to do it. I definitely will thank you for talking all right thanks Abby have a good day. Have a good one. Bye. Okay I just want to tell you that my book strictly on this confessions the secret sex lives of total strangers is available now as an audio book I've been waiting for this since it came out in December the book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show some of the best stories okay I kind of picked one from each category.

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