Kink Went Mainstream?! From TikTok Trends to Locktober Obsession (with Amanda Dames)

Send us Fan Mail

What happens when kink leaves the dungeon and hits the mainstream? From TikTok tutorials on rope play to luxury fashion houses sending models down the runway in harnesses, BDSM isn’t hiding in the shadows anymore. But has kink lost its edge—or finally become safer and more accessible?

In this Kinktober special, I’m joined by Amanda Dames, kink educator, coach, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. Together we explore:
✨ How TikTok & social media helped normalize kink
✨ Why chastity & Locktober are exploding in popularity
✨ The rise of femdom, cuckolding, foot fetishes, and more
✨ Why some gatekeepers resist kink going mainstream
✨ How to safely dip your toes into kink this Kinktober—without shame

👉 Don’t miss this conversation if you’re curious about exploring kink or just want to understand how it’s shaping modern culture.

📌 Follow Amanda Dames:

https://www.amandadames.com/
Instagram: @the_kink_consultant
TikTok: @thekinkconsultant
Podcast: The Kink Consultant

You can find my spicy site here. https://talksexwithannette.com/talk-sex-with-me/

My spicy OF handle is @talksexwithannette
My free spicy handle is @annettetalkssex

Subscribe to my e-newsletter: https://she-explores-life.ck.page/e9760c390c

Ask a question, Leave a Comment: https://www.speakpipe.com/LockerRoomTalkPodcast

My substack: https://talksexwithannette.substack.com/

Use Code EXPLORES15 at Womanizer.com for 15% off!

15% Off With my Code Annette15 at myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti

 The viral lemon-shaped toy everyone’s talking about — get 25% off with code ANNETTE25 at https://talksexwithannette.com/go/sp/hello-nancy-lem 🍋 

Get 15% Off The Life Saving, Erection Enhancing Tech Cockring By Firmtech with my code ANNETTE15 at: https://myfirmtech.com/annettebenedetti

Support the show

Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@annettebenedetti

Connect with us
We are on all the socials:

1. TikTok: @TalkSexwithAnnette
2. Annette's Insta: @Annette Benedetti
3. My OF: @talksexwithannette
4. FB: @TalksexwithAnnette
5. Website: https://talksexwithannette.com

Cheers!