Stop Trying to Feel Better — Get Better at Feeling: Heal Anxiety from the Body Up with Dr. Russell Kennedy

If you've tried therapy, medication, journaling, and every mindset tool available — and you're still anxious — this episode is for you. Dr. Russell Kennedy, physician, neuroscientist, and certified trauma therapist, makes the case that anxiety doesn't start in your mind. It starts in your body, as a physiological alarm that's likely been there since childhood. And until you address the alarm directly, you're only ever managing symptoms.

Dr. Kennedy explores why perimenopause turns up the volume on anxiety that felt manageable before, why overachievement is just another way of outrunning the alarm, and what you can actually do — today — to start healing from the body up. Fair warning: Dr. Kennedy takes Dr. Stephanie through a live exercise to find her body alarm. There were tears in the production room.

🎤 Episode Overview
(0:00) Intro/Teaser
(1:30) Stand-Up Comedy, Mother's Death, and What Anxiety Is
(08:28) Why We're So Anxious in a World That's Never Been Safer
(12:51) Alarm vs. Anxiety: The Distinction That Finally Makes Sense of It All
(26:00) JABS, the Default Mode Network, and Overachievement
(46:00) Perimenopause and SSRIs
(53:00) Live Exercise: Finding the Alarm in Your Body (Baby Steffi)
(01:06:00) How to Start Feeling Your Feelings Without Blowing the Lid Off Pandora's Box
(01:11:39) Three Beach Balls and No Progesterone
(01:17:00) The After-Party with Dr. Stephanie

📎 Resources mentioned in this episode: https://drstephanieestima.com/podcasts/ep474

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