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Xander Marin
New York Times bestselling author and husband of Vanessa Marin
Xander is a New York Times bestselling author and the husband of Vanessa Marin. He has co-authored several books with his wife and is known for his open and honest approach to relationships and intimacy.
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E258: Weed, Alcohol, and Sex: What's Actually Happening to Your Body and DesirePillow TalksApr 30, 20261:04:33HostE257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body ShamingPillow TalksApr 24, 20261:03:36HostE256: Doggy Style: Tips, Tricks, and Techniques for Maximum PleasurePillow TalksApr 16, 20261:01:44HostE255: The Sexiest Thing You're Not Doing in Bed…Mutual MasturbationPillow TalksApr 9, 202643:17HostE254: Couples Coaching: Why Resentment Is Killing Your Sex LifePillow TalksApr 2, 202653:33HostE253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sexPillow TalksMar 26, 20261:07:04HostE252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)Pillow TalksMar 19, 202652:29HostE251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and Your Partner Really WantPillow TalksMar 12, 20261:05:34HostE250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas)Pillow TalksMar 5, 20261:03:26HostE249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?Pillow TalksFeb 26, 202648:06HostE248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)Pillow TalksFeb 19, 202655:38HostE247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more)Pillow TalksFeb 12, 202652:55HostE246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s BurningPillow TalksFeb 5, 20261:02:56HostE245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone JourneyPillow TalksJan 29, 20261:02:40HostE244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take)Pillow TalksJan 22, 202649:29HostE243: Your Biggest Marriage Regrets (And How To Prevent Them)Pillow TalksJan 15, 202659:41HostE242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It)Pillow TalksJan 8, 20261:04:10HostE241: Sex Fails: Car Hookups, Clap Lights, and Cowgirl ConcussionsPillow TalksJan 1, 202634:33HostE240: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During SexPillow TalksDec 23, 20251:11:18HostE239: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt. 3)Pillow TalksDec 18, 20251:09:29Host