Xander Marin

New York Times bestselling author and husband of Vanessa Marin

About Xander

Xander is a New York Times bestselling author and the husband of Vanessa Marin. He has co-authored several books with his wife and is known for his open and honest approach to relationships and intimacy.

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Pillow Talks

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No One Told Us

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health fitness sexuality kids family parenting society culture

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Recent Appearances

E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex

Pillow Talks•Mar 26, 2026•1:07:04•host

E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)

Pillow Talks•Mar 19, 2026•52:29•host

Xander Marin

About Xander

Associated Podcasts

Pillow Talks

No One Told Us

Key Topics

Recent Appearances

E253: Ask A Sex Therapist: dry spells, sex pillows, and morning sex

E252: Don’t Give Your Kids “The Talk” (do this instead)

E251: What’s Your Desire Type? Our NEW Framework for Understanding What You and Your Partner Really Want

E250: What Do Men Really Think About…? Part 4 (Heated Rivalry, mental load + areolas)

E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?

E248: How to Talk About Sex With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)

E247: Our Recent Foreplay Discoveries (and how to explore more)

E246: How To Stay Connected When The World Feels Like It’s Burning

E245: What It’s Really Like to Start TRT: Xander’s Testosterone Journey

E244: How To Schedule Sex (our hot take)

E243: Your Biggest Marriage Regrets (And How To Prevent Them)

E242: Penis Performance Problems: What’s Really Going On (And What To Do About It)

E241: Sex Fails: Car Hookups, Clap Lights, and Cowgirl Concussions

E240: The Body Confidence Episode - How To Feel Good In Your Skin During Sex

E239: Breaking Down A Real-Life Text Fight (pt. 3)

E238: Ask a Sex Therapist: Cycle Libido, Rough Sex & How to Sync Up Your O’s

E237: The Real Reason You’re Not Having More Sex

E236: Sex with Other People…Around: Our Holiday Do’s and Don’ts

E235: How Your Phone Is Secretly Sabotaging Your Connection (and what to do about it)

E234: Tie Breakers: Passwords, Period Sex, and Passenger Princesses (We’re Settling It Once and for All)