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Been There Got Out Podcast

Chris & Lisa

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Chris and Lisa of BeenThereGotOut.com both survived toxic marriages with narcissistic partners and the legal and co-parenting nightmares that go hand-in-hand with all of that.If you are struggling in a high-conflict relationship, divorce, custody battle, or co-parenting hell which requires PERSONALIZED attention, let us HOLD YOUR HAND along the way, while providing EXPERT, STRATEGIC guidance based on one's years of success (representing myself in court!), coupled with the other's High Conflict D...

Episodes (380)

Why Men Don't Talk About Divorce Pain with Garth Haslem

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Why Rage Is a Sane Response to Legal Abuse, Not a Character Flaw

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Aug 31, 202624:42pending

The Step-Parent's Side of Parental Alienation: a Therapist/Former GAL Speaks Out

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Aug 27, 202642:05pending

Is Your Ex Gaslighting Your Kids? A Therapist Explains What It Really Looks Like

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Aug 24, 202639:15pending

Fake Voicemail Apps Are Fabricating Court Evidence - Here's How to Protect Yours...

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Aug 20, 202627:53pending

How to Stop Obsessive Thinking About Your Ex: A Somatic Psychologist Explains

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Aug 17, 202646:04pending

Does Parental Alienation Backfire in Court? A Beverly Hills Divorce Attorney Exp...

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Aug 10, 202628:08pending

A Family Court Insider Reveals the Custody Mistakes That Quietly Sink Good Paren...

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Aug 6, 202636:28pending

Why Does My Toxic Ex Get Worse After the Divorce Is Final?

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Why 50/50 Custody Can Backfire Badly in a High-Conflict Divorce

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Jul 30, 202646:04pending

A DV Nonprofit CEO on What Family Court Gets Wrong About Abuse Survivors

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Jul 27, 202623:48pending

Nilaja Ford: The Voice of the Child in New Jersey Custody

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Jul 23, 202646:23pending

Anne P. Mitchell: Spotting a False Allegation Before It Lands

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Jul 20, 202645:36pending

Ashish Joshi: Parental Alienation Cases That Hold Up in Court

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Religious Abuse & Parental Alienation: How Faith Gets Weaponized in a High-Confl...

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The Science of Self-Medication: Trauma, PTSD & Substance Use After Abuse

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Jun 25, 202636:14pending

How to Stop Your Brain from Panicking at Every Text from Your Toxic Ex

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Jun 22, 202632:41pending

Ian Steinberg: Making Mediation Work With a High-Conflict Ex

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"Am I Going to Lose My Child to Alienation?" A Psychologist Answers

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Jun 15, 202620:40pending

How to Survive a Parenting Coordinator When Your Ex Won't Cooperate

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What a Guardian Ad Litem Actually Cares About

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Male Victim Jon: Four Years of Parental Alienation, Then a Text Back

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Lynn Price: How to Negotiate With a Toxic Ex

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Why Did the Judge Do That? A Former Family Court Judge Explains

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What Reunification Therapy REALLY Is (And Why Courts Get It Wrong)

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May 27, 202628:04pending

Dr. Annie Brook: Four Ways to Stay Calm in the Courtroom

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May 7, 202642:34pending

Your Child Refuses Therapy: What an Art Therapist Says Do Instead

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May 4, 202639:44pending

Julia Hochstadt: What to Do When Your Child Discloses Abuse

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James Porfido: When Your Ex Weaponizes the Court System

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Tosha Schore: When Your Child Comes Home From Your Ex's Enraged

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How to Stop Being Terrified of Family Court with Dr. Ben Garber

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Dr. Andrea DePetris: Staying Regulated at Custody Exchanges

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Monique: SB 1192, the Reclaim Act, and Litigation Abuse

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Apr 10, 202631:49failed

Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst: Why 14 Is the Most Dangerous Age for Parental Alienation

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Sara Vandenberg: What a CPS Investigation Actually Involves

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Dr. Sylvia K: Breaking Intergenerational Trauma Patterns

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Dr. Jill Leibowitz: Code-Switching Kids and Co-Parenting Mistakes

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Mar 23, 202631:44failed

Kasia Bukowska: What a Horse Shows You About Your Own Patterns

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Mar 19, 202643:10failed

David Goldberg: Polygraphs and False Allegations in Custody

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Mar 16, 202640:41failed

Dr. Jordin Wiggins: Protect Your Energy Co-Parenting With a Toxic Ex

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Mar 12, 202647:13failed

Why You Can't Be Calm Around Your Narcissist Ex (and How to Finally Change That)

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Mar 9, 202644:53failed

How to Use a Business Valuation to Force Your Ex to Settle Faster

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Mar 6, 202623:10completed

Protecting Your Children: What Every Parent Should Know About Sexual Abuse & Tra...

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Feb 20, 202642:01pending

Fear vs. Intuition: How to Know Your Gut is Right After Gaslighting

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Feb 17, 202638:38pending

Dr. Debi Silber: The 5 Stages of Healing From Betrayal

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Feb 13, 202634:03pending

Does My Child Need Therapy During Our Divorce? Play Therapist Answers

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Feb 11, 202643:40pending

What Custody Evaluators Actually Look For (From an Attorney Who Does Them)

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Feb 6, 202652:51pending

Why You Should Try Mediation with a Narcissist (Even When Everyone Says Don't)

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Jan 27, 202638:43pending

Trauma Bonds Explained: Why You Keep Attracting Narcissists

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Jan 24, 202633:12pending

You're Not "Just Anxious." You're Validation Addicted (And Here's What to Do)

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