1576 - Catherine Joined the Lifestyle and Started Hooking up with TONS of Guys After she Went on HRT

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5:09It is free, but it is private. And you can only get in if I send you the link. I promise you you will not be disappointed. My discord is full of great, effing people. Okay. So if you buy my book, send me a screenshot of your purchase and I will send you the link to my discord. Last thing I'm going to tell you about is if you want to sign up for stc.com. I do have a free trial for my listeners. Stcs like the world's largest online dating website. And it's such a place where you can hook up with people. You could learn all about the lifestyle. You could find out about all the lifestyle events and meetups and all kinds of things going on in your neighborhood as well as if you're going to travel and you want to have a little fun. You're going to find it all on stc.com. Like I said, you get a free trial. If you use my code, 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link that's 37712 or just go to the description and click on the link. So anyway, today I have on Catherine. Let me just tell you she's going to give you guys some woodies.

6:10Okay. Because Catherine sounds like a fun sex operator. When she starts telling her dirty stories in this story, she gets this voice and then she slows it down and she's like almost whispering and you're like, oh my god, I'm like, you're going to turn people on when you're talking. You're going to love Catherine and her stories and the way she tells them. She's super interesting. She got inspired to call in by listening to Linda's episode. Linda was the older woman who started to have a gangbings after she got on to HRT. Catherine's sort of similar, though she didn't have gangbings. Okay. But she did go on HRT and then she got involved in the lifestyle. She did a bunch of things in the lifestyle at resorts, at clubs and everything. And she got out. She wasn't that into it. She explains that whole process. She was married, got divorced. And then she just started to have fun and she just like was fucking all these guys and loving sex and she talks about how it was very healing for her to really come into her own sexual, she's in her 60s and she's having a great time and she talks about all the guys she's fucking now. One guy that she just has phone sex with and you're like, oh, who cares about phone sex?

7:13When you hear her talking, you're going to be like, oh, that guy is a one lucky guy. Okay. She talks about her phone sex guy. Then she's got another guy that she would go to glory holes with and he's got a really, I think he's the guy with the big dick. I don't know. You got to listen to all her stories. They're super hot. Her story I think is really interesting. She's really lovely. Catherine, you're going to love her. You're going to want to date her because she's very into by guys. Okay. You'll hear her whole story. I do have a lot of picks over over on my Patreon if you want to put a picture to the sub-sauce on my page on patreon.com slash strictly anonymous podcast. But anyway, I'm going to be right back on with Catherine. This is the strictly anonymous podcast. Strictly anonymous podcast. Hi, Catherine. Welcome to the strictly anonymous podcast. How are you this morning? I'm doing well. Thank you for having me. No, thank you for coming on. I love like an older woman who loves to bang still. I think it's always inspiring. I think it's always inspiring. I think you got inspired by Linda's episode. And Linda is like an older woman who had like went on HRT and it started having fucking

8:16gang bangs. I love her story. I get to. I just thought she was so eloquent and so in she just owned herself and I loved it and it healed her heart. And I think that we, you know, that heart healing can occur through sex. Yeah, I love that. Yes, I think it can be deep. Here we are. We're talking about sex, but I have a lot of deep fucking episodes that you help people, you know, and inspire people. So let's get your story. Now you're an older woman and you're having a lot of sex now. I need to know, are you also on HRT? Like is that kick you off to be like doing all kinds of crazy things now? The other parts of your story that we will talk about is you have been in the lifestyle and you've been to swing your clubs and we'll talk about that and you have a couple guys you're banging now and you're doing crazy things with them. But let me ask you this. Are you on HRT like Linda? Yes, I am. I have been on HRT for about 15 years. I, yeah. And now did you start?

9:16Let me ask you this because I started when I was like in Perry, Manipause. Did you start the minute you got into Manipause? Did you start so many years later? Like when did you pick it up? No, no, no, no. I picked it up almost immediately upon Manipause. Okay. I did not recognize myself. I was like, who is this woman? I know. And I was, it was so distressing. I remember looking in the mirror saying, who are you? I lost my sex drive, my mood, I became somewhat like a crybaby and I was never a crybaby. And my hair changed and my skin changed and I was determined to find myself. Like, right, I have to have it back. I have to. I'm going to take my period back. Well, it's funny because you know, everyone has this word, Karen's. And I think a lot of the Karen's you see out and about are women that just like are in Manipause and not on hormones. Because when me and my son were in a store the other day and some lady went mental because we like bumped into her cart and she was still going mental like 20 minutes later to

10:17some guy and I said to my son, like, you know, when you see me do those needles, you know, a couple of times a week, that's why I do it. So I'm not like that woman, that poor woman, you know, because she look like in her 50s, probably like, you know, a woman without hormones. You get mad at stupid shit. That's what it is. You become a Karen. You become a Karen. What I, what I call them is I said, look at that woman. I said does she look like a woman who's getting fucked? No, no. Oh my God, I like yours better. I can't say that to my nine year old son, but we could talk like that. So let's get, so let me ask you this, how do you get your hormones? Because there's so many different ways, you know? Right, right. So I, so I probably initially did the creams. Yeah. So I did them back in my 20, oh seven. Yeah. You know, when they first came out and they were thousands of dollars, but I didn't care. I just bit. And now I do pellets. Okay, great. Yeah, and I do them every three months. And I will do my pellets before anything else.

11:19Yeah. Like those are priority. Yeah. And I love them. I absolutely love them. I mean, I am 64 years old and I still have, you know, great energy. I have a great spirit. I still get very horny. I can feel my, like I feel my kitty. She just earned away. Oh my god. I love the way you talk, Catherine. You're going to give me a good episode. I can tell already. Oh my god. Right. It's amazing. Yeah. Now, did you notice the difference at the pellets kicked that all that stuff in more than all the creams and stuff that you were using previously? You know, I really, I honestly do not remember. How long you been on the pellets for? I've been on the pellets since 2017. Okay. So at some point when they came out, you switched from the creams and stuff to the pellets. And you've been happy with them. That's right. Yeah. And so the pellets were injected every three months. Literally, I've had, after I had Linda on who went onto the pellets and then started having Kingbings.

12:19I went and got on the pellets because I've done hormones in every way, shape and form. I've done the creams. I've done the patches. I've done the pellets and I've done the injections. Now, I prefer the injections only because of my body metabolizes things so fast and I work out so hardcore that it was like, it went away. My pellets so fast and I just didn't want to keep up that, keep up because when you say it is important to do in the first priority, like if you're on hormones to keep them regulated, like you can't miss a month and you don't mean like it would fuck you up. Oh, no, no. So it, yeah. So I think I just went on the injections because it was easier to keep me stabilized and not miss shit and not have to get an appointment and all that stuff. But people talk about the pellets being like the best thing ever. So now, were you married when all this was going on or were you single? So no, the irony was I had gotten married. I had, in my second marriage and went into menopause relatively soon after getting married. And I'm generally like a size two, size four.

13:21Yeah. And went to like a size 14 of my life. Yeah. I mean, it was just, I was like, wait a minute. So I remember going to the GYN, your typical GYN, right? You know, just your regular old guy, right? And I, you know, I told him I said something's not right. He said, you just a menopause. He really, really just like kind of dismissed what I was going through. And I was, I remember breaking down in his office and saying, look at me. I look like a football player. I am not a football player. Yeah, no, I get it. And he just didn't get it. And I was like, you know, fuck you. I am going to, I, and so I just researched and researched. And I found a physician and Dallas, flew to Dallas and come to find out years later. I found out that this doctor was pretty much, you know, world for now.

14:22So I kind of lucked up. Wow. What was the doctor's name? Maybe I'll have a mom starting to do a series as a sexual health series thing. If you could think of the name, just send it to me after. Kathy, Kathy, Kathy, cast her. I really, I'll email it to you. Yeah, email it to me. So go on. And so when I went on the pellet, you know, the weight just came off. The mood became better. The sex, the drugs was better. My hair went back to the way it used to be, my skin. And I just felt better. And I felt like myself again. And that's, I just can't recommend it enough, you know, when I was, I'm, I'm, I'm semi retired right now, but you know, with some of my colleagues, I would just look at them. I'm like, girl, get on some pellets. I know. I mean, nowadays, thank God there's so many more people coming out and talking about how that one study that was so anti-hormones that freaked everybody the fuck out, including the medical, whole medical community.

15:23You know, they've sort of refuted it. And you know, now everyone's realizing they're not as dangerous as they were. I was always on them and I've been on them and I always did my research, search beyond that one study that everyone stopped at. And it was like, oh, fuck that, you know, so I always felt like, and you know, like you're actually going to be healthier if you're on them than if you're not. It's not the opposite. But then I love the way you roll. Like listen, I always say there's like problem havers and there's problem solvers. I mean, you got on a fucking plane. That's a problem solver. Okay. You're not a problem, however, you're a problem solver. Like when you're like, I got on a plane, I'm like, I like this bitch. She's just got a problem and she's going to solve it. That's the way I am. If I get a problem, I do not stop until I solve it and then I move on with my life. You know what I mean? That's right. That's right. Yes. Yeah, I love it. Okay. So you get on your pellets now. Are you, so are you married at that time? Like you said, you got married at a size two. You gained all this weight. Like did you get divorced around that time? Or were you still with your husband? Well, just career paths took us in opposite directions literally. And, you know, to different parts of the country and whose career was more important and

16:27then eventually was divorced. Okay. So let's get to the point where you're doing like lifestyle stuff because I know that that is not happening anymore. So it happens previously. Like when did you start getting freaky? So let me tell you, this is a great story. You can love this. So right before, you know, the end of that marriage occurred. And remember saying to him, hey, we've been invited to go on this really cool trip down the Caribbean. Let's go. And we had spent the summer with a bunch of my friends. And he said, hello, I'm going home. We've spent the whole summer with your friends. I'm not interested in doing that. And so I was in a different part of the country. And I was like, I was not happy with that answer. Okay, guys, let me ask you a question. If there was something you could use for just a few minutes a day that could give you bigger, harder, longer lasting erections, more girth and more confidence in bed, you'd

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20:39I was horny. You know, I was horny. And so I go and buy a vibrate. And lo and behold, I have this like advertisement at the counter or something about a lifestyle club. Well, shit, I'm going to check this out. So I went and checked it out. By yourself, meaning check it out, like go in person to that place. By yourself. Yeah, by myself. Oh my God, I love you. Okay. And I had a good time. I had a good time. It was very, you know, for the most part, I had lived a very vanilla life. Yeah. And I had a strong set of drive. And I was, you know, a little naughty here and there, but you know, I went and checked it out and, you know, learned some things about the lifestyle and started partaking in that, met a really amazing man. He and I flew down to Mexico and did the lifestyle club thing down there. It was a little overrated.

21:40But he's a great guy. Oh, the resort or him. No, he is a great guy. The resort is just a little overrated in my opinion. But we had fun. But let me ask you this, though, your first experience at a lifestyle club. Do you do anything? Did you like participate? Did you just watch? Were you horny? Seeing people, did you realize you're a voyeur and exhibitionist? Like give me some more details about that kind of thing. Because you're just like walking through it like it's a normal thing. It's really not. No, it's not. But I was basically initially just observing. Okay, cool. Just observing, really. It was a little nervous. You know what the hell are you doing? But I was curious, too. Well, the great new thing is that you can go to a Swinger's Club and just observe. It's a very good way to sort of dip your toes into the lifestyle or nominogamy, just to see what's going on. No one's going to pressure you, right?

22:41You didn't feel pressure. No, and the people were cool. And I liked the energy. I was like, this is fun. There's sexy dancing. There's great music. The energy's good. You could go in those backgrounds and check out the playrooms. That was fun. I enjoyed watching. And then it's time to grasp. You know, another single guy and we went back to the club and we partaked and had fun. Like in front of people or like, you know, how hardcore do we get? I think they have like these little bunk things. And you know, some of them are completely private and some are like semi-private. We were in the semi-private area. But yeah, it was fun. I enjoyed it. I don't consider myself really like, I don't like live the lifestyle like I see, you know, or from people I've met in the past. Yeah. But I do like the energy. And I think that it goes back to, you know, it's that energy had when you were younger.

23:46And the HRT helps, you know, maintain that or sustain that. And, you know, now I'm older and I'm wiser and I'm, you know, I'm riper. Yeah. And I have more poise in Greece. And so, you know, I still like it. I confess I do. I like it. And, you know, I think about going to one here and there, but I do have a life. And I do have other priorities. But I do have, you know, I have a profile on SDC. So, let me ask you when you went like, when you went to the resort with that other guy, did you do anything there or did you always do some private and just sort of watch people? No, we had some pull action and we played in the pool a little bit. You know, most of the time the women are wearing a thong and the guys are completely nude. And there's a lot of flirty talk and then there's touching and, you know, I had a guy

24:48start, I have big breasts. So I had a guy start kind of rubbing my breast and putting his hand up in my hair. I just, I love my hair and played with. And then we started kissing and then we moved, then they had like these cabanas. And we just kind of went over there and he started licking me. And it was very nice. And, you know, the fella I went with, he was over there doing his thing and I was doing my thing and yeah, super hot. Now, for you was it kind of crazy because here you are. Were you still married at the time or that was after you divorced? Like, because you said, you were married at the time that you got invited and then you just decided to go by a vibrator and then you decided to go. So but at that same time you got divorced. Like you weren't doing these things behind your high school back. Okay. Yeah, right now. So then when you go to these places where you like, did you ever, by the way, did you ever

25:48hook up with a woman? Did you know that you were not into that? Did you try anything new? You know, Kathy, I have been with women but it's really not my thing. Like you tried it. I've tried it. And I can appreciate, you know, really, really can appreciate group sex. I can so appreciate that. But I'm not looking for a woman. I like men. Right. You know, not, yeah. Now, have you ever been in any group sex experiences? I have. I have. I've been in a couple and they were very, very unplanned, just kind of jumped in and participated and loved it. Now, were those at the clubs, were those at parties, were those when you were like young? There was at parties. Okay. So you eventually started going to parties too. Now, do you do that with the guy, you're not with the guy you're with now, right? We're eventually going to work up to your guy now. But like these sex parties and stuff, this continues while you're going to these resorts

26:48and these clubs with this guy or by yourself. No, no, I was going with the guy. I was going with another guy. But we've really were kind of companions. Right. So, what were you fucking? Were you fuck buddies? Yeah, we were fuck buddies. Yeah, we were definitely fuck buddies. We would, I would go down and see him and hit, you know, we'd have, we'd go out on the water or something and we'd play around. But so, tell me a couple of your group sex experiences. I know you have one guy and you're banging a bunch of guys right now where you've had some guys that you really love and we're going to get to your one guy now. But I want to hear like that previous stuff and then I want to end with, you know, this lifestyle, stuff why you stopped it. But you're with this guy and you're having group sex experiences like went, you know, give me a story or two. Okay. So, one time we were at this club and it is predominantly a younger crowd.

27:51And so, generally, you know, there's a lot of dancing and hot music going on and then as the night goes on, you go out to the pool and so you go out there and there's people fucking everywhere. And so, let's you join in. They'll say, hey, come over here. And the next thing you have, you're sucking the guy's cock and his wife is loving it and he's getting so hard and then she's fingering you a little bit and you're getting really wet. But you're talking like about somebody else. Well, you're like you're talking like me. No, I'm talking about me. Okay. So, talk from the first person. Okay. Talk it from the first person. So, after the dancing and everything, you're really sassy out to the pool. And then we're the friend. Okay. I'm with a male friend. Okay. And we're both out checking it out and everything. And then we see, you know, there's like a couple who was fucking and we definitely make

28:57eye contact with the fella. I do. I make eye contact with the fella. He's very attractive. He's just my style. He's a little bit, you know, bigger. I like a big man and, you know, he kind of pulls his hand out and I take his hand and he kind of pops up out of the pool. And then I just went down and started sucking on his cock. And I just, you know, it was amazing. I was just sucking it and sucking it. I was getting harder and harder. I could just feel him pulsing in my mouth. Anyway, so I look over. I'm really not paying attention to much of what's going on around me, but I did notice my friend next thing. I know he's kissing the girl and sucking on her nipples and everything. And then we start, then me and that fella started fucking on the side of the pool, like right there, like people could be walking by and they'd just see you fucking. And it was at night though. It was at night. And it was, it was amazing.

30:00It was just, I mean, he fucked me good. He fucked me the way I liked to be. Well, where's the group sex? Are there other people just walking? Is that considered group sex? Group sex would be like everybody's like in a fucking pile. Maybe I don't know. That's what I think. Maybe not 100% of them. Yeah, yeah. I guess, I guess maybe there are people all around. It wasn't so much. I didn't feel like it was being like exhibitionist. It's just that it wasn't what you were. There were lots of people fucking all around in that pool area. So I guess that's why I call it group. I got that right. And you're with your guy. Are you going to another cock? And you're with your guy and this other guy. How many guys are you with at that time? On that evening, just those two. Right. Okay, cool. How long were you in the lifestyle for? I was probably in it for about a year and a half. And then it's, and then I just, this became mundane and most so I kind of, I

31:06wonder, how and why did it become mundane? Well, because it just seems to, I think that, generationally speaking, I was probably not in the same generation. It just felt, I mean, I don't want to be a Debbie down, but it felt like we're in high school again, anyway. What do you mean? Real clicky. It was clicky. Oh, it's interesting. Yeah, I heard of that. Some plugs are different. Uh-huh. Yeah. And I also felt like, so I'm a girly girl. I'm a girly girl. And, but I'm also at the same time somewhat of a feminist. I mean, I grew up in the 70s, right? So, uh, I can't, and I just felt like that a lot of times like this female, on female action was, you know, kind of pushed by the man and like the girls had to get the party rolling. And I really don't like that. I mean, personally, like, I mean, there's lots of beautiful women and I can appreciate that. But, you know, I want, you know, I've got to the point now where I'm like, hell no, give

32:11me two cops. I'm not doing two pussy. I'm not doing two pussy. He's gonna cough. I'm not sharing. I want to. Right. I got it. Let's get to your guys that you have now, okay? Because you have a bunch of them. One, it used to take you to a glory hole. So we have some stories there, too. Okay. So let's get to all the guys you started to hook it up with after you got it on the lifestyle and then you start to have crazy sex with them, too, right? Right. Okay. So let me see. So I basically, the three stories that I want to share with you start with, I have a, I met a man on a trip at a piano bar and we exchanged numbers and we talked at the bar for a few minutes, maybe about 30 minutes, is very, very, very attractive. We exchanged numbers seven years later. We are still texting each other. We have yet to see each other again. However, we have this amazing fun sex and we've actually become very, very intimate and

33:14how do I say like trusting? Like, I feel like, you know, like he really knows me and I really know him, although we don't need to see each other. And so we're having this amazing sex over the phone. And so what happened to see gets me all world up. And so then I have to go get something real. Right. You're getting people, let me just tell you right now, you're getting people riled up the way you're talking. You're like, oh, you could be a phone sex operator. He probably loves, he doesn't need to see you because if you talk like this to him, you got a way about your talking anyway. I keep doing it though. I'm not saying anything's bad. It's actually great. Okay, it's the end of the summer and I don't know about you, but I'm trying to be outside and enjoy every last nice day, which means rest is definitely not high on my agenda. So if you are like me and you're trying to squeeze every last bit out of summer, you need to check out IndyCloud.

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37:18It's kind of a null of stuff, you know. I could tell he was a little kinky, just by some of his conversations that he was trying to lead towards. Anyways, so we sleep together and holy cow, the man, fox, amazing. I was like, I remember, I was like, oh, look at this, fox, he's so big. And I was like, oh, yeah. And he just knew how to fuck me. With that being said, it was nice and everything. But there really was nothing there except that. And so I just have a little more depth in myself than just, you know, I'm like, well, I can find, you know, I got to find something else. So anyways, I do find somebody else. So I let that go. And I am down in the Caribbean. I meet a man sailing. And we have this like, you know, two week amazing love affair. There's just like, Disney, Disney story. Okay, it's just amazing. The calm, I come to find out he's married, which I really am not into that.

38:22And so, but we continue seeing each other and we have this like over the top energy. I mean, it's just over the top. Both of us just feed off of each other, our personalities, everything. And so we go down to the keys in Florida and we do some scuba diving. And we come back and we're having drinks and our conversations were always just so intriguing. And we'd like to tease a lot of banter and so forth. And all of a sudden it gets up and he says, come on, we're going. I said, where we're going? He says, just come on. Just come on. And I said, I was like, okay, I'm in. Because I always knew, you know, he had some of his leaving. It was going to be fun. And I like to have fun. And so lo and behold, we go to this like, I don't even think these places really existed anymore, but like a sex movie shop place where they have the little rooms in the back.

39:23I'd never been the one. Lo and he takes me back in the room and I don't think of what the hell is this. And all of a sudden, a black, a black, a black car. And he just pops out of the wall. Oh, shit. What's up, banging? Stop your pressing your buttons. You're ruining your story. You're doing so good. You are a great storyteller. Keep going. And so then I was, he was like, baby, come on. And so hell, we start sucking the clock. To gather. Oh, it's like, yeah. I can't have a slight bit of a house. Yeah, so there's definitely a part, too. But anyways, so we just have the, you know, it was just, I think, you know, I was just, I think it was kind of freaked out actually because I didn't like pose. It was like, oh, this is kind of, this is, this is, this is, this is how we're going to have amazing sex. And we get back. Oh, yeah. And so anyways, we leave there. Of course, we go back to, you know, our place. And yes, amazing sex.

40:25Well, I fell in love with this man. I fell in love. Head over heels in love. And, and this is what led me to, led his story is, so I had broken up with a big cock guy. And you have a sob. He's so good. And I had a broken heart because this guy broke up with me. And he reaches out like a year and a half later and says, hey, how are you doing? I said, I'm doing well. How are you? And he goes, do you have a boyfriend? And I said, no, not interested in a boyfriend, but I can do friends with benefits. Because I remember, I remember honest to go and I got that text message. My first thought was, oh, yeah, they caught. I don't want to interrupt you because you're so fun, but you're so funny to me. Okay, keep going. So I, of course, he said, yeah, I'll be friends with benefits. So I did like, I've been doing like friends with benefits with him for about three or four years now.

41:29And initially, you know, it was just very transactional. And, but as time went on, you know, he started, you know, becoming less vulnerable or loosened up and started sharing some of his, you know, fantasies with me. And, you know, I mean, I, I like consider myself like, you know, sexually aware and open and open minded. But I guess I'm naive because I didn't even know about this cockle thing. Like I said, I didn't know about a glory hole thing. Here I am, something cock and go oil. I mean, anyway, he starts talking to me about how he wants to be a cockle. So I started calling him a slut. And I was like, you slut, he loved it. And I started talking really naughty to him. And he would just fuck me so good. And I was like, oh my God, so long story short. For me personally was that I healed my heart.

42:31He healed my heart for me because he fucked me so good in places that I didn't know I could even feel that good. Wow. And it was just amazing. And really over the last few years, you know, I've just come to such a, you know, like a great place. And now I'm like, I can fuck and not like, I don't want to get married. I don't want to do that. And it's okay for me to enjoy all this amazing pleasure. But, you know, it's inside of us that we can experience. And I just love it. And so I have great fun with him. I teach him a lot and kind of boss him around a little bit. And he just, he's just, you know, as you can probably tell from this conversation, I fucked a lot of men. I really have this. No, how can I tell that?

43:32What? Because of the way you talk. And it's a lot of men, okay. But this man is the best man. I mean, I'm looking for the next best because this guy is the best. But we don't connect. The only place we connect is in bed. And I respect him. I like him. He's hardworking. He, you know, is a good guy and everything. But we don't connect, you know, we connect sexually. So I have great fun with him. You said the other guy, the glory hole guy, you're like, there is definitely a part two. What's the part two to that story? That's probably for one of your like girl, girl Friday things. Because you know what I'm finding out, Kathy, is that I think that a lot more men are bisexual than they lead on today. 1000%. There are as many by guys as there are girls by girls.

44:33You don't know me. That's, yes. Of course. And see, I think Mr. Glory Hall is bisexual. And when I look back, I mean, you know, we had a good year and a half, playing things going on. When I look back at all the conversations and all of that, you know, I suspect that. Well, let me ask you this. I mean, did you ever, did you ever do anything else with him with another guy, except beside that one experience, or was that the only one? No, no, that was the only one. Right. That was the only one. Okay. But we did have a fun thing. So we had, you know, he and I had really high energy. We were very, very, very, you know, magnetic in many ways. And so we were at an outdoor bar and we were enjoying the music and we loved the food and loved the people around us.

45:33Well, we end up attracting this woman. And, you know, we're having this, you know, sexy band to talk with her. This is so great. I just loved it. So she was trying to tell, she wanted to know who could kiss better. Me or him. So I go first. I kiss her. And now it's his turn to kiss her, right? Well, lo and behold, I wouldn't even pay any attention. There's a man sitting right next to us at the bar there. And he must have been, you know, he was obviously eavesdropping in on this and thinking, holy cow, these two are easy. So when he goes, and when my, you know, glory hole man goes and kisses this woman so she can determine who's better kisser. The guy sitting next to us grabs me and starts making out with me. So when he finishes making out with the girl, he turns around to try to say like, okay, who's going to, you know, who's going to win? I'm over there kissing another man. Oh my God, hello. Did he care?

46:33Was he into it? No, he loved it. He was like, God damn you. He kissed you. It was great. He loved it. He loved it. You know, because that's kind of our energy. It was just really like, like I said, over the top. It was just a lot of fun energy. But I do suspect when I look back and remember the conversations, I definitely think that he's bisexual. And see that actually, you know, I've been locked up, you know, to my God's hell, yeah. Oh, so I mean, why wouldn't you hit him up and see if he wants to take it a little bit further? Well, because he went off with some other woman. Oh, right, right. So let me, well, listen, you want some bi guys? Okay, like you said, when you said, hey, I think that there's a lot more guys out there that are into that than they cop to, you would be, if you put it out there that you're open to that kind of guy in your age category, there would be so many fucking guys that would be like, oh my God, I hit the lottery because the younger generation are much more open minded.

47:39So I think it's a lot easier for younger guys to be open about being into guys. But the older generation, it's so hard and there's so many women that are anti-inn, would never even consider it that, you know, you're like a unicorn. If you put that out there on any of these apps that you're on, you'll find two guys, or a guy that wants to fuck a guy with you. Okay, you're not going to have a problem finding it. You go, and I'm going to give you free access to my discord. You'll get dates there, okay? Trust me. Because so many guys are into that and they can't admit it because there's such a stigma attached to it, and they're so afraid a girl will be turned off and they can't, you know? So the fact that you're down makes you like a great catch for a lot of guys that want to, you know, be themselves and not have to do it on the DL and, you know, to have a good time. Yeah, you're having a good time. Exactly. And, you know, I'm okay with it completely. Yeah, that's great. You're going to get a lot of dates in this episode. Trust me. So anyway, keep going on with your stories you want to tell. So let me think. So I did have another fun story I thought I might share with you.

48:44So I had a handyman come over to the house one time. And this was recently probably in the last, I don't know, five or six months. And, you know, he's very, very talkative. And we were having some full-oity fun. And so I kind of, you know, I really was like, oh my God, this man. Of course, you know, the HRTs are always going like. And so how old was he though? Paint the picture like was he? He's, yes, he's to me. He's hot. Yeah. He is probably like 57, 8, 9, maybe. He's probably around 62. Broad shoulders build. Good looking fella. Yeah. Really good looking. And, you know, we're having a little full-oity fun. Yeah, because he had DC Palm and he worked for me. And so I had to go into the bathroom. And I remember thinking to myself, oh my God, you're having such naughty thoughts. You're going to fuck him right here in the bathroom.

49:45And anyway, so, you know, that didn't happen. But I was, you know, my kid, he was parry. So I called up, you know, Mr. Come Slot, the cuckoo guy. And so I had him fuck me really good. And then my guy that I, so, and of course, I didn't plan this. So I get nice and satisfied. You know, you know, just juicy wet, squirt and all over the place. Oh my God. And so then I come home. And I get into bed and I'll be all the start getting, you know, these naughty Texas from my guy I met eight years ago. And I did it with him on the phone. I was like, oh my God, you are so insensible. You are, meaning you, right? No, maybe. Oh my God. Yeah, you got activated. That's those pellets. Let me tell you, it's those pellets, right? I really wish you fucked that handy, man. But it's not, you know, it's not porn, it's real life.

50:47But I love that. You were on a spot. Like you didn't fuck him, but you fucked the other guy. And then you got, you sexed it up with your other guy. I mean, you must be, do you, when you do this, sexing with that guy, do you do, you do phone sex? Like you're on the phone talking like you're talking to me with him, right? Yeah. Yeah, you must love it. You could do it for a living. I'm really naughty. Yeah, you sound it. Yeah. And then you get the voice and you get the whole tone. I mean, you're just talking to me. And I'm just like interviewing it. It's not, you know, but like I can imagine if you go, when you get into that mode, oh my God, you could charge for your phone sex, I think. Yamavap Resort and Casino at Sandman Well is bringing the biggest laughs to the stage. Break Taboos with Ali Wong on August 28th and 29th. Enjoy Ralph Barbosa's Dry Humor on September 18th and 19th. And don't miss Nikki Glazer's unapologetic comedy November 19th. Tickets on sale now at Yamavaptheater.com. Only at Yamavap Resort and Casino celebrating its 40th anniversary. You in must be 21 to enter.

51:47No, seriously, it's like really cool. So you didn't mention real quick. You're like, oh, you know, this did heal my heart. Like what was your issues that you feel like sort of opening up and being free sexually and coming into your own heal? Like what was your past trauma? Was it just growing up in a society where you couldn't do what you wanted as a woman or you were a whore? Like what was it that you said it healed you know? I think that because I really don't have any like emotional trauma. Major trauma. I wasn't sexually abused physically abused. You know, grew up in, you know, my parents were married forever. Lots of kids around the house. So nothing there. It's just that I do know that, you know, I've always, you know, and lately, you know, been sexual. You know, I enjoy it. I was always intrigued by it. I'm curious about it.

52:47To a degree would push the limits on it. And what, you know, when I, when my heart was broken, I mean, I think truth be known is I think my heart was so. I mean, I don't think I'd ever had heartbreak like that when you got divorced. No, not even when I got divorced. I'm talking about glory, home man. Oh, okay. He broke my heart. Oh, interesting. Okay. And I mean, really broke it. Just really broke my heart. And I, you know, I'm kind of intellectualized. And, you know, when, when the cuckoo comes, let call me, you know, I saw, you know, I realized. You know, God's given us all these amazing, you know, endorphins and hormones. And, you know, you got to, you got to use them, you know, they make you feel good. And I was like, you know, I just need to get thought.

53:47That's what I need to do to help me get out of this sadness, this, you know, heartbreak. And so he, you know, truthfully, like he provided me with such beautiful, beautiful pleasure. And it felt so good. It was the goodness that we all have in us. And that's been gifted to us. And so, you know, just over the last, you know, three or four years, you know, I just has healed me. And I've come out, I guess, on the other side, you know, just confident in my, you know, in my self-awareness of who I am and owning who I am, and not being ashamed of it. And, you know, I pay my own bills. I follow the rules. You know, I'm a good neighbor. I'm a good mother. And I'm a good six partner. You know, like, yeah, why not? You're squirted.

54:47And so, I know you want to do DVP. You love anal, like, when you want to go to a BDS, I'm club. I mean, you, you want to just continue on, correct? Yeah, yeah, I do. I mean, I am a squirt. Oh my God. I was with a guy a couple nights ago, and he was just fainting me. We're saying goodbye. He was fainting me. I squirted all over his floor. I'm so sorry. I couldn't help it. Where do you meet that guy? Is he one of your guys that we talked about or just a random? Where do you meet your guys, Catherine? I meet them on, either like, you know, like, S-D-C, or I... Or you're on S-D-C. Yeah, but I'll give them my phone number. Like, if I see somebody and I find them attracted, and we're just kind of talking, like, I'll just go back to my car and grab, you know, a piece of paper or something. So, hey, can we call sometime? Right. Well, and you're... Let me just tell people for S-D-C. I always have to give my shameless plug. Like, that's my favorite adult website that I get.

55:50I partnered up with them so I could give my listeners free access, a free trial, so you could sign up there too. And what's great is you just can't... You know, you could meet people and date on there, but you also could get in the know of, like, all the stuff that's going on in your neighborhood. So, you're on there, and you pimp yourself out, like, looking for what? Like, guys that just want to have, like, fun sex? You know, I really... Yeah, yeah. It depends. You know, I do want, you know, someone who's really, you know, seems grounded. Of course, but I'm just saying that's where you get to get play partners. Maybe it's the better work. Right now. That's mine. That's my... I mean, I just went back to it a few months ago, and, yeah, but right now that's where I'm looking. And I know you said you want to get into BDSM? Is that something that you're looking forward to? I kind of do. I kind of do. You really do want to meet, like, you really want to try... No, BDSM, you were saying, yeah, BDSM. Yeah, I'm just curious. I'm curious. I want to learn more. Yeah, you also want to do DVP, you said, or DP, like, so you're looking to do, like, hook up with two guys at the same time?

56:54Oh, yeah, I would love that. Have you told any of these randoms or these guys that you're with? Like, I'm sure I... I do. I do. I do. I do. I do. What did they say? They just look at... Some of them look at me like, holy shit. Yeah. And, you know, I haven't had anybody comment, so hey, I got two guys for you. Yeah, you might have to put it together. Let me out. Let's do the last thing I want to do is give a little shout out to... You know, maybe you'll get some guys emailing me that I want to talk to you. Let's give a little shout out to, like, what you're looking for in a guy in case there's any guys out there. First of all, what I love about you is that you're open to a by-guy, right? What else do you look for in the guys that you would hang out with? Well, I want somebody that is attractive, but if you can get into my head, I'm really... I like that. I like smart people. I like good-looking. I like a fit. Open-mindedness. I don't want any damn hypocrites. Don't give me a hypocrite.

57:59I thought you were saying hip-cracks. Don't come to me with a crack-tip, but you're saying a hypocrite. A hypocrite. I don't want that man that's going to tell me. Oh, yeah. Love how hot you are and how open you are and then get all pissy about... I will open your hot you are. Yes. 100% good. Yeah. Like, come on. You know, like... Yeah, so you have to be real in that respect. And of course, you know, I want you to establish. I want you to have, you know, some funds so that we can go and do. I can take care of myself. I do enjoy being treated here and there, but I'm not looking for a sugar-thout or anything. But I do want to have, like, fun weekends, you know, full of sex and, you know, good food and laughter and some drinks and a beautiful setting. So I guess that might be, you know, but that's what I'm looking for. I'm not looking to get married. Somebody that wants to have, you know, some sexual fun and then is also active, likes to ride bikes, kayak, go to art museums.

59:07Yeah, I love that. So you're looking and what's your age rate? I'm just putting a call on Ksaddua once that email me. Probably from 50 to about, you know, 68ish. Okay, cool. Well, listen, I'm going to give you free access to my Patreon so you could see comments. People are going to love your episode. You should really start a phone sex. I don't know if people still do it nowadays. It used to be a thing when I was growing up, but like, you were really good at dirty talks. You got the good voice for it. Like, you're so good. So many guys, if you're not close enough, I don't know where you are. We're not going to out where you are because you don't want to give yourself a way. But, you know, if guys aren't close enough, you could have plenty of probably like phone sex companions right now for my show. People are going to love your episode. Hopefully you're going to send me in some anonymous pics from my Patreon. And then I'm going to give you free access to my Discord, though, too. Okay, thank you. Thank you. I really love sending some pics. Okay, anonymous, you know, on Discord. And don't send me like pussy shots or anything like that. Like I always say, oh, I would not do that. Okay, cool. So you could send me just like a hot pic if you have one for my Patreon. And then on Discord, you could do whatever, you know, but I will send you links to all that stuff after we hang up.

1:00:15You could join, you know, when the Patreon will start when your episode airs. It'll be a very soon. I love your story. I love the way you talk. I think it's always so inspiring to hear from older people, not just women, men too, you know, who call in and talk about the fact that they're still fucking and having fun and being naughty. You know what I mean? Like I just think sometimes people don't think that that goes on, but it can and it does. And you and Linda and my girl Crimson and plenty of men who are in your age range. I've called it and talked about that. I had a couple on recently who talked about their 60s and they're fucking every day like five times a day, you know, because they went on hormones. I love it. I think it's also like a great ad for hormones. And I'm going to put my hormone place. I use D5 medical, which is like it's a telemedicine place. So it's super easy to sign up no matter where you are. You don't have to go into the doctor. Everything's done over the phone, but they're like a well oil machine. That's where I do my hormones. So I'm going to put a link to that there, because people are always emailing me after episodes like this.

1:01:19Because everyone's going to want to be you, you know, horny and wanting to fuck and still having so much fun, right? And it's really those hormones, those palettes. But anyway, thank you so much, Catherine for calling in. I love your story. You told a great story. Yeah, and I love it. So thanks so much for calling in and sharing. I think it will inspire others as, you know, Linda's inspired you. Thank you so much, Kathy. I appreciate it. You're the best. Thank you so much for calling in Catherine. Right. All right. All right. Take care. Bye. Yama va resort and casino. It's San Manuel is bringing the biggest laughs to the stage. Break taboo is with Ali Wong on August 28th and 29th.

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