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Yeah, we'd like to hear your issues.
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We have our own issues and our own secrets.
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So sometimes we tell them not enough.
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We had to do another day like that where we tell our secrets.
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But then Candice never tells a good one.
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I don't tell a good one.
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So we want the best secrets from you.
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And I know poo's secrets.
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And he's not going to tell the good ones.
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Maybe we do one day where we tell each other secrets that we know.
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OK, you've got a secret.
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My college front is getting married.
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We're not best friends.
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So just keep that in mind.
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So I haven't really kept up with her life on a regular basis.
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And I'm rarely on social media.
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I've just never really been big on social media.
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And after she got engaged, I happened to be on Facebook.
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And my stomach just dropped.
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I totally recognized her fiance.
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And not in a mutual friends on Facebook kind of way.
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In a, I've absolutely been in this man's apartment after a chaotic night at North
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Texas back in 2010 kind of way.
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You've been doing it as a part way.
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So you know, OK, so let me get this.
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So you go on Facebook, you're like, oh, she's engaged.
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Let me catch up with what's going on in her life.
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And you're like, wait, I know this guy.
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So you know I'm hurt like personally, personally, very personally.
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I mean, not, I don't know him well, but, but I do.
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If that makes sense, you know, back then, I was at North Texas living my best life,
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which was occasionally questionable.
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And I definitely hooked up with this guy like a few times and, oh, yeah, I know.
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I'm going to be on to that.
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Obviously, it's nothing serious.
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I haven't thought about this guy in years.
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I had no idea if she was engaged to him.
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And it doesn't really matter from the standpoint of it was back in college.
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But, you know, I was invited to the wedding and I do want to go.
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But like, what if he recognizes me?
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I would assume you'd remember.
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So I just feel so weird and awkward about it.
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But at the same time, like, what am I going to do tell?
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Why would I tell her?
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You know what I mean?
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Like, I don't think that's the move.
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I don't think that's the move.
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I don't think that's the move either.
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But there's no way you could take the chance of just showing up at the wedding,
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knowing that you hooked up.
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And this happened multiple times.
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But like, I don't think he'd want to address it either.
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So like, as long as he doesn't say anything, we're good.
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I don't think he would either.
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What an awful situation.
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I mean, do you need to go to this wedding?
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You haven't even kept up with her.
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I think it would be fine.
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I was totally planning on going before I knew this.
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And I already told my husband about it.
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So that's another thing, you know, it's your husband.
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I mean, he knows, obviously, I've been with other people.
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So it's not like it's a mystery.
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But yeah, I mean, it's not an ideal.
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No, and I know what they're like, yeah, of course, people have passed.
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But this is a little too.
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It's just also the date.
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It's not like you're going to high school or union.
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No, what are the odds?
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This is kind of weird stuff that would happen to me.
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But this is totally something that would happen to me.
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I feel like this stuff only happens to me.
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No, we're a lot of like, we're a lot of like wins the wedding anyway in the summer.
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Oh, Candace, what would you do?
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I just, I don't know why you need to go to this wedding, you know, because there's an
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And she got invited.
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I mean, I already said I was going.
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Weddings can be fun.
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Some people love wedding.
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Like, I'm not a wedding guy.
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Is it involves love and happiness?
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Just too much for me.
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If you like weddings and you're there, like, I don't, I don't know.
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No, of course he's not going to say anything.
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He's going to look at you and go, oh my God.
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But what if he, okay, here's like worst case scenario, is he's like, oh my God, I know
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And you guys are dancing to reception.
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And then he pulls you off to the side.
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Like, and she sees you to side barring.
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And she's going to side bar with her at this wedding.
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I'm going to side bar.
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I'm going to be like, what are you doing here?
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You'd be like, wait, I can't believe you to know each other.
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She's going to be like, what were you guys talking about?
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Oh, how we looked up.
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Maybe you could reach out to him before.
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Don't reach out to him at all.
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Then in the time, premeditated.
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There's three four because I can tell you're leaning in on going.
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So let us know what you end up doing, though.
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I think I'm going to go.
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But I'll let you down.
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Maybe you tell the girl first, hey, just to let you know, I hooked up with your fiancée
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Or is that something you just shut up about?
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Do ladies shut up about that kind of stuff?
