ARE YOU EVEN A PASTOR?! EPISODE 25

In this episode, Bryan, Kellen and Thad get real about what men are up against in today’s world of distance learning, endless screen time, and fake online connection. It’s time to stop hiding behind devices and start showing up—in our families, our churches, and our communities. The guys break down how modern teaching methods, social media, and youth engagement are shaping how men lead, and what it really means to be present.

This isn’t about perfection—it’s about purpose. It’s about men stepping up, leading with strength and honesty, and being the ones who build real relationships that push others forward. Whether you’re a pastor, a dad, a mentor, or just a guy trying to grow, this episode reminds you that spiritual growth starts with showing up and staying consistent.

 Real Talk .....

• Distance learning and screen time are killing real-world connection—step in and lead your kids through it.
• Building solid relationships is the difference between leading and losing.
• Pastors—if you’re not present, you’re not leading.
• Spiritual growth takes accountability, not comfort.
• Social media is a tool—use it with purpose, not pride.
• Adapt how you teach and mentor; today’s young men need relevance and truth.
• The church has to get real if it wants men to show up.
• The Bible isn’t optional—it’s the foundation for strong, grounded leadership.
• Community engagement isn’t charity—it’s brotherhood in action.

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